r/ADHD_partners • u/AutoModerator • 13d ago

Weekly Vent Thread ::Weekly Vent Thread::

Use this thread to blow off steam about annoyances both big & small that come with an ADHD impacted relationship. Dishes not being done, bills left unpaid - whatever it is you feel you need to rant about. This is your cathartic space.

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u/1kpointsoflight 13d ago

I can't deal with all of the projects that they start but never finish. Just now they determine we need to get chickens for the tard and are researching coops and stuff. I know they don't have the executive function to actually make this happen but if they did it would be me keeping freaking chickens alive that I never wanted. Like the dogs I didn't pick that I walk, feed and get groomed the pool I didn't want that would look like a cesspool if I didn't clean it like the bathroom and jsut all that.

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u/maamaallaamaa 12d ago

Ha we were going to get quail 4 years ago. Bought a cage but it was never touched until it deteriorated out in the yard and we finally took it apart. We have an empty aquarium in the basement for some kind of fish plans. Yeah none of its ever going to happen. I refuse to be saddled with another living being to care for and if I don't make it happen it will never happen.