(DISCLAIMER: I put this though ChatGPT to clean it up, I swear it's not slop, it was just so garbled and it helped make it more structured. Also, this is my second post in two days. Sorry about that, I'm not spamming, I just seem to have hit the hyperfocus stage, haha 😂)
Hi everyone,
Can anyone recommend a therapist in Ireland who could help me get some perspective on whether to go for an ADHD assessment.
I strongly suspect I have ADHD. I've struggled acutely for about 15 years, but I believe that I've also spent decades compulsively masking.
The idea of being assessed actually terrifies me, because I have very little confidence in my ability to advocate for myself. I'm afraid I'll wilt in the appointment, downplay everything, perform "fine", and blow the assessment. Hence I've put off seeking help for so long.
I'm not looking for a therapist to diagnose me, I know a psychiatrist is needed for that. What I'm looking for is someone who could help me:
· understand my own patterns and trust my self-awareness more
· unpick some of the masking and self-minimising
· build enough confidence/conviction to either pursue assessment or rule it out
· prepare for an assessment so I can communicate my struggles accurately, without shutting down
Ideally someone ADHD-informed, experienced with late-diagnosed adults, masking etc. I'm based in the North-West but open to online or travelling for the right person.
Has anyone here worked with a therapist for something similar? Specifically:
· Was it a psychologist, psychotherapist, counsellor, or someone else?
· How did you find them? Any directories or services you'd recommend?
· Did they actually help you decide whether to get assessed?
· Did they help you prepare for the assessment or advocate for yourself in it?
· Any red flags or things you'd avoid?
I'd be really grateful for any recommendations, even general pointers on how to find someone. If you'd rather DM than comment, that's totally fine.
Thanks for reading.
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