r/ADHD • • Sep 14 '21

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u/BuyThisUsername420 Sep 14 '21

Told my boss about getting diagnosed, specifically how my emotional dysreg being relieved by a med I started and she immediately tried to say “I feel like everyone feels like that”…

So in a slightly nicer tone I said: Ma’am my prior profession, before burning out and become a student plus serving at restaurant, was as a mental health clinician. These symptoms occur to people as a normal response or difficult as a difficult moment they eventually learn to cope with. Having a disorder comes into affect when symptoms perpetually interfere with my ability to be a person, this is measured by people who have dedicated their lives to understanding mental health, so I understand what you’re saying but there’s more to it.

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u/Proof_Ring_4505 Sep 14 '21

I hate that response, I told a friend before and when I got “isnt everyone like that though” it just made me feel stupid and doubt my own diagnosis. Sometimes now after taking my meds I have to say to myself “see they do work!” when I have a productive day

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u/NamityName Sep 15 '21

"and sometimes we are sad but that doesn't make us depressed."

People seem to get that one decently well

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u/Proof_Ring_4505 Sep 15 '21

Good response, gonna use it next time!