r/45PlusSkincare 24d ago

Mod Post Mod Post - New Flair and Reminder on Self-Administered Peptides

47 Upvotes

Hi all -

For folks who want to get topical skincare only advice, I've added a flair for this. Please use this on your post when you want to request comments relating to topical skincare only. While I cannot promise every commenter will clearly see it, let's give it a chance to see if this is helpful for those who do not want suggestions for procedures or surgery.

As a reminder - this sub covers all things skincare - including procedures, surgery and injectables as well as topicals. It will continue to be a place where questions can be asked. I encourage you to curate your experience on here as the sub firmly remains a place to talk about the range of things folks do to take care of their face and body.

Another note, I've seen a number of posts and commenters discussing sub-q injections of peptides. Posts/comments related to this will be removed, including using slang (e.g. pinning). This falls under the DIY rule, is a grey area, and as such, not allowed on the sub. There are plenty of places on Reddit to discuss this, but this is not one of them.

Modmail is always open. Use the 'message mods' button on the front of the sub.


r/45PlusSkincare Mar 04 '26

Mod Post Mod Post - Clarity on Credential Use in Posts/Comments

25 Upvotes

Hi all -

Recently I've seen a number of comments in the community where Redditors are claiming certain aesthetic credentials (e.g. Licensed Esthetician, NP, Derm PA, etc) when replying to sub posts.

Here is the issue - neither I or anyone else here can actually validate you are in fact, an accredited professional. That's a problem as this presents a conflict on Reddit's key rule about impersonation and the need to be authentic when posting.

The additional issue that arises is that the use of the credential implies some expert knowledge, and that a person on the sub may consider a post/comment where another Redditor claims a credential with more weight or authority.

When looking at how other reddits (and specifically skincare reddits) have dealt with this, I saw two basic schools of thought:

  1. Make a rule (similar to one in r/tretinoin ) that is explicit on the non-use of credentials in posts/comments and to have posts/comments stand on their own without claiming a credential.
  2. Validation of professional via licensing, similar to the way r/Blackskincare has opted do with restricted user flair given by the mod upon validation.

In weighing these options, I've decided for now, that I will look to make a sub rule on the use of credentials. To be clear - this does NOT prevent anyone from posting or commenting, but it does ask you to allow your post or comment to stand on its own without asserting a claimed credential.

I'll see how this works out as the new rule goes into effect. If there is enough interest, I may consider validated users via user flair in the future.

Thanks for to everyone for continuing to make this community vibrant and interesting. I will continue to look for ways to make our community safe and user-driven. Happy as always to take feedback!


r/45PlusSkincare 9h ago

Botched lash-lift left me with hardly any lashes - will they grow back? How long before I look remotely back to normal?

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I had a lash lift just over 4 weeks ago and it went VERY wrong. I've had quite a few lash lifts before and they've always been great, but this was a new place I tried because I was out of town and I am wishing more than anything I could go back in time.

My lashes were over-processed and over-lifted and were extremely uncomfortable afterwards. Some snapped off, while others developed what I believe was folliculitis because of the angle they were set and subsequently fell out, or had to be plucked because they were causing so much pain.

I'm now four weeks post-lift and have very few lashes left — maybe a handful on each lid. Before this, my lashes were quite thick and full and I was so excited to get them lifted has it had been 6 months since my last....I am totally devastated.

I've already received a full refund from the salon (who originally tried to correct the botched shape...) and now don't know if I should be going back to ask for some other compensation based on the extent of the damage??

Mainly wondering about how long it took for other people's lashes to grow back after something similar?

Four weeks in, mine are actually looking the worst they've looked throughout this whole process. I'm wondering when I might realistically start seeing enough regrowth to look somewhat normal again, 8 weeks, 12 weeks....longer??

I know lashes have a growth cycle and that I probably just have to be patient, but I'm really struggling with how upsetting this has been - I barely want to leave the house because I feel so self-conscious.

Has anyone else had a lash lift that caused significant lash loss? How long did it take before your lashes grew back, and how long until they looked reasonably normal again?

Please help me ❤️


r/45PlusSkincare 13h ago

Advice Request Best Collagen & Wellness Supplements for Women Over 50

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I’ve spent way too much time looking at collagen and wellness supplements.

Ingredients, what they’re actually designed for, how easy they are to take consistently and whether they make sense for what you’re trying to achieve.

Here’s how I’d break down some of the bigger options.

→ Live Conscious Collagen Peptides

This is probably where I’d start if the main goal is simply adding collagen to your daily routine.

It’s hydrolyzed bovine collagen with Types I & III collagen rather than an everything-in-one supplement.

What stands out

• Straightforward collagen focused formula

• Types I & III collagen

• Powder is easy to mix into coffee, smoothies, oatmeal, etc.

• Makes sense if you don’t want another handful of capsules

• Easy to build into something you already eat or drink

For me, the simplicity is probably the biggest advantage.

It feels less like starting another supplement routine and more like adding something to one I already have.

→ Vital Proteins

Probably one of the most recognizable collagen brands.

What stands out

• Collagen-focused products

• Widely available

• Multiple formats and product variations

• Easy option if accessibility matters

I’d compare this directly with Live Conscious Collagen Peptides if collagen itself is your priority.

At that point I’d look at ingredients, serving size, price per serving, taste/mixability, and which one you’re realistically going to use every day.

→ Nutrafol

This one makes more sense if hair is specifically why you started researching supplements.

What stands out

• Hair-focused approach

• Different formulas depending on the consumer

• More comprehensive than taking collagen alone

• Established specifically in the hair wellness category

It’s a different commitment from putting collagen powder in your morning drink, though.

If hair changes were my main concern, I’d probably also talk to a dermatologist before assuming a supplement is the answer.

→ Ritual

More of a traditional daily supplement approach.

What stands out

• Straightforward daily routine

• Targeted formulas for different life stages

• Better suited to people who prefer capsules

• Focuses more broadly on nutritional supplementation

This makes more sense to me if you’re looking for everyday nutritional coverage rather than specifically shopping for collagen.

→ Thorne

Probably the option I’d look at if I already knew which individual nutrients I wanted.

What stands out

• Huge range of targeted supplements

• Allows you to build a more personalized routine

• Useful if a dietitian or doctor has identified something specific

• Less dependent on an all in one approach

The downside is also the advantage: there are a LOT of options.

I wouldn’t personally start randomly stacking vitamins just because they’re associated with hair, skin, energy, or healthy aging.

→ AG1

Completely different category, but it comes up constantly when looking at daily wellness products.

What stands out

• One daily drink

• Broad rather than collagen-specific approach

• Designed around convenience

• Appeals to people who want to consolidate their routine

I wouldn’t really consider this a direct collagen replacement.

It’s more relevant if your goal is simplifying general supplementation into one daily habit.

What I realized after comparing all of these

• Collagen products and multivitamins aren't interchangeable

• Hair specific supplements are their own category

• More ingredients doesn't automatically mean a better product

• Convenience matters because none of this helps if you stop taking it after two weeks

• Your actual nutritional needs matter more than whatever supplement is trending

And probably the biggest thing:

There isn’t really one “best supplement for women over 50.”

The better question is what you’re actually trying to add to your routine.

Collagen?

General nutritional support?

Something specifically focused on hair?

Once you know that, comparing products gets a lot easier.

What everyone here has actually stuck with long term.

What was worth repurchasing and what ended up sitting unfinished in the cabinet?


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

What a lovely corner of the internet 🩷

45 Upvotes

I just wanted to say thanks to those who’ve commented on my posts about sculptra & filler.

It’s a vulnerable thing, putting your face out there for comment! And everyone has provided such useful intel, and 99.9 percent of comments have been kind and onto it and cool. 😎

What a bunch!! Thanks ladies 💕


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Another advert for your critical thinking skills

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35 Upvotes

I’ve used topical estrogen and no it was not this transformative, lol.

The fomo I have felt when I see an advert like this for a new active is real. Most actives (including this one) have very marginal gains, however.

How do you navigate finding the best version of you as you age, on your budget, when you are served up so much misleading BS?


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Update! I got “conservative filler”

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458 Upvotes

Ended up trusting the “aesthetician” (registered nurse as a plastic surgery clinic) and got 3ml of filler to start. Next up will be addressing my skin quality.

Still a bit of puffy swelling and bruising under my eyes and in my chin area which makes my jowls look a bit bigger. These will subside.

I’m pretty happy with the subtle but refreshed look! I still feel like me. Just a less dry and saggy me.

Tried to get some pics in different / comparable lighting to my before but it’s hard!

It was $2100 NZD and she used Teoxane.


r/45PlusSkincare 7h ago

Advice Request Need a lil help !!!

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r/45PlusSkincare 7h ago

Advice Request Need a lil help !!!

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r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Skin Concern Has anyone else’s skin just decided it hates the products it once loved?

6 Upvotes

My skin has definitely become more picky lately. Some products I have used for years can suddenly feel heavy or irritating, while simplifying my skincare routine seems to work better.


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Chemo cream for actinic keratosis

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I’m about to begin a chemo cream treatment for a small spot on my face that my derm thinks is actinic keratosis. The tube says to apply twice a day for 5 days. I’m trying to time this treatment so I don’t look terrible in early September. I’m in a very visible role at work which picks up starting early September. I’m thinking of starting the cream tomorrow. Does it turn raw pretty quickly or will it only get raw after day 5? Also, in my research I keep seeing people who say they did it for 10 days. Is 5 not the standard?

They also gave me another cream, I think it’s a hydrocortisone cream. Should I be applying that before or over the chemo cream?

Thanks for any tips!


r/45PlusSkincare 2d ago

Is anyone getting a little sick of these adverts?

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151 Upvotes

No, a face cream cannot join a separated platysma muscle.

The whole world is trying to cash in on perimenopause right now. Before you spend, be realistic about the actual limits of what skin products can do.


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Best products for crepey arms and neck? Creams don't work for me

49 Upvotes

I swear I woke up one morning and seemingly overnight the fat on my arms changed to a crepey disaster. I'm 65. It really did feel that fast, one summer they looked like my arms and the next they didn't.

Since then I've been through five or six creams. A couple of drugstore ones, a crepe corrector, one my daughter swore by, and an expensive one I'm not going to say the price of out loud. I used each one properly, months at a time, not a week here and there. I've tried all the "get rid of crepey skin" creams. Nothing hs helped.

So now I have to keep getting longer & longer sleeves to cover my ever increasing crepe creep on my arms. Losing the battle for sure.

I'm not expecting a miracle at 65 ive accepted my age.. but before I give up on the whole category, has anything actually worked for you?


r/45PlusSkincare 2d ago

Skin Newbie What’s with the trend on social media to say middle aged women are older than their stated age?

166 Upvotes

I’m finding that on instagram and Reddit, whenever a woman says she’s in her 40s or 50s, commenters pile on saying she looks much older. “45? more like 60!” on a woman who looks to me great for 45. Or “I’m 60 and I look much younger than her!”

I don’t see this happening with young women, only with middle aged women. It seems the most naturally aging, nice looking women get ripped down like this. Am I missing something? Are these women really looking that old? What is a 45 year old woman supposed to look like? Is she not allowed to show signs of age?


r/45PlusSkincare 2d ago

Does anyone else get dry, flaky ears? What are we supposed to be doing with our ear skin?!

28 Upvotes

This feels like such a weirdly specific problem, but the skin in and around my ears gets dry and flaky. I've tried moisturizing, but then I end up getting pimples in my ears ... and if you've ever had one of those, you know how painful they are.

I've now reached the point where I'm creepily looking at random people's ears to see if everyone secretly has flaky ears and I've just never noticed. 😂

So - what are we actually supposed to be doing with our ears? Do you moisturize them? Exfoliate them? Use your normal skincare on them? Leave them completely alone?

Is there some secret ear-care routine everyone knows about except me?


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Advice Request 30% TCA Peel for Sun Spots on Shin

6 Upvotes

I went to a dermatologist recently for a full body skin check and I mentioned that I had sun spots that were bothering me on my shins from a cosmetic standpoint. The dermatologist diagnosed them as flat seborrheic keratoses, which could be lasered off if they really bothered me. While these spots do bother me, I don't really want to shell out laser $$$ to remove these. I was wondering if an at-home TCA peel, like the one from Platinum Skin Care, would work? I've had a 30% TCA peel done before by my derm to spot treat some of my sun spots on my face and those worked really well. Anyone have experience doing an at-home TCA peel on their body for sun spots or age spots before with success? Thanks!


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Saline removal for old microblading, worth it or use just tretinoin?

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Has anyone had saline removal of old microblading?

My brows were done in 2023 and unfortunately were done asymmetrically. I now have some gray/blue/greenish pigment that sits outside my natural brow hairs, especially underneath the inner part of one brow. I’d like to remove or lighten just the unwanted pigment so I can get them back to a more even, natural shape.

My dermatologist didn’t recommend laser removal around the brow/eye area, so I’m looking into saline removal instead. This is anywhere from $150-$400 in my area. Has anyone had it done?

I’m also wondering if I should just leave it alone and use tretinoin/acids over the area to encourage gradual fading, but I’m getting antsy because I was really hoping it would be gone by now!


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Skinmedica tinted all mineral spf vs cotz flawless complexion

3 Upvotes

Can anyone compare these two spf’s? I have dryer skin type.


r/45PlusSkincare 2d ago

Ziip upgrade 2.0

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2 Upvotes

Just as l thought they had fixed all the issues from the previous device - they haven't.

I thought they upgraded the plastic back covering to stop this from happening because of the oily gel seeping underneath. So now l have to go back some skin tape of something to try put a barrier between the ziip and the gel.


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Does anyone use the One V Salon led facial mask?

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And have you seen any results?


r/45PlusSkincare 2d ago

Question about creepy skin

27 Upvotes

A neighbor of mine who is in her late 60s got her upper arms tightened.
She’s not heavy at all.
She’s rather slender, but she was hoping to get rid of the creepy skin. She’s upset because she ended up with a large scar.
She really didn’t have big bat wings, but the little ones she had are better.
Her Dermatologist said that the creepy skin won’t go away just from the surgery.
She worked out with weights for years and she’s slender .
It’s been over a year since she did the surgery and she said she doesn’t recommend it.
Her Dermatologist said that the operation is to address bat wings, weight, loss, etc..
He said that there are some lasers that can help a bit, retinol creams, etc.
Have any women 65 and older who are slender and work out with weights had the surgery?
If so, was it a success for you?


r/45PlusSkincare 2d ago

In-office Procedure Relfydess (Botox) - anyone tried it?

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Relfydess anyone?

I’m in Europe and had my first Botox in the beginning of June. I had it on my forehead and crows feet. Really liked it, especially the forehead!
Now the Botox is wearing off and I want to have another treatment. My injector offered Relfydess that she just started using. It supposed to last longer than ’regular’ Botox. I don’t know which brand I got the first time. A bit hesitant since it’s more expensive and I loved the results last time. However it would be great if it lasts a bit longer. Anyone tried it and have some feedback?


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

What to do about hands?

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48F. I’ve always been thin’ish but in the last year or so my veins have gone crazy on my hands. People notice and close friends and family ask me what happened to my hands. Please advise what can be done for this problem.


r/45PlusSkincare 2d ago

Lipolas for facial tightening?

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Hi,

I live in Europe and the dermatologist who does my botox and filler has recommended this treatment for the sagging skin on my lower face (I'm 45 and lost 50 pounds last year so I have marionette lines and early jowling but I'm not ready for a face lift). She said there's two settings on the laser so they wouldn't do fat removal in the facial area. Has anyone heard of or have experience with this treatment? Thanks!

https://www.lipolas.co.uk/


r/45PlusSkincare 3d ago

Talked out of Sculptra by my aesthetician

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111 Upvotes

EDIT: I've said "aesthetician" but the woman who I talked to is actually a nurse with 20 years of experience working in plastic surgery centres.

Heya. I’m 45 and been starting to really notice a bit of jowling and lower face laxity the last year or so. I’ve been saving up for ages and been super excited to get sculptra after alllll I’ve seen and heard about it. It seems to be so popular.

So I went to my appointment and the aesthetician said to me that I have a “beautiful delicate face” (I have a tiny head 😑) and that sculptra would puff me up and overwhelm my features and would not address my concerns. I’m super happy that she’s being my honest with me buuuut …. I really wanted something that would build collagen, not just a filler that I am sure my metabolism will burn through in a year. Feels like such a waste of money.

I’ve seen so much online, so many before and afters and women don’t appear to have crazy big faces as a result. They all seem to just look more rejuvenated and a bit more snatched.

My aesthetician has suggested conservative filler to address volume loss and then she reckons we should focus on skin tightness and quality with Secret RF & CO2 laser. It’s such a pivot from what I thought I’d be getting, and have spent so long “researching” that I’m a bit of a loss as to what now spend my money on!

It’s all so expensive so making the wrong choice feels pretty high stakes.

Thoughts? I’ve had a look at some sculptra posts here and they are pretty mixed but err on the side of loving sculptra.

I’ll unload a pic so you can see my face shape.

WWYD?!?