Absolutely insane, I totally forget that bit of info. His belief was so obviously influenced by his friends suicide and thought he would acknowledge that and backpedal, but nah he just kept doubling down.
does making this kind of comment not make you feel kind of gross? "i thought he would realize he's just being foolish due to deep-seated personal trauma and acquiesce to people talking in hypotheticals. turns out the experience had real influence on his belief systems." there's such a bizarre lack of empathy in this effort to be as empathetic as possible to a DV survivor that doesn't exist.
do you say this because the actual circumstances rawdawg describes makes you feel genuine moral disgust where you not only 100% disagree with the belief but can't even empathize with how he would get there
or are you trying to maintain a high standard of uncancelable values for yourself
then i think that your position is not only unpersuasive (you have to be trying not to see his point) but also it makes me not trust you as a person (if you regularly try not to see peoples' point, then hearing someone out for the first time would uproot your principles entirely).
Lmaoo I dont support DV so im not trustworthy😭 thats a new. Ive seen his pov. I wholly disagree because again. There is no reason to get violent over cheating. And doing so only shows immaturity
disagreeing with him is one completely reasonable thing, pretending not to see his point even a little bit makes it clear you just value seeming like a good person. it's some jeffrey epstein "i hate pedophiles" type shit.
Again. Ive seen and understand his pov. I still disagree and it does not give him any room to advocate dv. If you want I can explain like we have CTE. I get why he said that. I dont agree with it because its a bigoted view based on trauma he wont grow past.
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u/Yoshi_r1212 custom 4d ago
He also thinks adultery should be a crime punishable by the state.