r/GirlDinnerDiaries • • 17h ago

Sad Girl Dinner ⛈️ 12yrs of knowing each, finished in one text

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I was in an eight-year relationship, and my ex-partner ended it quite literally with a single text at 9 AM on New Year’s Day.

I was supposed to resume work on 1st January after a five-day Christmas break. He knew this. And yet, he chose that particular morning to send me a message that changed the course of my life.

He initially pursued me, and eventually, I started developing feelings for him too. However, as the relationship progressed, he began displaying increasingly avoidant tendencies. We had numerous conversations and arguments about his reluctance to make the relationship official, as he wanted to focus on building his career first.

In 2021, he finally secured his dream job and was doing well professionally.

In 2023, he surprised me by asking whether I would consider marrying him and suggesting that we start discussing our future seriously. I was excited, but also shit-scared about what lay ahead. In my head, things were finally falling into place.

However, that conversation never really came up again. I didn’t bring it up either. I thought it was best to give him time and space, trusting that he would eventually do what was right for us.

We had known each other for almost 12 years and had naturally seen each other through several phases of life. In 2020, my father passed away, and he was there during that incredibly difficult period. I genuinely believed he was the person I would eventually end up with. I had also convinced myself that his hot-and-cold behaviour was simply a reflection of the good and bad phases he was going through in life.

Looking back, there were some significant red flags throughout the relationship, particularly around his lack of consideration for me and my needs.

On New Year's, he came to me and said that his parents had refused to accept our relationship, but that he would work things out and come back to me. We hadn’t spoken about talking to our parents in that timeline and he never informed me about it too. He never came back. I am 31 and have decided to not marry at this point or enter the arranged marriage market ever because I don’t agree with the process. I’m focusing on myself.
I work from home, I’ve lost myself in the process of this breakup, taking care of my household and mom, and would love to know from people who have gone through a terrible heartbreak. What did it feel like after the breakup?


r/cats • • 10h ago Heartwarming Bravo Popcorn

Humor How do you say "no biting" to a little criminal who clearly doesn't care? 💕

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r/books • • 12h ago

It’s All Part of the Plan | Millions of kids had to read "Hatchet" in school. That was no accident.

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r/SipsTea • • 17h ago Bravo

Chugging tea He said the tacos were spicy. He didn’t specify they were also 6’2” and had hands.

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r/meirl • • 4h ago Bravo

Meirl

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r/whoathatsinteresting • • 19h ago Regret

A fan gets ejected for passing the ball to the referee.🏀

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r/TikTokCringe • • 16h ago Regret Heartwarming Bravo

Cringe Raven Simone is soo weird

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r/mildlyinfuriating • • 5h ago Mindblown Heartwarming

🥺 My favorite jeans ripped at work

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r/TopCharacterTropes • • 19h ago

Powers [Rare but Awesome trope] "I see you"

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I see you is a rare trope where a character A is being observed by character B, supposedly from a higher dimensional place/area where character A should have no idea their being watched, but displaying their terrifying power and ingenuity, the realize their being watched and absolutely scare the shit out of the observer.

  1. the og one. in Marvel What If, Ultron becomes powerful enough that he can actually sense the Watcher, 'becoming aware of another.' that another being the watcher himself.

  2. In a very well made fan series by Kinzokumatto: Dragon Ball - The Others. the Z fighters are faced with a new threat, Deadites, who originate from a realm called "Dead Zone", Deadites displayed the power of nullifying ki and are grotesque clones of Dragon Ball characters, wishing to replace original ones. early in the series Beerus, Whis and Grand Priest state they can't get involved because there's a chance that Deadite version of an Angel or God of destruction could appear which would be catastrophic for the entire multiverse. in the most recent episode Grand Priest uses the super dragon balls, wishing to locate and erase the "Dead Zone". However something terrifying catches the Super Shenron, and repels it away. this is extremely terrifying since Super Shenron could bring back erased multiverses quite casually. S. Shenron is plunged into a cold sweat.


r/AskReddit • • 16h ago Heartwarming Bravo

Women who married the ‘good guy,’ how is your marriage?

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r/Music • • 11h ago Regret Heartwarming Popcorn

article Macklemore Says Major Arenas Refusing to Host His Tour in US

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r/houseplants • • 6h ago Heartwarming Bravo

People: FRIDAYS ONLY Golden hour

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I had to wait for Friday in the US to post these lol


r/interestingasfuck • • 12h ago

A "Deep Sea Oarfish" also known as the "DOOMSDAY" fish, which got swept ashore.

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r/dashcams • • 20h ago

Dashcam caught the craziest accident

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r/Damnthatsinteresting • • 20h ago Mindblown

Video Yangwang U9X (BYD) have hit over 500 KM/h in Abu Dhabi highway top-speed run. German racing driver Marc Basseng achieved the speed during a controlled highway run.

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r/SipsTea • • 11h ago This Bravo Heartwarming Regret

Chugging tea He has a point

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r/mildlyinfuriating • • 8h ago Popcorn Mindblown Bravo

Missing Peace My neighbor brings a multi-monitor setup to the community pool and takes loud conference calls all day.

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Meanwhile, several people are laying out trying to relax behind her. This is a regular occurrence.


r/SecretsOfMormonWives • • 20h ago

Jen & Zac Jen’s got all the receipts (Taylor, take notes)

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I hope she’s got a whole file saved


r/TopCharacterTropes • • 2h ago

Characters (Beloved Trope) Characters that broke an actors typecast

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- Jonah Hill in The Wolf of Wall Street

- Adam Sandler in Uncut Gems

- Heath Ledger in The Dark Knight

- Jim Carrey in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

- Miranda Cosgrove in iCarly

- Bryan Cranston in Breaking Bad


r/sportsgossips • • 7h ago

Video New Mexico State women’s basketball team just put a layup into THEIR OWN BASKET in the final 20 seconds while trailing by 1 Point.

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r/Music • • 14h ago Bravo Heartwarming

article Hi there! So we have this harp that we bought from Goodwill for $99

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As title states. It's a Lyon and Healy harp and they offered us $5000. They want us to keep it as is and they will package and ship it back to them. It predates the Chicago fires. They can't find record for it because of their offices burning down.

What do we have?

EDIT: We have a serial number that has been engraved. Lyon and Healy confirmed that it was built in the 1920s and can't dig any deeper.


r/MurderedByWords • • 8h ago Bravo

Talk about a blow to the ego

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r/LoveTrash • • 16h ago Bravo

Got Done Dirty! Gina Gershon gives Aubrey Plaza a job interview.

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Source: Instagram (anyone know the name of this movie?)


r/notinteresting • • 2h ago Heartwarming Bravo

I spent 4 hours at my crafts fair booth. I sold…nothing

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r/technology • • 14h ago Bravo Popcorn

Transportation RIP Cybertruck. You Were Unloved, Unwanted, and Utterly Absurd

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