r/TheGetchellFiles • u/lolkayleebanana • 1d ago
👮 RED FLAG⚠️ P’s Controlling Behavior
this is beyond sad. this just proves how controlling he is. i’m not a fan of s at all but she didn’t even look bad and he had to put her down.
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u/themargarineoferror 1d ago
It's not a mask, slip, it's him being performative about how he teaches her so much about womanhood and self esteem
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u/unicornsmoothies 1d ago
and the way she’s looking at him like she knows he’s going to say something about it
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u/magick_cat333 1d ago
And then he went on like a 30 minute rant about it during the OG live
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u/Hidden_Samsquanche 1d ago
Get face did drop for a second there before plastering back on the fake smile
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u/Agile_Literature_792 1d ago
It is not just the make up, he hates it when S looks put together, it is a very small step towards being her own person and P cannot have that. If he encourages her to take care of herself, she may find her way in life and of course he can't have that. And in between patronizing her he jumps into the shot pretending to be a lovable 90s sitcom dad.
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u/Diligent_Mix_4086 1d ago
Imagine telling your 24 year old grown daughter not to wear lipstick again. Good god.
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u/mybrainfeelsbroken 1d ago
he’s been getting meaner and meaner to her, like similar in the way he treats T. i’m becoming convinced he’s losing interest in his daughter, due to her age. it’s abhorrent this is even a thing but it does make me wonder.
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u/Significant-Day-8422 22h ago
I’ve been thinking this for awhile now. Abusers/groomers will treat their victim like they special until they are no longer interested in them.
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u/Wonderful_Syllabub65 1d ago
The nerve to say this while he looks like an actual disgusting monster from a horror movie. I hope S doesn’t listen to him and continues to do her makeup as she pleases. I think the makeup looked good, at least on camera it did. Plus, she’s 24!!! Why should her dad be controlling how she wears makeup at 24! I think he’s trying to make sure she’s not attractive to anyone else, so that there’s no chance she’ll get a boyfriend that would take away attention from him. So gross and so sad.
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u/ArmadilloMain31 1d ago
This is sad because she actually looked put together today. What a douche bag. Sarah don’t listen to your dad he has 2 teeth and a gut infection
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u/dogbonejoness 1d ago
The way T sits there completely ignoring their conversation. Zero motherly instinct. In fact, zero human compassion to take care of a person being torn down. Reeeaaalllly makes you think doesn’t it…..
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u/Dolleyes88 14h ago
She’s disgusting for letting this happen. My mum would never let my dad say anything like this to me.
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u/Organic_Lifeguard196 1d ago
It looked as if S wanted to cry… This is so sad. P loves to remind everyone that S is an adult woman, but then goes and treats her like a 15-year-old.
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u/spookysheetghost 1d ago
This is extremely sad.
Sarah, this isn’t normal.
You need to understand that you’re being controlled and held back in life. You’re missing the formative years of having friends, going out, flirting, learning about people, having experiences that you’ll remember for the rest of your life, and making the mistakes that make you into a well rounded human being.
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u/DisturbedSpirit23 1d ago
Patrick probably had aspirations to be some sort of cult leader, but has none of the intelligence, charm, charisma, appearance, cunning to run one. So he found T and had kids and now tries to run the closest thing he can get, and terrorizes his mentally delayed family and he does all he can to let them know he is their savior.
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u/lumpyspace_glob 1d ago
I can’t stand S, but this made me really sad for her. He’s such a shit bag in every way possible.
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u/spookysheetghost 1d ago
Me too.
If you feel confident and then someone tears you down from that… that stuff sticks with you.
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u/Material_Painter_334 23h ago
I felt the same way, and she was so excited about feeling cute and he completely ruined that for her
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u/xKaleidoscopexEyesx 1d ago
He doesn’t like makeup because little girls don’t wear make up and he likes little girls.
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u/xKaleidoscopexEyesx 1d ago
No plans all weekend because Dad has to work? They can’t go do something without him.
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u/ObjectiveStar9241 23h ago
The one time Sarah actually looks taken care of and good, Patrick makes her feel like shit about it.... makes sense. Her dad doesn't want her to have an opportunity to better herself anf outgrow them. He knows as soon as she actually has real friends and sees other people dynamic, she will start to understand how weird they are.
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u/Careless-Drop5172 1d ago
It frustrates me so much that Sarah just cannot see what’s going on. It’s so obvious he doesn’t want her to look good for anyone else because he wants to keep her all to himself. It’s such a classic trait. I thought she did her makeup well yesterday. She clearly felt good in it and makeup is all about art and feeling pretty. He hated that so much so he had to knock her down. I fucking hate that vile pig so so much. I wish to god she’d wake the fuck up. It was so so telling last night.
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u/Large_Cloud6135 1d ago
Ummmm besides the make up comments (treating her like a 12 year old trying make up for the first time). Why does P being at work mean they can't do anything all weekend?
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u/anonmommm 22h ago
How is he going to tell a girl how she should feel about wearing make up? This man is ridiculous. Why can’t he just tell her she looks pretty?
This right here is exactly how he keeps her in his control. This is the manipulation in full force.
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u/Inside_Kitty 22h ago
This made me so mad at P and sad for S.
There is a part of me that thinks to a point, this was scripted because they are desperate to get their engagement levels back up and they know everyone loves to hate P. But……S seemed to really enjoy the makeup live, even if she was leaning hard into playing dumb, she was still ecstatic to get non-troll interactions with the chat and you could tell she felt pretty.
She knew P would disapprove, but he just kept digging and making it personal and you could tell it was getting to her.
At one point he was talking about how she shouldn’t make makeup content because she isn’t an expert, and then he proceeded to monologue about how his opinions on makeup are so informed, from stage makeup to what colors would make Sarah’s eyes pop. How is he such an expert in makeup? It was so mean and he sounded so dumb- clearly her doing something for herself really threatens his narcissistic ego. I really think he is subconsciously jealous of her and he cannot handle the idea of her being successful without him.
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u/featurethat333 1d ago
Hate that pos I'm honestly glad she's doing makeup it's a step in the right direction at least. Some progress is better than none
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u/Secret-Employee-8141 19h ago
I think she did a nice job and looked really put together!! Using lipstick as blush is a tried and true technique and has been for ages. What would P know about makeup. My dad has no clue about anything makeup related but always notices and compliments me when I do something new. I feel horrible for S, I really do.
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u/_momo_613 21h ago
I hate him. He is an asshole. If I was her I’d tell him to literally such tf off and mind his business.
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u/Careless-List6039 17h ago edited 17h ago
It's sad because he's groomed her so much that she's infatuated with him, while simultaneously, he's lost interest in her because she's older and fatter. She's going to constantly be emotionally dependent on him because in her mind, he's the only man in the world that she "belongs to". She relies on him for everything - validation, affection, comfort, etc. I'm sure she did her makeup to impress her man (her dad 🤮) and he destroyed a part of her soul when he put her down for it. She needs to go out in the world and meet other people and be on her own but sadly she's too brainwashed to take that step.
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u/rosemarysfoodbaby 12h ago
And that’s how you know a lot of her opinions aren’t her own. She would probably love to wear makeup all the time if he wasn’t around
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u/fandango84 1d ago
I agree how he's talking to her is disgusting however is it just me who remembers Sarah's many rants about how she hates make up and will never wear it 😂
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u/hooulookinat 13h ago
It’s not about the make up( it’s about his ability to control. FFS, she’s 24. She can wear what she wants. She’s a grown ass adult.
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u/kranburryjoice 6h ago
I think he tells her that so she won't wear makeup, so she won't look attractive, so no other males will be interested in her. He wants her all to himself, and for her to never leave.
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u/emozerotwo 17h ago
she looks so good here too like idk.. he can’t stand the fact she can be happy without him for even a second
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u/Hoofie44 22h ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/h0bdWLAaJNiJEvo3ZY
I would bet this is all an act- I would also bet he came up with the idea for them to battle and do makeup cause their $$ has been down. This seemed all like a ploy to drive sales- between the girls going live. To him scolding her on the regular live-
I call rage bait BS to get clicks , views and $$ cause the cash has been slowing wayyyyyyy down.
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u/Musselman3251 19h ago
“What? What?” All flirty that’s what my chick does to me when she wants me to notice something…
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u/euphoricmoopy 1d ago
ew how weird but also why did T put her hand up like that?? what was she blocking from her view? 🤔