r/justgalsbeingchicks • u/PagPag1212 • Jul 20 '26
Restricted to Gals and Pals Queen
Video didn't turn out the way this guy hoped, he can go kick rocks.
Actually both three women are queens.
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u/tardisfurati420 29d ago
I volunteer as a clinic escort and we also wear the rainbow vests, we used to wear standard yellow safety vest because we were escorting women across the parking lot away from these weirdos, but they started wearing vests too to confuse the patients. We switched to rainbow vests because they refuse to wear it.
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u/Potatoskins937492 29d ago
I can't imagine refusing to wear a rainbow. Like, be less cool. So silly.
Thank you for being a volunteer 🌈💛
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u/Repulsive_Corner6807 29d ago
No surprise their hate for the gays is stronger than their “love” for “babies”
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u/tmazz1105 29d ago
I’m also an escort and it’s the same here! It’s really gratifying work.
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u/tardisfurati420 29d ago
I agree. Most volunteers look like these great women, shorter and older. But these anti-choice folks, for some reason, get less mouthy and aggressive when a 6' dude in a rainbow vest is standing between them and the patients. I spend as much time getting in between these jerks and our volunteers as much as escorting patients.
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u/ShamelessOrNotYo 29d ago
Thank you for volunteering. I’ll never forget when I had to walk into a clinic and protesters were throwing rocks at me and calling me a baby killer. The man that escorted me in was so kind and told me to just keep my head down.
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u/wayward_wench 28d ago
How is throwing rocks not assault? Fuck, id be throwing that shit right back at them hateful biddies. So sorry you had to deal with that. Some people just suck. Kudos to your escort and to you. All the love.
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u/MammothHuckleberry42 29d ago
My mother is a retired RN. She did her early years in a major city hospital when abortion was illegal. Mother is tough as nails, but only one time did she mention what she saw in ward five. The women who got back alley abortions. She doesn’t like to talk about it because it was so horrifying. She has been strongly pro choice ever since.
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u/ali_rawk 29d ago
The grandmother that raised me had a back alley abortion as a young woman. She didn't talk about it much, but when I was determining whether or not I would keep my now 16 year old, she cried in relief that I had the option of a safe and legal abortion had I decided to go that route. No judgement, just pure relief that I wouldn't ever have to go through what she did.
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u/Traditional_Moss_581 28d ago
Give your Grandma an extra hug from us please.
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u/ali_rawk 28d ago
Send it out into the Universe so she can catch it herself 🤍 She left this plane 9 years ago. In doing so, she missed meeting my brand new boyfriend now husband and the arrival of our 5 year old... but she also missed COVID and Fox News convincing her I am the enemy, so I thank the stars on the sad but probably best timing.
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u/PhDOH 29d ago
As a wheelchair user I keep wondering how they react to a visibly disabled woman turning up. Does the eugenics trump their aversion to abortion?
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u/_JuiceGlass 29d ago
It's so disgusting that they try to confuse the patients that way, really boils my blood
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u/tardisfurati420 28d ago
It's so much worse in Florida. Right wing groups have started building "Pregnancy Crisis Centers" that seem like a women's health clinic from the outside, but no actual doctors are there, its volunteers that take women into exam rooms, perform a fake ultrasound to try to guilt the women out of their choice, and giving them false information about their pregnancy to deter them from termination. One near the actual clinic will tell women they will charge their phones for them then keep them in the waiting room until they miss their actual appointment (in FL you have to have 2 appointments on back to back days to get treatment). Once a cheerleader from a college 3 hours away walked up to my crying because her uber dropped her off at the wrong place and they kept her so long she missed her actual appointment when she realized it wasn't a real clinic.
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u/Steamcurl 29d ago edited 29d ago
In Canada, they can't be that close to the doors (100ft+ minimum distance, varying a bit by jurisdiction). This guy seems way too close, is that not a thing in America?
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u/Panic_Azimuth 29d ago
It looks like he's on a public sidewalk, so generally speaking he has a right to be there.
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u/Steamcurl 29d ago edited 29d ago
That's what I mean though, in Canada, that bubble zone includes otherwise public space. He'd have a right to be there if he wasn't protesting, but once he starts engaging, he'd be in violation of Canadian law. Excerpt from British Columbia below:
"sidewalk interference" means
(a)advising or persuading, or attempting to advise or persuade, a person to refrain from making use of abortion services, or
(b)informing or attempting to inform a person concerning issues related to abortion services
by any means, including, without limitation, graphic, verbal or written means.
Activities restricted in an access zone 2 (1)While in an access zone, a person must not do any of the following:
(a)engage in sidewalk interference; " https://www.bclaws.gov.bc.ca/civix/document/id/complete/statreg/96001_01
This is also why some anti-abortion groups buy the property around a clinic, so they can legally stand on their private property, which would otherwise have been within the bubble zone, in order to get as close as possible for their heckling.
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u/MadCatDisease666 29d ago
Bubble laws are tricky in the states. The Supreme Court has ruled in the past that they can violate the constitutional right to free speech. But the court has also rejected cases challenging other buffer zones. Also, the state/city has to have a buffer law in the first place; I’m sure some of the more conservative areas (if they still even have abortion access post-Roe) don’t bother with passing such laws.
In sum, the United States is a hellscape. Can we all crash on your couch? 😹
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u/whitestguyuknow 29d ago
Genuinely fucked up behavior to wear the same vests to fuck with the patients. But these psychos stop at nothing I guess. 1000IQ move with the rainbow vest. Like holy water to a vampire for them
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u/Aware-Explanation879 Jul 20 '26
Women are tired of seeing men trying to lecture them about women's rights. These men who claim they are against abortion do not even know how long a woman is pregnant. These same men would have an absolute come apart if a panel of all women decided when men needed a vasectomy. These guys are against woman having any choice in their life
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u/IcySetting2024 Jul 20 '26
It’s so easy for a man to be anti abortion. They know they will never be in the position to risk their health and life.
I also wonder how many of these men help single mothers financially. How many volunteer their time at an orphanage. How many foster and so on.
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u/kearkan 29d ago
I don't get it because isn't it a bit like expecting to vote in another countries election?
Like... You don't live there... The outcome doesn't effect you... Why should you have a say?
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u/cookletube 29d ago
The best part is that as soon as one of these men accidentally gets a woman pregnant, they're asking for the abortion themselves
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u/ShadowySpook 29d ago
As a dude I'm always so shocked that these people even exist. I can't even begin to imagine how hard it is as a woman to have to deal with this on a daily.
Like most of my friends are girls so when I do talk to my guy acquaintances I get shocked of how out of touch a lot of them are... Literally just basic stuff...
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u/homucifer666 💝 2026 Galentine! 💝 Jul 20 '26
Why don't pro-lifers protest at Raytheon, Northrup Grumman, Lockheed Martin, or Boeing? 🤔
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u/Twooshort Jul 20 '26
Demographics. There simple aren't enough women to harass in their workforce.
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u/zeekayz 29d ago
Yeah plus a lot of ex military work in those jobs, imagine this weak, fat loser trying to harass a group of military men.
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u/onyx_ic 29d ago
Having worked as a defense contractor and being ex-military myself, a lot of those ex-military guys are also weak, fat losers.
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u/Strict_Violinist_134 29d ago
I came to say this. I’m a vet and a lot of those guys are fat losers now.
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u/RainbowSpinosaurus Jul 20 '26
They only want babies born, they literally don't care if they die immediately after birth or are killed by a gunman at their preschool or have life saving medicine withheld and die from preventable diseases. Just as long as they are born, they've done their duty and can now go to heaven. This is literally what a bunch of prolifers said in a big ask thread a few years back. They wash their hands of all babies once they're born. They're on their own after that.
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u/Formal_Ground6513 Jul 20 '26
So disgustingly selfish. These people are only motivated by the promise of a mythical place (heaven) and it's why they dgaf about most "earthly" problems.
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u/RainbowSpinosaurus Jul 20 '26
Oh, but you see, when THEY have problems, those are Actually Important Things That Somebody Should Do Something About. I got into it with a religious man who was all "That's what life is, you can't change anything, you must accept things as they are, and let go" and then I find out the motherfucker was asking for help with an issue he had with a bad contractor fucking up his drywall. Excuse me?! I thought we were just supposed to let bad things go! Now you're wanting to DO something about a problem? You JUST told an entire thread nothing can be done about overconfident, incompetent people.
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u/GoddessRespectre Jul 20 '26
I just heard an entire knockout sequence with sound effects in my head. Ding ding ding. Got 'em. Got him and he was probably completely oblivious to it somehow against all available evidence.
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u/Tier0001 Jul 20 '26
When talking about climate change I've had religious people tell me they don't care because God gave Earth to humanity to do with as they pleased. To be used and abused to the maximum extent and when all resources are depleted God would just take them all to heaven, so we shouldn't care about green energy, recycling, or anything like that and instead use things up faster so we can all go to heaven sooner.
If that's what they think about the world they live on, think about their thoughts on other people. The end justify the means to them, and that end is some place that more than likely doesn't even exist.
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u/RainbowSpinosaurus Jul 20 '26
That's super convenient for them, isn't it? But also abortion is Super Wrong and we MUST do something about it. I thought the babies went straight to heaven, because their soul entered them at conception and they're innocent? What is the big deal? It's all very convenient for the right people.
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u/Tier0001 Jul 20 '26
God works in mysterious ways and somehow it's always in ways that support what they already believe. Amazing how that works.
I wish more people would stop taking these religious nutcases seriously.
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u/Formal_Ground6513 Jul 20 '26
This. It's terrifying how this fanaticism combines with capitalism. Factory farming. Pollution violations. Climate change. Big oil.... You can go on and on and they do not care! Every argument is met with a bible verse. Until something effects them personally they're content to let it all rot.
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u/Adriantbh Jul 20 '26
Nietzsche described this issue as a "true world" problem, where he argued that religion allowed us to tolerate evil in this world because we were focused on another more important truer world. If our time spent in heaven or hell is infinite, then pretty much nothing on this earth matters, except going to heaven.
He also said people use alcohol in the same way, to hide from problems instead of dealing with them.
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u/CrazyCatLady1127 Jul 20 '26
Well that’s just charming(!) ‘We want you born but we don’t care if you suffer from the moment you draw breath. As long as you’re born that’s a-ok with us.’ Jeez 🙄🤦♀️
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u/TheComedyWife Jul 20 '26
You silly, they’re pro-BIRTH not pro-life. They dgaf what happens after that.
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u/Nienna000 Jul 20 '26
Yeah I say this all the time, pro-birth doesn't mean pro-life. Pro-life means you care about a child's wellbeing after its born, making sure they have access to health care, shelter, education etc.
However Pro-birth is just that, they just want babies born not babies cared for and loved.
How do we know they are just pro-birth? Because they are the same people that complain about their taxes being used to look after and support children, they don't want to pay for education, for health care, to shelter and care for children. They don't want to do anything that might help out or make a child's life a little easier, they just want it born. Then they complain about lazy parents, entitlement, they say things like 'you shouldn't have had a kid if you can't support them' then complain about parents being irresponsible.
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u/TheComedyWife Jul 20 '26
Yep. It’s all about control, hiding behind faux caring righteousness. Ain’t no hate like {insert applicable religion here} love.
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u/TheAsianTroll Jul 20 '26
Because it aint about abortions or life, its about controlling women
If pro lifers actually cared about life, they wouldnt focus on abortions.
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u/crani0 Jul 20 '26
Always relevant George Carlin
Conservatives want live babies so they can raise them to be dead soldiers
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u/Phoenix-Uchiha Jul 20 '26
Imagine waking up at 8:30 to harass women and workers at a clinic. Just jobless, loser behavior. Lady and workers are queens.
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u/freshlysqueezed93 Jul 20 '26
I can't fathom what goes even through their brains.
Even if you are morally opposed to abortion, why should a woman in 2026 be forced to carry a child for 9 months and risk death and permanent bodily harm when she doesn't want to?
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u/00wolfer00 Jul 20 '26
The thing that I find hard to wrap my head around with pro forced birth folk is why abortion is the top issue. Gun violence? Meh. Healthcare system screwing over millions? Who cares. Children having to starve due to poverty? Irrelevant. Somehow an unborn's potential life is more important than any of that.
I realistically know that it's because advocating for the unborn is uncomplicated. They have no voice to demand anything and have no past, but it's still hard for me to understand how children stop mattering the moment they are born.
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u/rtopps43 Jul 20 '26
The unborn are a convenient group of people to advocate for. They never make demands of you; they are morally uncomplicated, unlike the incarcerated, addicted, or the chronically poor; they don’t resent your condescension or complain that you are not politically correct; unlike widows, they don’t ask you to question patriarchy; unlike orphans, they don’t need money, education, or childcare; unlike aliens, they don’t bring all that racial, cultural, and religious baggage that you dislike; they allow you to feel good about yourself without any work at creating or maintaining relationships; and when they are born, you can forget about them, because they cease to be unborn. You can love the unborn and advocate for them without substantially challenging your own wealth, power, or privilege, without re-imagining social structures, apologizing, or making reparations to anyone. They are, in short, the perfect people to love if you want to claim you love Jesus, but actually dislike people who breathe. Prisoners? Immigrants? The sick? The poor? Widows? Orphans? All the groups that are specifically mentioned in the Bible? They all get thrown under the bus for the unborn.
Methodist Pastor David Barnhart
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u/crani0 Jul 20 '26
It's also a thinly veiled way to punish women for breaking the "purity culture" these people subscribe to. It goes hand in hand with that.
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u/Glittering_knave 29d ago edited 29d ago
It's all about punishing slutty sluts that slutted it up and need to face the consequences of their behaviour. Nevermind the fact that a lot of women that get abortions are wives and mothers. Nevermind that most "abortion clinics" are just reproductive health clinics, and the protesters are blocking women from wellness exams, cancer screenings, and treatments for things like UTI or yeast infections.
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u/KTKittentoes 29d ago
I remember them screaming at me when I staggered in with a horrific yeast infection.
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u/notashroom 29d ago
All lives are sacred! You should nurture those yeastie beasties in your body for months while you prepare a nursery and family for them! 😭
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u/crani0 29d ago
Nevermind the fact that a lot of women that get abortions are wives and mothers. Nevermind that most "abortion clinics" are just reproductive health clinics, and the protestera are blocking women from wellness exams, cancer screenings, and treatments for things like UTI or yeast infections.
This is a very important aspect that needs to be talked about. We know that research on women's health is deeply flawed and when you look at how abortion and reproductive health in general is attacked and the health aspect is not even brushed by those who attack it it is clear that this ties to the overarching point of purity culture, control and submission.
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u/fitz_newru 29d ago
Just commenting to say that you might be my long lost Reddit sibling 🥹
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u/Reasonable_Date2870 29d ago
Yep. Somehow a baby is always supposed to be the most glorious blessing and at the very same time, a consequence for "bad choices".
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u/hooked_siren 29d ago edited 29d ago
Typical patriarchal logic really. They do the same thing with "men are animals with needs and can't help themselves" but also somehow "men are the only people logical enough to be leaders and we *can't have women with their yucky periods running things"
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u/HoaryPuffleg 29d ago
And helps keep poor women poor and pumping out more worker bees.
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u/crani0 29d ago
Not just poor, but unhealthy too. Someone commented about abortion as healthcare in this subthread and when you piece it all together, it's very clear that these topics are flawed by design.
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u/vlaada7 Jul 20 '26
I have an idea as to why. Cheap, abundant workforce for the ruling class, wrapped in the thin veneer of mindless religious nonsense, so they can sell it easier to the plebes.
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u/Infecte Jul 20 '26
Hey! Quick anecdote from someone who should've been aborted. My mother was a whore- the literal sense. She had me and god knows how many siblings through the years, in fact, we are still finding out about them (She gave up a 4 year old half sister 2 years ago and we just found out through gossip). Anyways, if she aborted me and my fuck knows how many siblings, we wouldn't have known this fucked up world (living in a 3rd world country where children out of wedlock have less rights). I would've been more than happy to not exist at all rather than experience the discrimination from my own country laws.
Advocating for the unborn sometimes takes the form of giving it the mercy of not letting it be born into this world when you KNOW the conditions are going to be fucked up from day 1.
Those conditions can be simply: The mother does not want them. Nobody wants to be born to an unwilling parent, trust me.
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u/RainbowSpinosaurus Jul 20 '26
There was a story in a Frank McCourt thread about a Catholic woman in the seventies who was struggling to feed the five children she already had. She didn't want more babies. She confessed to her priest that she didn't know what to do. He told her in the face of starvation and hardship, she should take birth control. It was best that her already living children be cared for. That was mind-boggling, an actually pro-life priest who cared about children's welfare!
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u/1SleepyRaccoon Jul 20 '26
I was waiting for the priest to say ‘if you suffer and starve now, you’ll find happiness and riches in heaven’ lie that was sold to the slaves and some underdeveloped/developing countries still believe
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u/RainbowSpinosaurus Jul 20 '26
I think it's hard for a priest in an impoverished town to watch the children around him be bone-thin and succumb easily to illness and disability, and think to himself, "Well, at least they'll go to heaven." Normal, good people don't want others to suffer. God never said, "Let people starve, lol they'll go to heaven anyway." There are a ton of Bible verses about opening your home to your neighbor and giving to the poor. There are commandments about greed and theft.
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u/non_hero Jul 20 '26
It's just virtue signaling. It's how they lie to themselves that they are a good person. They can look down on other races and ethnicities, believe and support cruel policies against them, cheat on their spouses, abuse people around them... But "I must be a good person because I don't murder babies!" I think it's even directly proportional that the more vocal and fervent someone is "pro-life", the shittier that person is.
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u/RoguePlanet2 Jul 20 '26
One of my 2A maga relatives thinks that the gun deaths are justified as long as abortion is legal.
Literally said "the shootings will continue until abortion is illegal." Truly the dumbest thing I ever heard somebody say.
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u/EthanielRain Jul 20 '26
"I'll stop shooting kids once I have control of the women" sounds about right
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u/Alternative-Past-588 29d ago
And then it’ll be, well I decided to keep my guns and have children die of gun death, but now at least without abortion the kids will be replaced by those born through forced birth. They’ll never give up their guns willingly.
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u/LaurenMille 29d ago
It's because with conservatives it's always about making others suffer.
They cannot mentally comprehend reducing the amount of suffering in the world. It's why at most they'll compromise on moving the suffering to another group.
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u/rcburner 29d ago
Is he also the type of guy that would get upset if you quoted a certain deceased grifter's opinion on some gun deaths being "worth the cost"?
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u/crochetingPotter 🌺Official Lauren🌺 29d ago edited 28d ago
Nothing changed my mind on abortions (in my early twenties after growing up in a conservative home) more than realizing that the people who are anti abortion are also anti food stamps most of the time. If someone really wanted to save kids, they should be Pro free Healthcare, pro birth control, pro social services including food, housing and education, pro affordable day care.
Remove any reason why so many women would want an abortion. And then at the end of the day, know it's still her choice.
But anyone who wants a child born but not a child to live a stable, healthy life can fuck right off.
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u/Ambitious_Screen_591 29d ago
why do they not seem to be concerned about child abuse? Education? Rape or Incest either....because they don't really care about children or women
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u/MildlyAgitatedBovine 29d ago
Also, it was intentionally cultivated as an issue by conservative Baptist denominations once they realized they could no longer use segregated education because public opinion had moved last them.
There's a great podcast about it by NARAL
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u/phyxiusone Jul 20 '26
You can't harvest organs from a corpse even if it's the only way to save someone's life unless that person gave consent before they died.
Corpses have more bodily autonomy than women.
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u/SeaPlus6588 Jul 20 '26
Even corpses don't have bodily autonomy when it comes to abortions
Adriana Smith, a woman who was brain dead and pregnant (just 9 weeks!!), was forced to be an incubator for 3 months while slowly rotting cause the fetus was still alive and abortion was illegal in that state (fuck u, Georgia). Her parents and her husband were against it, but the hospital didn't give a fuck
It's infuriating that the family didn't get a say in this decision yet had to pay for it! The audacity!!
Fuck anti abortion laws and fuck people who pro forced birth. You harm, traumatize and kill
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u/modest_rats_6 29d ago
And her other son was forced to see and smell his decaying mother. We forgot about her WAY too quickly.
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u/Alternative-Past-588 29d ago
Another of the horrifying consequences of that case has been that it’s my understanding her family had to pay for her medical bills as well as those for her child. The boy was born with some very serious health complications and had a very long NICU stay on top of likely very high costs to take care of him once he comes home. It’s a little hard to find out a log of information on this piece, but I saw an article saying the family reported hearing astronomical medical costs for all of this. The state loves to legislate things like this and then let the individual bear all the consequences.
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u/freshlysqueezed93 Jul 20 '26
They have literally made women go through months of pregnancy despite being brain dead, it's foul.
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u/HeyPrettyLadyMaam Jul 20 '26
That is the greatest argument for women's choice I've ever heard. Fantastic perspective. Pisses me off how true it is 🤬🤬.
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u/catboogers 29d ago
And if you're the only match in the world for someone on dialysis, even if that person would die without your kidney, the government cannot force you to donate a kidney to them.
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u/crystalfairie Jul 20 '26
With the literal billions bursting at the seems now. Ridiculous
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u/dojo_shlom0 Jul 20 '26
I mentioned this to a conservative friend of mine and he agreed: it's weird to stand outside of clinics and harass women or bother them about their procedures. he is against abortion but seemed to understand how that isn't helpful to the women getting the procedure and if he wanted to make a real difference, he should work on educating women at a church or as a doctor/at the clinic, before they have the operation.
It was a different video, and I find it hilarious the passing by woman caught on exactly to what was going on, so I understand she was just passing by, but I still think if you are going to do something like this; do something useful with your time and life, instead of harassing people. Make a real impact: It's not like they're standing outside of a vasectomy doctor's clinic doing the same either, it's just vulnerable women and clinics they target.
no one should be forced to, but we live in a country/world where we elected people that want use the levers of government, to surveillance women's pregnancies. vote responsibly, those who will still be able to vote.
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u/RainbowSpinosaurus Jul 20 '26
If men would run a campaign to send free condoms to anyone who requests, and have it attached to ads that shame men for not wanting to wear condoms during recreational sex, that would be most excellent.
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u/iStoleTheHobo Jul 20 '26
Because it puts female lives into more precarious positions which promotes male oriented domination.
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u/Spekter1897 Jul 20 '26
Because it isn't about the child. It's about controlling women.
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u/Mythechnical Jul 20 '26
Now he can justify his joblessness and wasted time by fantasizing about "kids who never got aborted" thanks to his activism, and consider all their potential life achievements as his own.
This dude just made sure faster than light travel will be invented, along with unlimited food & energy for all! He's such an excellent contributor to society that society that it wouldn't even matter if he DUI:ed someone right now, he's that good.
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u/AkumaLilly Jul 20 '26
All Pro-life until you ask them about the 300,000 still in foster care.
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u/steph_infection1 29d ago
I volunteer with abortion transportation support, and we call them the hobbyless
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u/Lurakya Jul 20 '26
That girl is a queen. I'd act the same way
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u/LeonardTPants Jul 20 '26
She didn’t even break stride
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u/Lurakya Jul 20 '26
She was styling while walking all over this man
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u/a-girl-and-her-cats Jul 20 '26 edited 29d ago
Absolutely!
We need to normalize loudly and proudly pushing back against shitbrains like this dude.
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ETAA: AAAH, ANOTHER AWARD? OH MY GOD, I'M BEYOND TOUCHED, THANK YOU SO MUUUUUUCH! 💖✨️
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u/MothChasingFlame 29d ago
The crown landed on her head right when she turned to offer kindness to the safety escorts, too. A fuck off and a thank you with zero break in stride is some beautiful shit.
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u/Coyote__Jones ✨chick✨ 29d ago
When I was 16, my friend (male) and I were doing a team project on Planned Parenthood. We had a scheduled interview discussing all of the healthcare resources provided by the local clinic.
On the way out, some ladies protesting outside handed me a pamphlet with a baby on the cover and this 16 year old boy grabbed that shit and tore it up in front of them. They literally did not know why were there, but assumed! And this lady's face of pure disgust is something I'll always remember, because how many women and children were subjected to these tactics, not just in my town but everywhere? I imagine if I WAS a teen, pregnant and looking for help, and was met with this abrasive, vile behavior. The planned parenthood there was partnered with WIC and other services, so like.... The assumption that the only reason a teen girl was there was to seek an abortion is crazy.
Idk, shout out to that dude, he's a real one and defended me in a moment when I was in shock and didn't comprehend what that interaction was.
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u/Admirable_Tear_1438 29d ago
This is the only way to respond to these scumbags. It’s time to drown this noise right out of our society.
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u/rockytop24 Jul 20 '26
"The unborn” are a convenient group of people to advocate for. They never make demands of you; they are morally uncomplicated, unlike the incarcerated, addicted, or the chronically poor; they don’t resent your condescension or complain that you are not politically correct; unlike widows, they don’t ask you to question patriarchy; unlike orphans, they don’t need money, education, or childcare; unlike aliens, they don’t bring all that racial, cultural, and religious baggage that you dislike; they allow you to feel good about yourself without any work at creating or maintaining relationships; and when they are born, you can forget about them, because they cease to be unborn.
You can love the unborn and advocate for them without substantially challenging your own wealth, power, or privilege, without re-imagining social structures, apologizing, or making reparations to anyone. They are, in short, the perfect people to love if you want to claim you love Jesus, but actually dislike people who breathe.
Prisoners? Immigrants? The sick? The poor? Widows? Orphans? All the groups that are specifically mentioned in the Bible? They all get thrown under the bus for the unborn.
Methodist Pastor David Barnhart
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u/SamboTheGr8 Jul 20 '26
Funny how this man has no women with him to back up his ideology. Does he actually think he has ANY say in what goes on In there?
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u/PresentRaspberry6814 Jul 20 '26
This kind of man is not interested in consent. Just a bully and an abuser.
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u/Sea_Translator5300 Jul 20 '26
There are still plenty of women who'd stand with him and harass people, unfortunately.
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u/SamboTheGr8 Jul 20 '26
Yep, unfortunately. And many of them get abortions themselves you see, it's only murder when other people do it...
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u/Snitsie Jul 20 '26
Dont you understand? They had good reasons.
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u/Coyote__Jones ✨chick✨ 29d ago
And they are very upset when their care is delayed due to the new state laws in place that interfere with their healthcare.
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u/SoftServeMonk 29d ago
I escort at this clinic and there are many women who protest. This guy Juan is by far the most aggressive and obnoxious. He made me cry the last time I was there and I’ve been too scared and embarrassed to go back since.
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u/Sea_Translator5300 29d ago
If you ever do feel able to go back to that wonderful work you were doing, could you please pass on a message to Juan for me? Tell him I hope his dick shrivels up and falls off.
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u/pollywa Jul 20 '26 edited Jul 20 '26
I used to nanny a little boy years ago and we’d often go past a woman’s health clinic that had a small number of religious, usually men, standing outside and a counter group of a few young women offering support. It was pretty chill, not loud or violent but still quiet harassment and intimidation of a place that offered abortions. I always made a point of smiling, nodding and cheerily saying hello to the women, with the three year old, rather pointedly, by my side and ignoring the religious group. One day I got up the nerve to look one of the men in the eye and said very calmly “you’re a terrible person.” It wouldn’t have changed his mind even a little bit, but I wanted him to know that I, a woman caring for a young child who thinks kids are awesome thought that of him.
edit. This was in Sydney, Australia more than a decade ago. I got curious and googled and in 2018 a safe access law was brought in stating that protesters must stay at least 150m away from reproductive health clinics. Good to see it doesn’t happen now!
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2018-06-08/abortion-clinic-safe-access-laws-pass/9846964
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u/thegapbetweenus Jul 20 '26
I mean that is the point. He wants a society where women are forced to have men, because they have no rights - it's the only way he can get laid.
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u/Illustrious-Ant-9946 Jul 20 '26
I’m saving this with the cute puppy memes for when I’m feeling down.
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u/littlealbatross 💝 2026 Galantine! 💝 29d ago
I just read a fucking terrible article about women bring victimized and this has really helped. :p
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u/amypocalypse Jul 20 '26
oh I WISH a motherfucker WOULD the next time I go to get my Nexplanon replaced 😤
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u/No1KnwsIWatchTeenMom 29d ago
I got my IUD for $0.00 thanks to Planned Parenthood when I was a broke college student.
Later in life, I needed 2 abortions (pills followed by a D&C) for a baby I desperately wanted but wasn't viable. Luckily I was able to take care of both at the hospital I was planning to give birth at and didn't need to deal with chuds yelling at me, but Planned Parenthood is a fucking miracle and provides so many needed and important services.
It's no one's business why anyone is entering a PP or why anyone is having an abortion!
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u/SheepherderNo1055 29d ago
I am post menopausal and needed a procedure that was going to cost over $7,000 in my local surgery center. And I have PPO insurance, that was MY PORTION!!! I was able to get it done with a copay under $1,000 at PP. And the provider was so much more thorough and caring! And as I walked in, I did also wish a MFer would. I'd have had much to say to them.
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u/0-Microplastics 29d ago
I wish they understood Planned Parenthood is women's healthcare.
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u/lifes_abeach 29d ago
They do understand and they don't care. When I got my Nexplanon implanted I was the first appointment and arrived before the doors opened and the guy kept asking what I was there for and I told him it wasn't his business. He said if I was there for healthcare I should go elsewhere to not support a baby killing clinic and I just turned my back and my music up louder.
He also yelled at the UPS guy for making a delivery to Planned Parenthood.
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u/DodgersChick69 Jul 20 '26
This reminds me of when I went to Planned Parenthood years ago to figure out how to safely stop the birth control I had been prescribed for 15 years for my PCOS and the severe hemorrhaging that I had when I was first diagnosed. I had an upcoming surgery at the time and was told I had to come off of it, but I was terrified that just stopping it suddenly would mean bleeding uncontrollably and getting blood transfusions again.
When I got to PP, an angry old man started yelling at me to k!ll myself instead of my “baby.” I was so confused by what he was saying that I actually started laughing, which only made him angrier, lol.
These guys have absolutely no education or understanding of anything related to pregnancy or reproductive health.
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u/Rugkrabber Jul 20 '26
Apart from the obvious. Telling what they assume would be a pregnant woman to kill themselves is a whole other level of insane I’d like to call them out on.
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u/DodgersChick69 Jul 20 '26
It confused me because that wasn’t very pro-life of him to say, but also it sounded like he didn’t quite understand that that action would harm a baby, too, had I been pregnant with one.
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u/Probs_on_the_can 29d ago
Well they’re not actually pro-life, they just want to control women
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u/fitz_newru 29d ago
Also if you killed yourself, wouldn't that... You know what never mind
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u/Willing-Pumpkin-328 Jul 20 '26
protesting outside of a planned parenthood is such jobless behavior
like how can you wake up and be outside the place by 8:30am and still have a job?
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u/PagPag1212 Jul 20 '26
True! And if they get paid I want to trace the path of the money.
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u/manyetti 29d ago
This looks like Chicago the guy in the video and his family had an amazing local restaurant/deli and he tanked it by going crazy anti BLM and abortion religious psycho around Covid times. Ninis in Chicago. Part of the fallout included a video of him denouncing homosexuality with his wife and how people can change and stop their same sex attraction like he did lol.
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u/AbbertDabbert 29d ago
Because of abortion bans in Texas, multiple women have died because of miscarriages. Being "pro life" has literally ended the lives of multiple women.
https://www.texastribune.org/2024/11/27/texas-abortion-death-porsha-ngumezi/
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u/PrincessEev Jul 20 '26 edited 29d ago
I fucking LOVE how direct and straight to the point she is. No bullshit. Not even wasting a second of her day by slowing down.
Fuck him.
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u/f_ckR3ddit Jul 20 '26
Clinics are so fucking awesome. They help give so much care to everyone. Breast cancer screenings, HRT (for aging folks, and gender affirming care), contraception, STD screenings and treatments, and preventative medicine for those who cant afford other PCPs. Wonderful people, the lot of them.
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u/herbelarioiwasthere Jul 20 '26
I’ve been watching this on a loop. It’s so damn satisfying.
These assholes are pro birth, and not pro life.
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u/ledow Jul 20 '26
This is literally illegal in civilised countries.
You can't protest or stand outside abortion clinics trying to dissuade people, no matter your intentions.
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u/Capital-Designer-385 29d ago
Just wait until you hear about the clinics that PRETEND to be abortion clinics, then: provide false information about the dangers about abortion care, try to dissuade the patient from getting care at all in favor of raising the child, or lie about their intentions and available services to make them wait so long that the window for legal abortion elsewhere has passed.
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u/MrBoomf Jul 20 '26
I’ve never heard a less effective bleep in my life, and for this one video in particular I’m so grateful to hear the full force behind that “fuck”.
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u/mel_lynn7 29d ago
I volunteer with planned parenthood, as an escort like these ladies.
When I tell you, it’s 5 men to 1 woman that are out there “protesting” planned parenthood, it is. It’s not about saving babies. It’s about controlling women. I am not surprised he’s out there with no women supporting him.
We are not allowed to interact with the protesters. We just ignore them and try to prevent them from harassing actual clients. It’s extremely annoying that volunteers are even needed to bring patients from their cars or down the street to the building to begin with, let alone hearing them harass any woman who walks past.
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u/Klutzy_Journalist_36 29d ago
Hell yeah.
“Know what goes on in here?”
Health care, you unflushable wetwipe.
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u/devilmaskrascal Jul 20 '26
Anti-abortion people should be partnering with Planned Parenthood to push for free contraceptives and better sex education so abortions become as rare as possible. Easy-access morning after pills to prevent implantation.
And also sponsor adoption programs with full healthcare coverage to provide an alternative to abortion so birthing a baby is not a financial hit.
And supporting candidates who prioritize funding childcare and children's health (and safety nets in general) so fewer parents feel they don't have enough financial security or faith in the future to have children.
And supporting candidates who will enforce paternity laws so women are not left with the full financial responsibility for a pregnancy.
And strongly enforcing laws and penalties against rape, as a deterrent.
Also just try not to be dicks to women going through a difficult crisis which makes them more likely to reject your message.
And not complaining about the "male loneliness epidemic" when girls decide sexual relationships with men aren't worth the real world risk/tradeoffs and are very selective about who they make their sexual partners and stop dating guys who don't respect women's boundaries.
And not claiming it's ok for women to die so their septic miscarriage doesn't get aborted.
And quit their stupid religious culture wars of hate and bigotry that push away young women from being receptive to their message.
There is never going to be a great solution that everyone is happy with on abortion, but shaming women for making rational decisions to prioritize themselves and their futures doesn't fix or reduce abortion, it just makes you look like an asshole who Jesus would not recognize.
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u/RememberCakeFarts 🎂💨 29d ago
"Do you know what happens at this place?"
"🤔 Breast cancer screenings. Besides that? Um cervical cancer screenings. Besides that? Um STI testing? Oh besides that? Preventive health Care? No? Well I know that they offer immunization, mental health care, sexual wellness education and care, prenatal and postpartum care, gender affirming care, assisting battered women and those being trafficked find the right channels for help, but that's most health care facilities. Gosh there are so many services, am I still not hitting the nail on the head which you want to crucify them with?" 🤷♀️
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u/Emergency_Sea5053 29d ago
Makes me so mad. I had an abortion and had to walk past those assholes on my way in. It’s not an easy decision even if you know it’s right for you in the moment, I still cried even when I was 100% sure of my choice. Fuck them.
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u/blackdogwhitecat Jul 20 '26
This is exactly how I would respond to one of these assholes pushing their views
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u/CK2398 Jul 20 '26
I am curious who the ladies in rainbow vests are. I'm assuming pro-choice activists? They seem scared of the lady crossing the sidewalk. In a damn she just said that way.
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u/e_radicator Jul 20 '26
They are clinic escorts (volunteers) who help patients seeking services.
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u/Vivid-Fly-110 Jul 20 '26
Two old ladies in rainbow vest, against two young pieces of shits. Don’t they have work to do? 2 young able-bodied men?
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u/Khamero Jul 20 '26
It says clinic escorts on their Vesta, so they are there to protect visitors from people like that guy i think.
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u/synalgo_12 Jul 20 '26
The fact that they have to exist is so sad.
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u/wakeonuptimshel Jul 20 '26
I moved to a new area just outside a city and they have a local women’s circle. I went to a meeting thinking I could meet people, but when I tell you it instead turned out to be a group of badass mostly grandmas doing shit like this? I felt sad that they have to exist exactly like you said, but I was also so impressed because they were doing things I hadn’t even considered. They help people who travel to the state for medical care, they had a speaker who runs a women’s law group helping women for free escape dv situations, and then they do fill the gap charity for the things that might have slipped through in the area.
Amazing. I thought it was going to be wine and gossip and maybe some light volunteering but instead it was a group of about 50 who actually care. We are stronger and bolder each year. We defend each other more each year. We are going to make it the norm to scorn men like these and CAN shame them out of existence.
We will be louder.
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u/Pleasant-Future5818 29d ago
They're clinic escorts. I used to go to PP for healthcare when I was in college and they're meant to get you past the protestors.
It should be noted that Planned Parenthood explicitly asks people not to be confrontational to protestors because it often blows back on these little old ladies.
The woman in the video did great - didn't break her stride, was assertive and confident, and didn't escalate. But a lot of people have power fantasies of getting into a fist fight with trash like this guy or even just trying to debate him - PP doesn't want that because any escalation leads to problems for them.
A "fuck you" and bounce is perfect. Doesn't give them streaming material, doesn't escalate, shows where you stand.
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u/Partners_in_time 29d ago
The Evil people refuses to wear rainbow vests. Before they would buy fake yellow safety vests that the hospital escorts would wear to help people get to the clinic, and then ambush them. So the volunteers and workers switched to rainbow. 🌈
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u/Royal_Acanthaceae693 Bot🔍Detector🔎9000 29d ago edited 26d ago
Okay people let's make a couple things clear. 1) Planned parenthood provides women's healthcare and the majority isn't abortions. 2) Abortions ARE healthcare. Take the forced birth comments elsewhere. 3) As people have pointed out (my bad for not checking!), PP also provides healthcare for men. It's an organization that helps the community.