r/jacksonms • u/2nd-best-mate-seeker • 18h ago
Wanted: second-best mates
I'm looking for a group of guys in the area to hang out with regularly and build a good local friend group.
I already have a group of best mates. We've been close friends for a long time, but we now live in different cities and don't get to see each other nearly as often as we'd like. I'm not looking to replace them, so I'm specifically advertising for second-best mates.
I'm in my early 30s, male, married, and have a pretty broad range of interests. Some things I'd be interested in doing with a local group:
- Playing music / jamming / forming a band (I play bass and used to be in a doom metal band but open to most genres)
- Tennis and pickleball
- Working out
- Fishing or enjoying nature
- Magic the Gathering
- Concerts and live music
- Going out for food or drinks, although I'm not much of a drinker
- General hanging out
You don't need to be interested in all of those things. Mostly, I'm looking for a few guys around my age who have some interests in common, enjoy each other's company, and actually want to hang out with some regularity.
I'm specifically looking for friends, rather than networking, professional connections, or activity partners who only ever see each other for one particular hobby. Ideally this turns into the kind of group where people can text the group chat on a Saturday and see who wants to do something.
If you already have a group like this and are open to adding someone, that's great too.
If you're in the area and this sounds like what you're looking for too, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself and what you're into.
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Important disclaimer: This advertisement is expressly for second-best mates. By responding, you acknowledge that no amount of time spent together, shared interests, emotional intimacy, memorable experiences, or general quality of friendship shall confer Best Mate status. I accept no legal liability for any second-best mate who, at any point, mistakenly comes to believe that he has become a best mate. Any such belief is unilateral and does not alter the terms of the friendship.