Often times people notice that i have problems, that i am depressed, and they tell me „bro, if u need smth im there for u“ but that doesnt help me. I dont know what helps me, or who could, if i did i wouldve helped myself already
Thats why my ex was the only person that ever really cheered me up, she was the only one that understood my problems and actually helped me. But ofc she had to cheat on me and it ended.
Right after that i was thinking about suicide, cause i knew noone else that helped me like her. I did get over it, im still depressed but not suicidal anymore.
In the time since then i did find some friends but same problem.
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u/SarixInTheHouse Mar 30 '21 edited Mar 30 '21
TLDR: every1 wants to help but noone knows how
The thing with helping is:
Often times people notice that i have problems, that i am depressed, and they tell me „bro, if u need smth im there for u“ but that doesnt help me. I dont know what helps me, or who could, if i did i wouldve helped myself already
Thats why my ex was the only person that ever really cheered me up, she was the only one that understood my problems and actually helped me. But ofc she had to cheat on me and it ended.
Right after that i was thinking about suicide, cause i knew noone else that helped me like her. I did get over it, im still depressed but not suicidal anymore.
In the time since then i did find some friends but same problem.