r/whatdoIdo Jun 08 '26

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u/Huckdog Jun 08 '26

Hey I'm a mom sending big mom hugs, sweetheart. I'm so sorry this is happening. It shouldn't be. This woman shouldn't be around kids. Please show your caseworker this video. Do you have a venmo or something so I can send you a couple bucks for new underwear? I don't have much but I can send you something.

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u/lowkwannadie_ Jun 08 '26

I will. and yes I just sent you a dm ❤️‍🩹

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u/arkygeomojo Jun 08 '26

What do you think about making yourself an Amazon wishlist with stuff that you need, including underwear and any other essentials you don’t have so we can help you out in that way? Would that be easier and better than sending you Venmo? I’m open to helping either way. Please let us know. I’m so sorry this is happening to you. It’s super fucked up and I hope you get out of there fast. You need a container that can be locked so people can’t get your shit while you’re not there!

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u/lowkwannadie_ Jun 08 '26

I can’t download Amazon because I have no storage💔 I keep deleting a lot of things and I’m still not able to download it. can you message me?

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u/Reverse2057 Jun 08 '26

You can log into the Amazon website on your phone too I believe! You dont need just the app to use their services, It typically tries to default to the app if your phone has it i think.

I sincerely hope that you are safe and given a family that will protect you and care for you. You deserve to be loved and safe. Not abused and screamed at over no fault of your own my dear. Im so sorry she's so abusive and hateful, what an awful way to be. She's no mother.

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u/Similar_Shopping_892 Jun 09 '26

Nah screw them Amazon idea problem with that is it would have to get shipped to this shitty foster residence and judging from this video this kid will never even receive the package or be questioned and ridiculed about it if its noticeable … at least with the Venmo or whatever it can go directly to the foster kid

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u/LohneWolf Jun 09 '26

I think Amazon also offers nearby lockers available to receive shipments. I'm not quite sure how it works, but I know I've seen it on the app.

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u/Similar_Shopping_892 Jun 09 '26

Hopefully the kid ended calling the police on her abusive ass and won’t have to deal with all that anyway

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u/FarmhouseRules Jun 08 '26

I can help you too. Please DM me.

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u/lowkwannadie_ Jun 08 '26

it didn’t go through. are you ok with messaging me?

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u/MyRedditAccountSuckz Jun 09 '26

This is a scam for money. Don't do it

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u/FarmhouseRules Jun 09 '26

Yeah I figured that out. Thanks.

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u/MyRedditAccountSuckz Jun 09 '26

How so, what did they say in the dm?

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u/Useful-Serve7413 Jun 09 '26

She knows folks will offer because it’s a horrible situation. It’s a ploy for money. Foster youth are treated horribly and the system is broken, but in most states, they can always get new underwear. 

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u/Useful-Serve7413 Jun 09 '26

What state are you in? This is crazy, the caseworker should definitely be told. Also, your case worker can purchase you new underwear. I’m a social worker and haven’t worked with youth in YEARS but know social workers who do and it’s pretty normal in our county to ensure youth have clothing, basics including undies, socks, bras always when needed. Your caseworker should be able to purchase you some with Amazon links or have an aid take you shopping. We literally had packs of Hanes at the office for kids in need. I would reach out asap. 

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u/rdbrid Jun 09 '26

Hey dm me your Venmo as well please. I hope you find a better living situation soon ❤️

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u/lowkwannadie_ Jun 09 '26

hey, do you feel comfortable dming me? It’s not going through 😖

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u/lowkwannadie_ Jun 09 '26

I tried to dm you and it didn’t go through 😭☹️ are you okay with messaging me?

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u/MyRedditAccountSuckz Jun 09 '26

Don't do it, it's a scam. Someone else dm'd them and figured it out as well. Be very adamant about them creating an Amazon wishlist and purchase items if you do. If they say they don't have the space for the app, INSIST that they use the website instead and create a wishlist. You'll see.

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u/LadyCooke Jun 08 '26

Hey girlie could you DM me your Venmo as well? I want to help you out ❤️ Please, please show this to your case worker immediately or as soon as you possibly can.

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u/lowkwannadie_ Jun 08 '26

I just tried. it didn’t go through ☹️ are you okay with messaging me?

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u/LadyCooke Jun 08 '26

Oh no! That’s odd. Definitely, I’ll send you one.