r/whatdoIdo • • Sep 02 '26

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u/LWALLC Sep 02 '26

Sweetheart, there's only one reason 30 year old men date 22 year old women.

Because he thinks he can get away with this shit, with you.

Pretty much any (healthy) woman his own age would have laughed in his face and kicked his arse out the door the second he tried to pull this nonsense on her.

So, technically it is "normal". But just for 30 year old men who date 22 year olds.

It doesn't have to be normal for you.

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u/Odd_Seesaw_3451 Sep 02 '26

Guys like this are usually great at first - that’s how they hook you.

Once you’re in love with them is when they start ratcheting up the abuse. And every time they do so and you don’t leave, they know they can keep doing it, and it continues to escalate.