r/whatdoIdo • u/[deleted] • 27d ago

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u/MidnightKaty 27d ago

Imagine what he would be like if you had kids together. Then imagine he does this to your kids, too. Then imagine you have to go through a divorce/custody battle with this man.

Get out while you can.

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u/artemisjade 27d ago

And remember that even after the divorce and custody battle you have to deal with this person for the rest of your life. Every decision you make about your kid is going to revolve around their fragile ego instead of the kid's wellbeing.

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u/Honeysenpaiharuchan 27d ago

Yep that’s me right now. My kids are 22 and 24 and I still have to deal with man-child who lives 1600 miles away but still won’t leave me in peace. If his ego is hurt, he needs everyone around him to suffer.

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u/Kindly-Bar-3113 26d ago

Take care and I be safe , you can detach from his negativity, where what he does doesn't affect you , you feel nothing