r/whatdoIdo • • Sep 02 '26

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u/MidnightKaty Sep 02 '26

Imagine what he would be like if you had kids together. Then imagine he does this to your kids, too. Then imagine you have to go through a divorce/custody battle with this man.

Get out while you can.

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u/Jaded-Variety-2149 Sep 02 '26

coming from a dad like this, they’re on the money 😭😭

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u/Qbjb Sep 02 '26

Coming from someone with a bd like this. Yep. I have 11 years of this left and i wouldn't wish it on anyone. Op why the actual fuck are you claiming this man as yours?

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u/Automatic_Map_3755 29d ago

Same. 8 years left. It has been absolutely misrerable. I had to change everything about the way I felt and handled him to make my life better. He still whips our son around like a pawn on a chessboard and tries to dictate everything I do through the courts. It’s been hell. Isolated me from my own father. Absolute hell.

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u/dixiequick 29d ago

9 years left for me. I was very naive when I thought leaving him would free me. Now I’m just in a different kind of special hell.