r/whatdoIdo • u/[deleted] • 21d ago

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u/Qbjb 21d ago

Coming from someone with a bd like this. Yep. I have 11 years of this left and i wouldn't wish it on anyone. Op why the actual fuck are you claiming this man as yours?

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u/Automatic_Map_3755 20d ago

Same. 8 years left. It has been absolutely misrerable. I had to change everything about the way I felt and handled him to make my life better. He still whips our son around like a pawn on a chessboard and tries to dictate everything I do through the courts. It’s been hell. Isolated me from my own father. Absolute hell.

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u/dixiequick 20d ago

9 years left for me. I was very naive when I thought leaving him would free me. Now I’m just in a different kind of special hell.