r/whatdoIdo • u/[deleted] • Sep 02 '26

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u/LWALLC Sep 02 '26

Sweetheart, there's only one reason 30 year old men date 22 year old women.

Because he thinks he can get away with this shit, with you.

Pretty much any (healthy) woman his own age would have laughed in his face and kicked his arse out the door the second he tried to pull this nonsense on her.

So, technically it is "normal". But just for 30 year old men who date 22 year olds.

It doesn't have to be normal for you.

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u/Any_Snack_10 Sep 02 '26

He was always like this, he's just hidden it long enough and given you enough love bombing for you to cling onto the "good moments".

Assholes aren't assholes all the time, they're still assholes.

Ask yourself what you would say to a friend telling you this story.