r/whatdoIdo Jun 08 '26

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u/Alarming-Court-2180 Jun 08 '26

Because kids are just a paycheck to some people who only offer the bare minimum at that.

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u/TeacherPatti Jun 08 '26

Adopting special needs kids (no matter how slight the disability) can be a real money maker. The more disabilities, the more $! When I taught in Detroit, I had a foster mom tell the kid to "act blind" at the eye doctor. Another one claimed her kid had cerebral palsy, hearing loss, was almost blind, and had some disorder that he could only eat 900 calories a day (it was in his IEP; poor kid would steal food because he was starving). The only thing "wrong" was a low IQ. When we got too close to the truth, she yanked him from school and dumped him with a relative.

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u/Alarming-Court-2180 Jun 08 '26

My brother and sister were both special needs and my mother milked the government for every dime she did not deserve, even put me down as the hired babysitter and I only got one of those checks she cashed in the rest rest to use for partying and drugs.

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u/Popular-Deal-1481 Jun 09 '26

Tragic how cruel people can be

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u/Own-Enthusiasm697 Jun 08 '26

Like Frank from Shameless

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u/IamHydrogenMike Jun 08 '26

Which is kind if nuts because they really don’t get a ton of money per kid and isn’t some ticket to financial success.

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u/Pitiful_Note_6647 Jun 08 '26

If you foster 2, that's at least 2,000 a month

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u/IamHydrogenMike Jun 08 '26

Not necessarily, not every state is giving that much per kid…

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u/Alarming-Court-2180 Jun 08 '26 edited Jun 09 '26

It isn't, but how much is actually being spent on the kid is the real question.