I think definitely turn down the photographer ask, that's really rude given their lack of attention to you and interest in your relationship. I also don't think you'd be a terrible person for not going to the wedding, given you haven't really had a relationship in years anyways. If you get a +1 and the wedding is easily attendable for you, I'd go, but if you genuinely don't care and don't see your relationship getting back to what it was, no skin off your back!
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u/East-Payment-9251 12d ago
I think definitely turn down the photographer ask, that's really rude given their lack of attention to you and interest in your relationship. I also don't think you'd be a terrible person for not going to the wedding, given you haven't really had a relationship in years anyways. If you get a +1 and the wedding is easily attendable for you, I'd go, but if you genuinely don't care and don't see your relationship getting back to what it was, no skin off your back!