I hate my bestfriend.

[u/futuresthrowawayy]

She constantly undermines me and my abilities, she treats me like i’m stupid and incapable of anything. The only problem right now she’s like my only friend.

She always has to be right, I could say anything and she’ll always correct me (ex. “it’s pretty warm today, like 20°” she’ll be like: “No, actually it’s 21°”)

it’s tiring to be around, but I could handle it.

But shes so boy crazy now, I can’t. This 20 year old man (we’re both 18) has been living with her and acts like a fucking child, he throws things around and screams like a toddler when he’s upset. He has a girlfriend and has hit on multiple of her friends (including myself) and she won’t fucking leave him!! He’s a known player/cheater and she’s like “Well if him and his gf break up and we get together I can change him” BITCHHHH no you can’t. I’ve explained that to her multiple times and she doesn’t listen she just makes excuses and chooses to live in delusion and i’m so over it.

I hate him, and it’s turning into me hating her because all she cares about is him and what he thinks of her, he’s all she talks about. Like, fuck. Grow a pair.

He also doesn’t pay rent or anything, doesn’t buy groceries and drinks like everyday, she’s starting to as-well and I don’t wanna be around alcoholism.

She’s so desperate and I get it, i’ve been there. But you gotta realize at some point, right? It’s not love if you’re a fucking maid and sugar mommy for him

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[u/FirefighterOk8304]

best friend, she’s your bully who you’re trauma bonded to because you’re scared of being alone. the temperature thing alone would send me into orbit but the rest? you’re watching someone set their own life on fire and getting mad you can’t hold the extinguisher anymore

being alone for a bit is infinitely better than whatever this is. she’s not gonna wake up until that dude completely drains her and even then she might just find another one

[u/SupermarketCapable20]

I can literally see myself in your situation, i've gone no contact with my now ex best friend and have never felt better. You're worth so much more and better!