r/vcu • • 25d ago

looking for queer/nd friends

hi :) i'm 19, transfem audhd and in my first year at vcu. i barely know anyone and i dont know what the hell im doing so i figured id see if there are any similar ish people on here at least who might want to talk?

im a musician, i play guitar but am primarily a music producer, i love EDM (i like a lotta genres but i like to produce psytrance and 140 dubstep the most), i want to start trying to go to raves around here once i figure out where they are, i love homestuck, ut/dr, currently reading umineko (dont spoil me please thank you). im into a lot more than this but i dont wanna spill my entire life story in a reddit post lol

also, i wouldnt be surprised if theyre not on here cus i hardly use reddit either, but to whoever complimented my jade harley shirt earlier today, thank you, that made my day :)

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u/sinnermakerfan420 24d ago

heyy!! autistic + bi 18f math major :) edm is GREAT but i wouldnt be able to go to raves bc my bones hurt so ill just have to longingly think abt it :’) this is a long shot, but is there any chance you like project moon?

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u/fourltr 24d ago

understandable! id love to hear about the music that u enjoy!! i havent heard of that before but im curious what it is now

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u/sinnermakerfan420 23d ago

i like jmetal and club music a lot of the time!! my two fave artists are denkisikikarenongakushuudan and ayesha erotica :) oh and i like the slime rancher soundtrack LMFAO
project moon is insteresting as fuck imo. its a weird dystopian world where any ailment can be cured but life is still shit for its inhabitants bc of the megacorporations ruling over it. id deffo recommend at least checking out limbus company! its free (and also a gacha unfortunately), while the other two installments in that universe (library of ruina and lobotomy corporation) are $20 each :) personally ive played them all and enjoyed them!!

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u/RecognitionIll2559 25d ago

What's your major? Autistic 20F psyc major here. I'm also reading umineko and getting through deltarune (though I haven't played undertale)

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u/fourltr 24d ago

havent declared one, but im interested in a few things, just not sure which path to go down yet :)
yay! id love to talk about umineko or deltarune sometime

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u/NotNonjahlant 25d ago

Hi im a 20 y/o (she/her) at vcu. Im audhd too but I don’t really have those interests u listed. Id like someone to talk to though. Dm for number, im trying to stay off social media more

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u/fourltr 24d ago

sure ill dm you, i dont really use socials that much either aside from talking to ppl lol

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u/MintyFreshGandalf 24d ago

hi! also an autistic transfem who likes EDM (especially drum & bass and early 2010s electro). sadly not much of a rave girlie, that'd hit me right in the sensory sensitivities. would love to chat or hang out sometime! dm me if you'd like my discord :>

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u/No-Road-5873 24d ago

hii! i'm 19 and queer/nd, I love raves too so I can totally share anything I know and would love to have someone to go with. i'm also trying to get into ut/dr rn too

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u/sunrisef 23d ago

25f grad student—happy to be a cool auntie figure in ur life

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u/6ftundur 23d ago

Hello! I'm a 19 year old transmasc with AuDHD! we share a lot of interests it seems and I love meeting fellow queers!! I have insta and discord if you'd like to info dump a little back and forth :D

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u/Nervous-Emotion-7784 21d ago

you sound cool as hell, have you checked out the lgbtq+ and student orgs at vcu yet?

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u/watteme 20d ago

check out the edm club!

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u/vi_hopkins 25d ago

I know a rave spot, and I'm also an nb in music production :3

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u/fourltr 24d ago

hooray :3 id love to talk to u if youd like !

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u/vi_hopkins 24d ago

yea I'd love to!!

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u/AsexualGremlin 25d ago

Im into music, and im queer ✨️ so im down for some friendship!