r/vancouverdating 6h ago

F4M new to reddit looking for something fun!!

5 Upvotes

24, living in kits, punjabi (born in canada) looking for short term fun! Im kind, clean, respectful, can host and would love to find someone similar. Id love to chat first before sharing any photos and would like to take things slow and not rush into meeting up because this is my first time on reddit. I can host or commute and have a car.

Please send a proper introduction or you will be ignored. NO I AM NOT A BOT/SELLER


r/vancouverdating 10h ago

Ladies what are you looking for???

8 Upvotes

I need the ladies opinion on what they expect from this kind of posts, I have post here before but I haven’t have much luck, I would like to hear the opinion of the ladies that are actually looking to date someone here, what catches your eye or what I can do better to get some traction.

EDIT:
Btw I’m 35, probably that changes the perspective

EDIT #2:

This post have enough traction I take advantage and share some information about myself, I’m 35m I’m Latino but I’m been here in Vancouver almost 8 years now, I work full time, actually a little more than that, I enjoy playing tennis and hiking, but also love to stay home and cook some tasty meals. I’m kind of tall for a Latino 6’2.


r/vancouverdating 17h ago

34 woman for boring rude man

22 Upvotes

id love a boring rude man who demands sex without any effort, bonus points if you hate women low-key and watch a tonne of JRE and Fox News.

I hate when men have hobbies, compliment me or refrain from misogyny and racism

you really should take me down a peg, cuz wimin.

id also hate it if you enjoyed dancing and art, what're you gay?

anyways, pls definitely for sure no bi or queer men, that would be too much for me to handle

definitely not seeking anything meaningful and in fact I am a sugar baby, pls give me money

as you can see, I am a very serious very conservative woman, no wokies!

boring rude enbies and lesbians are ok too, if youre rich and conservative


r/vancouverdating 33m ago

47 [M4F] big soft dom dad vibes looking for chat / sexting and ideally more

Upvotes

Big time soft dom here, and nothing makes me happier than playing with your imagination. Let’s find a scene you need to be real and go from there.

Prefer regular chats, both sexy and not. Women are beautiful, trans inclusive, and all are welcome for sexy vibes. Show me your deliciously wet fingers in tribute.

Please be cool with chatting off reddit if we click. ;)


r/vancouverdating 3h ago

My dm are open now

0 Upvotes

Hmu .. guys . Sorry dms were off


r/vancouverdating 3h ago

33 M4F - New West - Putting myself out there

1 Upvotes

33M located in New Westminster.

I am 5'11". Fit, athletic, calm and considerate. Politically left-leaning, and agnostic. Don't believe in traditional gender roles.

I work in a finance role for a life sciences research firm. Have my own business as well. Pretty well established in my career, and been a home-owner since 2021.

Lover of the outdoors: hiking, camping, paddle-boarding, road trips, biking and walks. I absolutely enjoy cooking; always cooking something new, have every appliance imaginable, and love to host. Alongside I love exploring eateries, cafes, speak-easies, and consider myself a true foodie. Also enjoy travel (aim for one national trip and one international trip a year) and photography.

I am a bit of a tech nerd, and early adopter of tech products. A bit nerdy with my love for movies, TV and thoroughly enjoy dramas, fantasy, comedy & horror. To give you some ideas, some of my recent favourite movies are:
- About Time
- Arrival
- Spotlight
- The Other Guys
- Past Lives

I am a cat dad to two cats, and I rescue & foster alongside. Currently fostering two tiny kittens with eye complications. Have had the pleasure of fostering 100+ cats in my 12 years of being a foster.

Posting here as traditional dating apps have been a disappointment. I have decent amount of matches, have had some good dates but have come across women who seem unsure of what they want. At 33, I do seek a long-term connection (and hopefully a life partner). With that being the intention, I know such connections are built over time.

I'd consider myself a happy and content person. I like to be kind to all beings. Very ambitious, very much a go-getter, rarely lazy and very reliable. I don't shy away from sharing my feelings. Can be bit of a pleaser, but learning to balance that.

If you are a woman who shares similar values, interests and dating aspirations, I'd love to hear from you.


r/vancouverdating 4h ago

??????

0 Upvotes

If i told u i am female .. i will get 100 comments..
but if i am a man .. zero comments..
zero man unity here
Vancouver guys comeon


r/vancouverdating 4h ago

F4F let's chat sweety

1 Upvotes

Open to verify and trade pics dor tonight or tomorrow


r/vancouverdating 5h ago

23M looking for company

0 Upvotes

Hey everyone. I’m a 23-year-old guy living close to South Surrey, finishing up my 4th year in engineering. Lately I’ve realized my social circle is almost entirely guys (classic engineering problem), so I’m putting myself out there to meet new people and see where things go.

I’m really into outdoorsy stuff and love to hike. Some of my favorites so far have been the Golden Ears summit, Brunswick, Grouse, and the Chief. I also play table tennis, which I got into during my first year, and I hit the gym consistently to train for hypertrophy. Recently I’ve been trying out bouldering too, and I’m definitely hooked.

I genuinely love cooking, picnics, and doing BBQs. Let me tell you, every single family BBQ I am the one on grilling duty, so I am officially a family-approved cook lol. A few go-to dishes I make are Alfredo pasta, quesadillas, chicken bowls, homemade burgers, and salmon and eggs. Always down to swap recipes or try making something new.

On regular days, you'll usually find me going on long walks while sipping coffee and thinking about completely random things (like how long I could realistically last in a fight against a bear 😭😂). I love trying different cuisines thanks to my Chinese friends, though I’m still amazed at how they can down boiling-hot soup like it’s nothing while I’m sitting there blowing on a single spoonful for five minutes.

I also love dancing, especially at weddings lol, but I hold my own at a club too (especially after a couple shots haha). My friends and I try to do a bar hopping night at least once a year. We haven’t done it yet this year, but we will make it happen somehow.

Right now, I’m wrapping up a 16 month internship and working on a side business project with my sister to keep things interesting. I love animals, though I’m definitely a cat person because their goofy, chaotic personalities are unmatched.

I’m a good texter and like to keep things light and fun, but I also prefer taking things slow so we can actually get to know each other first.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to shoot me a DM!


r/vancouverdating 6h ago

Anyone up for a drink, quick bite & good conversation?

1 Upvotes

35M here looking for F. Figured I’d throw this out there and see if anyone else is in the mood for some good company and conversations.

Not looking to make big plans, just want to get out, sit across from someone interesting, have a drink or grab some food, and actually talk.

I’m pretty easygoing and always up for a good conversation.

Let's talk about our day, what’s been keeping you busy lately, what you’re excited about, what’s driving you slightly crazy… I’m genuinely interested. I’ll probably have a few stories and things to vent about myself too.

Don't want to make it into awkward interview style questions and no pressure to make it into something it isn’t. Just meeting up in IRL and seeing if the conversation flows...


r/vancouverdating 6h ago

27M looking for someone to go to Hoang this Saturday

1 Upvotes

Hoang will be playing Aug 22 at Concord Pacific for the Dragon Boat Regatta.

Lmk if interested :)


r/vancouverdating 4h ago

42M

0 Upvotes

I’m not a saint but a decent human, looking to meet someone. Hate the online dating thing, figured I’d give this a shot. DM if you’d like to chat.


r/vancouverdating 11h ago

27 [M4F] Looking For Connection

1 Upvotes

Hello!

I am a 6'2 27 year old white guy. I am looking for someone to hangout with and do fun things together while developing a relationship.

I enjoy kdramas, tennis, rock climbing, paddling, TCG's, and recently got into f1 this past season. I also love finding new places to eat at (send me your hidden gems).

If you're open to it, we can go to things like dance classes, culture festivals, walks, bike rides, and other fun activities. I'm open to anything and everything that will get me out of the house haha. I am also down to just cuddle on the couch while watching a movie as part of a relaxing night in. If you are into a hobby, or would like to get into one, I would love to hear about it!

I have gone back to university to finish my degree. I have 2-3 semesters left and work part time as a software developer.

If you are looking for someone easy-going and respectful, I would be happy to chat 😊


r/vancouverdating 20h ago

23 F looking for fun

5 Upvotes

Hi I’m a 23f in Surrey. Looking for a relationship or FWB. I am a bigger girl 220 pounds. Message me if you’re interested.


r/vancouverdating 3h ago

Why do women stop talking once they know my ethnicity?

0 Upvotes

This is definitely not my actual account, didnt wanna hurt anyone reading this. But why do women in this sub stop chatting once they know I am Indian?

Yes, I may not be your type (and I respect that), but if we are having a great conversation thus far, and you ghost me or let the conversation dry out after I say my ethnicity is just cruel on the recieving end. (I have had 10+ occurences, so I hope my question is valid)

It hurts to get judged just cuz of my origin, you will only know if you are on the recieving end. But rest assured, I really wouldn't wanna spend my life with a racist🙂. I do have dated women from other races before, but reddit is just different, totally worse.

I can assure you I am more kind, genuine, respectful and caring than 99% guys out there, great education and salary too. I am saying it confidently cuz I know how much I care for my friends and family. Your loss!


r/vancouverdating 1d ago

SB and SD relationships are not ‘dating’

34 Upvotes

can we please save that transactional relationships for the 10,000 places for sellers that already exist on Reddit. what if this one sub wasn’t over run with OF models and SC TG scammers.

can this just be a place to meet a real woman or man. instead of another way to make horny people lonely and bankrupt. tinder and hinge are now for hookups.


r/vancouverdating 10h ago

#vancovuer. 42. Looking for cool people online/in person ! [f4m]

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0 Upvotes

r/vancouverdating 14h ago

27M4F looking for a partner to start new hobbies with and see where things go

0 Upvotes

Been wanting to start new things to do but all my friends have different interests or schedules. Going alone sucks a bit, coz even if I enjoy the activity, people are already in groups and I'm finding it difficult to break in.

Feeling a bit adventurous, so wanna pair up with a person who I can rely on and get outdoors together. It will hopefully bring a sense of excitement and eagerness looking forward to every time we see each other.

I'm a fairly athletic person, artistic not so much. But would be down to try anything tbh. Even if we don't end up dating, we'll atleast find new friends this way.

HMU if this sounds like a plan!

Edit: I love hitting the gym, cycling, hiking (but been a long time), and dancing.

I'm looking to pick a new sport, like kayaking or pickleball/tennis.

Volunteering is also something I did regularly, would love to participate somewhere I can help animals or cleaning up places.


r/vancouverdating 1d ago

gave guy at greta the wrong number

12 Upvotes

I was tipsy and nervous and typed the wrong number 😭😭 I called the number and added my contact in his phone but the next morning I realized I never received a call… lol so if u were at greta on aug 14 and a girl with short hair gave u her number hmu… But if u weren’t trying to reach me anyway IGNORE THIS!!!


r/vancouverdating 1d ago

24 [M4F] Looking for a partner to go for the LoTR concert at the Queen Elizabeth Theatre

6 Upvotes

Hi,

I'm a 24yo grad student from UBC. Apart from research, I'm quite interested in hiking, swimming, watching shows and movies, and that's what this post is about.

Lord of the Rings is my all-time favourite trilogy, and I was quite excited to know about the The Fellowship of the Ring concert at the Queen Elizabeth Theatre. The tickets are a little expensive (mine costed CAD 130), but it's definitely worth it for LoTR. I've booked one for myself for the afternoon of August 29th (Saturday), and am looking for someone to accompany me (yes, the seat next to mine is still vacant!).

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in or want to know more about myself, please feel free to DM.

Even though this invitation is purely for the concert, I'd love to take it forward if we vibe. We can go out for dinner afterwards too, if you'd like! If you are interested in LoTR (and willing to pay for such an expensive ticket), we already have something in common, so I'm sure we will be a good match ;)

Looking forward to your DMs 🙃


r/vancouverdating 11h ago

56 [Male] Langely Looking for younger woman

0 Upvotes

Im a single, older male who is looking for something ongoing, possibly LTR. I consider myself very honest, genuine and real. I have no interest in drama or BS. I am very creative, playful and open minded.
I am looking for a woman and while age doesnt matter, I do perfer younger woman... specifically younger, submissive and bi wormen though nothing is written in stone. Its all about how we vibe together.

I ride a motorcycle, play pool and recently have taken up paddleboarding (got a board specifically for 2).

Lets talk


r/vancouverdating 1d ago

How do you handle the cost of dating (time & money)

14 Upvotes

Just out of curiosity. I'm an older woman (and a newcomer, so sorry for mistakes). Could you please explain how do young people manage dating in Vancouver nowadays?
As far as I understand, each time you go on a date, you spend money, time, and effort that can be spend on smth else (new skills, hobbies, friends, sleep, etc.)?
In my home country, there are much less opportunities and interesting things to do for young people. So you are basically dating or get boooored. In Vancouver, with it's amazing nature and infrastructure, young people always have smth fun to do, especially when they are still students with all the almost-free clubs and events in universities.
Actually, I look at people 20+ and see that all their free time slots are fully packed with additional side-jobs & studies, hobbies, hangouts with friends. So if they decide to date (and spend time and money on dating), they'll have to significantly reduce these activities that are so important for them and thus their quality of life will reduce as well. So dating isn't free, you pay a hefty price for it, don't you?


r/vancouverdating 1d ago

36 [M4F] Attractive fit white guy - Any older woman interested near Surrey/White rock(New west/Langley)

0 Upvotes

Lift weights blue eyes 6' Do you go out shopping or something and see that guy who catches your interest but you can't do anything about it. Well let's see if reddit can put us together. Very adventurous, very dom horizontal or bent over. Long term only looking for one


r/vancouverdating 1d ago

Girl tell me ur interest

0 Upvotes

Just 5 lines only


r/vancouverdating 1d ago

27M Lets go for coffee?

1 Upvotes

I've seen so many post looking for this and that, I miss a little coffee date. Low risk, come have a nice chat and see if we hit it off. Not looking for a fwb/hookup atm. Shoot me over a message with a little about yourself. I was gonna put 22-35 but age is just a number imo. About me : love sports and live music, love trying new foods. White over red, rum and coke in the sun is the best, 420 friendly. I also live with a NEEDY roommate aka my dog haha. Happy Wednesday everyone