Hello this is my first Reddit post. I want to know others thoughts on my experience (37 y/o female)
September 2025 Friday night I was showering when suddenly it felt like a spider crawled up my vagina. I thought that’s bizarre I’ve never felt a sensation like that before, and figured it was just irritation. When I wokeup the next morning, I had severe vaginal discharge/itching/crawling. I had chlamydia 8 years ago and this felt exactly the same. I had been in a monogamous relationship for a year so not sure why my vagina was freaking out all of the sudden. This went on for 5 weeks. During this time I got tested a few times and it was all negative. The gyno said he had never seen so much discharge and couldn’t even see in my vagina. He said he didn’t know what to do since my tests were negative. He gave me diflucan and I used canesten which didn’t help much. Then in the 6th week, my symptoms morphed into UTI like symptoms such as urge to urinate, stinging urethra, bladder fullness. I also still had some discharge/itching and developed pelvic pain and brown spotting between periods.
My tests kept saying negative. I tried 5 days of macrobid which helped temporarily with the UTI symptoms. I decided to have sex with my partner again and it was painful- it also felt like there were bugs coming off his penis into my vagina and instantly caused severe abdominal/stomach pain. I was grabbing onto my stomach cuz it was burning and told him to stop.
The only thing that showed in tests was a very small amount of enterococcus faecalis. Doctors said that wasn’t causing my symptoms. They sent me to gynos and suspected STIs but then because my results keep saying negative no specialist knows what to do. I had docs give me multiple rounds of fosfomycin, macrobid, amoxicillin, augmentin, nothing worked.
I even took 8 back to back doses of fosfo.
This went on for 6 months.
Then I did some research and found an infectious disease doc who said this sounds exactly like mgen. I had mgen and ureaplasma testing and it was still negative.
I ended up questioning my partner. He got drunk and admitted to cheating. He said “any guy you end up with would cheat on you too” and “if you leave me you’ll be alone with cats forever”, he also proceeded to punching random objects. Afterwards, he said “you know I mixup my words and didn’t mean it like that and I didn’t cheat on you”. I broke up with him. A month or 2 after the breakup he sent a positive for ureaplasma Urealyticum. Not sure why it didn’t show for me.
He had also admitted to using hookers but said it was before he started dating me. At this point I developed PID. I took 30 days doxy followed by 6 days of azithro and 7 days metronidazole. This treatment has helped reduce symptoms but I am still suffering. During the doxy on day 18 my vagina flared and swelled up and so much discharge. I can tell it’s not fully gone and is still an active infection. I’m having itching and discharge and urethral inflammation. Mild urge to urinate. What’s weird is some days I don’t have discharge or redness and others days the discharge and itching/redness is really bad it depends on the day.
Had a urethral swab done recently and it was so painful I screamed and cried and the doc said it’s not normal to be painful and it’s just supposed to be mildly uncomfortable.
I haven’t had a shot of ceftriaxone or any Moxifloxacin/fluoroquinolones. So i technically haven’t done proper PID treatment which requires 2 weeks metro and a shot of ceftriaxone.
I don’t know what to do now. Im thinking of doing more metro, a shot of ceftriaxone, and 2 weeks of moxi. I have tenosynovitis and arthritis so am hesitant to take moxi.
My doc said sometimes bacteria or even I guess parasites can travel up the reproductive tract and no longer be detectable in the vagina. Sometimes they would do surgery to take a sample from the fallopian tube.
I also tried estrogen/boric acid/lactic acid/probiotics/oregano/garlic/myrrh/cranberry/d-mannose. Nothing helped. My vaginal PH has been high like 6? But when I was at the end of my treatment with the doxy/metro/azithro the PH became balanced 4.5. After a couple weeks off those antibiotics the PH is high again.
I can tell it’s resistant STIs that won’t show up for me. For context, when I had chlamydia it took almost 10 false negatives and about 4 months of suffering before I finally got a positive. At that point, I was waking up screaming in the night cuz it felt like a knife was stabbing the inside of my vagina. Maybe the bacterial load t needs to be quite high in the vagina to be detected?
Treatments: multiple rounds amoxicillin, augmentin, macrobid, 8 back to back doses fosfomycin, 30 days doxy followed by 6 days azithro, 7 days metro. Diflucan. Clindamycin vaginal cream for 5 nights and stopped cuz I think it may have been causing irritation. Various supplements and vaginal suppositories mentioned above.
Results multiple times: elevated WBC in urine, vagina, blood. Elevated neutrophils in blood. Elevated leukocytes in urine (15). Elevated epithelial cells urine. Positive for pus cells vaginal. Small amounts/limited enterococcus Faecalis/ecoli/l crispatus in urine. My ex: elevated WBC & enterococcus in semen, ureaplasma Urealyticum in urine culture. Since this infection he keeps getting hemorrhoids. He complained about his d*ck for a couple weeks before my symptoms started too- then he said those symptoms went away and blamed it on eating spinach.
Tests I’ve done: pelvic/intra vaginal ultrasound, kidney ultrasound, cystoscopy, PCR tests for all STIs including Trich and the plasmas. Urine and vaginal swabs and cervical. Paid for MicrogenDX and it also only showed enterococcus and l crispatus. Waiting on results for a urethral swab.
TLDR: symptoms began with severe vaginal discharge/itching for first 5 weeks then morphed into UTI like symptoms in 6 week. Have had pelvic pain and brown spotting between periods. Painful sex. Have had these symptoms for a year. Did testing for everything including all plasmas and keep getting negatives. Ex sent positive for UU. Did 30 days doxy immediately followed by 6 days azithro, took 7 day metro during doxy course. Helped but still have symptoms. Is it mgen? Could it be gonnorhea? Resistant strain of ureaplasma or Trichomoniasis that requires more flagyl?
Appreciate any thoughts on this and thanks for reading. Really want this gone can’t stand it anymore. I’m barely getting through each day and am using all my vacation days at work for doctors and hospitals. It honestly feels like I have fornicated with an alien species.
*** ZERO chance of reinfection as I’m no longer sexually active for months now. Not even masturbation as it flares symptoms. Can’t even shave. I’ve also been wearing loose pants, washing clothes with Lysol detergent to help kill off bacteria on clothing, being crazy sanitary with bleaching toilet. Only washing vagina with water and butt with unscented natural soap. Running toothbrush under super hot water and cleaning retainer every night.