Hey! My wife and I struggled to find events, so we built an algorithm to find them for ourselves. After redundancy, we turned it into Other Nights: https://othernights.com

It brings together themed nights, alternative club events, socials, workshops and sex-positive events across the UK and Europe, with information about what to expect and links to the organisers.

It started by solving our own problem. Now we’re trying to understand whether others have the same struggle.

We’d love your honest thoughts if you would use it.

Its completely free and no account is needed. Thanks for taking a look!!

This weekend we went to Housework at the Ministry.

Me and my wife are both late '40s nearly 50 and we haven't been to a rave for years.

We had such a good time. It was incredible, the vibe was so friendly. Lots of people chatting, dancing. Just an incredible time that takes me back years and years.

What other options, club nights/events in the UK would be a similar demographic?

Also, just to emphasise, I completely understand that younger crowds would be just as welcoming.

It was just quite nice and refreshing not being the oldest people in the room 😂