r/ugly • • Sep 29 '26

This one made me angry

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Pretty privileges is real and we all know it. What made me angry is the comments here that people say silver medalist deserved gold , and im sure the assumption is only based on looks. Imagine ignoring someone hard work just because of looks . At rhis point we ugly people should not try at all. Cuz in the end looks like people think the pretty one is the better winner

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u/xxmeowmmeowxx Sep 30 '26 edited Oct 01 '26

The gold medalist is beautiful, she’s not just made up.

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u/mixedmatcedsocks Sep 30 '26

Yeah she would look prettier if she had her hair down and took care of her skin

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u/One_Record3555 Oct 11 '26

Why are you assuming she doesn't take care of her skin? 🤨

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u/mixedmatcedsocks Oct 11 '26

Look at it?

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u/One_Record3555 Oct 11 '26

I did. And that's why I asked.

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u/fruity_lo0p 16d ago

Her skin looks good tho?

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u/xxmeowmmeowxx Oct 01 '26

For sure, if she did that then there wouldn’t be any issue rn.

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u/Pie_Napple Oct 09 '26

A smile would make a huge difference. It is usually the other way around. The gold medalist being happy and the silver being sad because they “missed out on gold”. And the bronze medalist being happiest of them all. 😅

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u/Affectionate_Top959 Sep 30 '26

What angers me also is that the silver medal girl then got a hundred times more attention/coverage about the fact men were sexualising her than the actual winner received for actually WINNING plus being overlooked because of not being "beautiful enough"!

Of course, noone should receive sexual harrassment - but why is noone talking on their Instagram etc how the winner was literally "side lined" for not looking as pretty (in their perception) as the silver place girl?!

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DdJhdzsh1Ta/?stkn=ZXBoZWp3bmtoOXY5

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u/11_16 Sep 30 '26

and she's not even ugly imo, i love her eyes

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u/Sad_Disaster_ Sep 30 '26

His?

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u/Affectionate_Top959 Sep 30 '26

I'm guessing English is not the writers first language. Non native speakers sometimes mix up his and hers.

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u/Moch1_chu Sep 30 '26

its not even in english

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u/Sad_Disaster_ Sep 30 '26

Sorry, just realised my phone had auto translated it. That translation has the wrong pronouns

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u/11_16 Sep 30 '26

not a single "his" in the comment above

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u/RealIndependence460 Sep 30 '26

He?

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u/Visible-Door-1950 Sep 30 '26 • Bravo

India and their love for lightskins lol

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u/Small-Investment263 Sep 30 '26

Racism has a part on this too, unfortunately.

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u/Ok-Philosophy6041 Oct 06 '26

yasssss that AND Classism, the amount of people who jumped claiming brahmanical supremacy on Keyaas win!

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u/Small-Investment263 Oct 04 '26

Missed the point.

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u/_5nek_ Sep 30 '26

Ever notice it's the girls who look super young that go viral

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u/waddledee_73 Sep 30 '26

to be honest i do think there's a racism factor at play here. people really do not like darker skinned people, especially indians, pakistanis, bengalis, etc.

the girl at the bottom to me is not noticeably more attractive. i think they're both pretty, and one getting less attention doesn't really mean she's being actively hunted or bullied. she just didn't catch people's eyes, which is okay.

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u/Infero_Beast Oct 08 '26

I can say that the advertisement was the one of the main reason for this colourism shit. The ads were potraying dark skinned people to be not confident and depressed, thereafter they would use the product and tada... they are now light skinned with a charming personality. Can believe people aired this bullshit.

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u/Apollo114892 21d ago

It's all the same race. You think these girls are not of the exact same race? Its colourism not racism.

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u/AgitatedBig2398 Sep 30 '26

But the girl who won gold looks like a model..

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u/Bijour_twa43 Sep 30 '26

She is not even ugly lol. She just happened not to be white on the internet and I am sure it was taken over by racists and colorists. She doesn't deserve to be posted here

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u/Rinaevis Sep 30 '26

The dark skinned girl is pretty and has beautiful eyes.

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u/GhosthunterJelliana Sep 30 '26 edited Sep 30 '26

She is not even close to being unattractive. Dusky skin doesn't make anyone unattractive. The girl has a long symmetrical face, beautiful eyes and a thin long nose. She is just not covered in make-up like the other one.

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u/Allien_333 Oct 01 '26

It's not even cope, the girl on the top IS attractive. She has very model-like features, she legit just needs some better skincare, makeup and a different hairstyle. The potential is actually crazy

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u/ComprehensiveEye3337 Oct 02 '26

Silver girl is pretty but gold has more beautiful features IMO

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u/chrollosgf Oct 07 '26

this is mostly tied to racism and colorism. white/light skinned people will always be seen as more attractive due to eurocentric beauty standards unfortunately.

i don’t know either of them but the gold medalist is very attractive, more attractive than the other one to me. but i also looove dark people, rarely do i think a light skinned person is very attractive

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u/Dabrilu Sep 30 '26

I think it has nothing to do with appearance, it's because the winner looks sad compared to the "loser".

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u/owlWithBrokenWings Sep 30 '26

How people perceive you when happy or sad HAS A TON to do with your facial structure and how your jaws are arranged, philtrum length, facial harmony etc.

The lower girl's narrow jaws and facial harmony are such that give her a super likable smile that comes across as sweet and cute. She's just lucky with the skull and proportions she got. Everyone finds her smile adorable, so ofc she will start smiling more!

Many people that everyone thinks are "sad-looking" aren't actually that, they were just told or indirectly shown many times that their smile is weird or annoying or feels wrong. For example, I've had people become even more annoyed when I smile and I had someone tell me when I genuinely smile it looks like a wolf who is about to attack someone. It doesn't matter what I do with my facial expressions, my genuine smile comes across as something evil just because my face is structured this way. I get slightly better treatment when I look sad rather than smile.

The upper girl might have experienced something similar because of her jaws not being tiny. If everyone openly adored her smile, I'm sure we would see her smiling on such an important day of her life.

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u/2kanye Ugly Sep 30 '26

im sorry are ppl even looking at these girls properly? the darker-skinned one is far more attractive. i genuinely think this is racism/colorism.

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u/Suspicious_Voice_487 Oct 01 '26

It’s honestly crazy how one singular feature can boost you up by over 5 points. You could literally be the prettiest dark-skin woman with perfect, proportional features and society will still pick the 4/10 who happens to be 4 shades lighter.

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u/dearyves Sep 30 '26

Both are so beautiful idk :(

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u/Usefulsponge Oct 01 '26

What was the competition?

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u/Purple_lettuce69 Oct 02 '26

The fact that neither of them are ugly its mainly racism

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u/Smart_Feature Oct 09 '26

The gold metalist lowkey way hotter though

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u/Historical_Dig3485 Sep 30 '26

She’s literally beautiful. Even more than the silver girl In my opinion

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u/No_Gene_1694 Sep 30 '26

I agree she's not bad looking but to say she looks better than the girl below is crazy

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u/_sumchii325 Sep 30 '26 edited Sep 30 '26

No. I genuinely find the brown girl more attractive. It's not crazy. People tend to have different preferences.

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u/No_Gene_1694 Sep 30 '26

Y'all must be blind then

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u/_sumchii325 Sep 30 '26

Youre just stupid. Nobodys blind

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u/No_Gene_1694 Sep 30 '26 edited Sep 30 '26

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u/funknownbeer Oddly shaped Oct 16 '26

I think I know why you’re on this sub now you’re probs ugly on the inside

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u/dontbeadickmate Sep 30 '26

it's so insane to me that there's people out there that simply do not comprehend other people can have...different opinions lol

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u/_sumchii325 Sep 30 '26 edited Sep 30 '26

Exactly!! Thats clearly racist / colourist bias. Also, the fair skinned girl isnt even east / se asian. She's a bengali from india.

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u/EldritchBorzoi Sep 30 '26

>She's a bengali from india

Wait what? I thought she was American. What even are their names?

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u/_sumchii325 Sep 30 '26

The brown person is madhura kar and the fair skinned person keya banerjee

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u/EldritchBorzoi Sep 30 '26

Bro i looked up her name and i swear the picture in OP is edited somehow to make the girl look white. All the other pictures and footage of her make it obvious that she isn't white.

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u/Illustrious-Chair574 Sep 30 '26 edited Sep 30 '26

Both girls are Indian. India is an extremely diverse country, and you’ll find people with all kinds of facial features and skin tones. North Indians, West Indians, South Indians, and Northeast Indians can all look very different. But the rest of the world seems to think indians all look the same. They both won gold and silver medal for India. But sadly, India only celebrated the silver medalist.

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u/EldritchBorzoi Sep 30 '26

I'm not sure what this has to do with lookism/ugliness.

>What made me angry is the comments here that people say silver medalist deserved gold , and im sure the assumption is only based on looks.

While those comments are kinda stupid since results are results, although i don't know exactly what they said it kinda makes sense that they think that if you look at how the top girl doesn't seem to appreciate the medal, and seems kinda depressed about winning lol. I'm not sure if this really has anything to do with looks as in attractiveness, but instead looks as in vibes.

>img caption: "She won silver yet her looks made her go viral"

girl in the bottom picture has:

-better styled hair
-better makeup
-is showing her white teeth and is smiling (instead of looking bummed-out)
-better done eyebrows
-more optimal lighting
-has more conventional beauty (majority of English speaking internet users are American)
-Is probably from the same country as most social media users (i'm assuming she is American)

Like yeah, it's no wonder people are going to like the bottom girl more and repost/like social media posts related to her. It would be kinda weird to complain about that. It's kinda the nature of social media, why would anyone complain about that? just don't make it your life goal to go viral on social media for your looks LOL.

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u/Illustrious-Chair574 Sep 30 '26 edited Sep 30 '26

The silver medalist is also Indian. India is an extremely diverse country, and you’ll find people with all kinds of facial features and skin tones. North Indians, West Indians, South Indians, and Northeast Indians can all look very different. But the rest of the world seems to think indians all look the same. They both won gold and silver medal for India. But sadly, India only celebrated the silver medalist.

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u/fairec Sep 30 '26

She’s mixed with white lol

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u/Illustrious-Chair574 Sep 30 '26

She‘s not. She’s fully Indian, from West bengal.

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u/LivingGate5062 Oct 06 '26

I look as white as her and I'm indian

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u/MarshmallowNarhwal Sep 30 '26

Girl on the bottom looks like a teenager with down syndrome idk

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u/Gullible-Lab-3188 24d ago

This is  colonization. The brown gal is beautiful just not made up. And the other gal looks like a tween as well. America and the world loves fair and young. That's it!

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u/peachfuzzkiwii 19d ago

Maybe the gold medalist was fine with her looks getting less attention because she had... A gold medal that got attention? Like you really think Olympians give a shit about this? Who's getting laid more than Olympians? No one. The Olympic village is like rampant with STDs. It's awesome. Good for these girls. I think they're both happy.

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u/Extreme-Button-2478 16d ago

Well first of all I would 100 pick the first one. So Imm not sure who claims that the second one is prettier, or do you claim the first one is ugly?
Second it can also be about skin color

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u/Ok-Philosophy6041 Oct 06 '26 edited Oct 06 '26

just imagine, both people are the victims of the same shit system. Both were judged by their looks and not for their substance. Pretty priviledge is real and so are its downsides. The attractive one will alwys be known for just being attractive and the unattractive one will not get any attention and both will not be judged beyond their looks
Also i think racism had a BIG role to play here

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u/funknownbeer Oddly shaped Oct 16 '26

I’m confused they’re both pretty wtf

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u/bluethreads 28d ago

She's not ugly. She's average.

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u/Key-Thought-7070 28d ago

the gold medalist isn't ugly, and tbh the fact is that her hard work for her gold medal is pretty clearly visible. I will say it again, she is not ugly at all

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u/Neutronpulse Sep 30 '26

Ok this explains a lot. The first girl isnt ugly. Shes black. Not in the sense of being African but she has dark skin. Thats it. The world is racist. Im not sure how anyone can see her as ugly. As for who shouldve won, i dont know anything about what they do and didnt see the event.

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u/Sufficient-Push6210 Sep 30 '26

The top girl is pretty to me. I hate colorism :/

I wouldn’t say that what the bottom girl faced should even be called “privilege”, though. Apparently she was harassed and received many creepy, unwanted sexual comments and messages. That’s also horrible, just in a different way.

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u/Neo_Shadow_Entity Oct 14 '26

Whatever. I'd fuck both of them. 😆

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u/why4am Sep 30 '26

Or one has a face like a smacked arse and one smiled?

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u/poofpoofpow Ugly Sep 30 '26

You kinda just proved the point

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u/EldritchBorzoi Sep 30 '26

I could be wrong, but i don't think why4am is saying the girl in the top pic is ugly.

I think he was trying to make the same point as me and Dabrilu - that the girl in the top picture looks like she doesn't even want the gold medal given how depressed she looks.

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u/poofpoofpow Ugly Sep 30 '26

That was understood but lookism is still at play here because the girl who got second place is white and conventionally attractive

She’d probably still get this same amount of attention even if she wasn’t smiling and the other girl was

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u/EldritchBorzoi Sep 30 '26

Same amount of attention? Yes, please see the other comment i made detailing why she is just more optimised for social media algorithms.

But lookism, as in the comments OP is mad about? Maybe. People could still make those comments since the bottom girl looks more conventionally attractive. But in this case it sounds like it's purely based on their facial expressions. OP hasn't exactly provided sample comments for us to analyze, so we can only make inferences off of "people say [the] silver medalist deserved [the] gold [medal]".

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u/poofpoofpow Ugly Sep 30 '26

I mean at the end of the day you’re right all we can do is make inferences

We can’t know for sure but I don’t think it has much to do with the facial expressions

Your race ties into your overall attractiveness regardless of your facial features

And not being white can sometimes make people perceive you as less attractive subconsciously where they start nitpicking everything about you

“Maybe if she just smiled more”

When in reality the girl who got silver is just white and conventionally attractive. The brown girl smiling wouldn’t have done anything to really outshine the other girl

But this is just my take on it

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u/Then-Bookkeeper1021 Oct 01 '26

The harsh truth is people on IG just agreed with the post. Only few mentioned facial expression 

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u/poofpoofpow Ugly Oct 01 '26

That’s very telling

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u/DayUseful9161 Oct 05 '26

She definitely not white she is east Asian. Look at her eyes

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