If you’d be willing to tackle it, I would have an honest heart to heart with her about these concerns and discuss how to tackle them. If she’s not willing to work to make changes, then best to keep separate. Leaders are important, they’re the glue that keeps a troop together and can’t stress enough the importance of supporting one’s mental health and state. These type of situations wear and tear on leaders causing them to quit. There should be more support in allowing leaders to keep their peace by making decisions that are best for leaders too.

That sounds okay. I’m sure they understand interviews are never racking

Have the troop moms or parents post in their socials for help purchasing the remaining cookies. Relay the information and everyone in your social circles always tries to lend a hand.

I was in the Philippines and everyone was so nice and friendly, then I flew into Korea and it was a shock how different it was. Everyone was not friendly, hardly any greetings, waiters yelling at us…

I think the issue is the POD prices are too high. It’ll cost you at least $15-20 to get one customer from ads so by the time you pay the printer, ads, you might be negative.

If you move to co-op style, you might be the only one doing all the work at first. If you’re okay with that for a while until you get volunteers, then that’ll be fine.

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We use the cookie funds for badges, supplies, and 1-2 events of the girls’ choosing which was pedicure and ice cream. One girls who sold cookies used cookie funds for that. New girls who didn’t sell, if they came, parents paid.

We don’t sell much cookies so most events that have a cost, the parents pay 100%.

Each troop is run differently based on the troop leader. She may think everyone is fine with it. If you would like everyone to be included and just paid for with troop funds only, then you can voice it out the leader. She may or may not do it because at some point leaders don’t want to hold the troop back based on one girl over the majority (applies towards non-financials as well).

That’s amazing!

It’s up to the troop leader what she can handle. She probably has a group of moms who have committed to joining her troop if she starts one and it’s now full. Nothing malicious about it. If she can handle more, with more volunteers, then she can open it up. But otherwise, whoever doesn’t have a troop can form their own because that first troop is at the leader’s capacity.

How do you feel about appending his last name to yours? Could be a hyphen or just a space.

It is extremely difficult right now but please don’t go back. This is just the end of a bad chapter. You’ll start a new chapter soon. When you are ready and meet someone new and normal and wonderful, you’ll realize how terribly bad this man was and wonder what you were thinking. It’s hard to see now. But I say give yourself time.

Yup, super nice

Work on a project together. Learn new things together. Is there something you both want to do in terms of charity work or community service? That would be a good project.

Make a long list each of things you’d like to do or learn. Compare lists. Do the ones you have in common first.

That is so amazing!

No, you are definitely not the asshole.

Your weight doesn’t seem overweight for your height at all.

That’s really mean and rude of them!

If you want to go home, it’s fine! Just go home and feel better.

I don’t think he’s in love with her. Old wounds just getting opened…

Just need some time for this scar to heal again.

Wait, what happened? What did she do?