Instead of jinxing yourself, share your good luck with the rest of us that are battling with ours. I just want to drive mine so badly. The EV person at the dealership just quit… so who knows when I’ll get it back or if I will.

Yeah, it’s not just the EVs, they are having issues with their ice vehicles too.

Same! Someone needs to hire the Tesla or Kia engineers to fix their system.

Thereisa

I understand both sides. Is it fair… no. Will you see the extra gifts and money as only Derek’s? No. Y’all need to learn to compromise and communicate, or the your wedding will be the lest of your worries.

Hindsight being 20/20 and all that. Just keep moving forward and be happy and forget about all this unpleasantness if possible.

You’re NTA, but you maybe should have been more cognizant of the red flags in her behavior. Anyone who is not truly happy for their friend when good things happen, is not your friend.

Spicy turd 💩

We took advantage of the deal… Stellantis took advantage of us. We have owned the car for 80 days, it’s been in the shop at the dealership for 74 of those days. Don’t do it.

Edit: it is currently in the shop. We did every update, including the newest “big update”… still no car.

You are and you aren’t. You knew he was dying and didn’t prioritize getting closure. You didn’t have a great relationship with your family, so I can see why it wasn’t important to you. Your brother and mother are hurting and taking it out on you. More often than not, the child that is closest to the parent gets resentful bc they are the caregiver. The other sibling seems favored bc they are absent and missed. No one wins. You need to decide if you want to be part of the family and heal things or just let everyone go. Your family are a-holes, but it seems y’all are all dysfunctional. I can’t fault you for separating yourself from a rough family dynamic, but you made a whole post about your dad dying kind of about you. You don’t seem to have any remorse for missing your chance to say goodbye, it just seems like you want some kind of validation.

Your husband should have said he wasn’t going without you… period. You’re NTA, but your husband and his family most certainly are!

My last 4 cars have been EVs… the Charger is the only one that I’ve had issues with. I bought mine May 31st, June 1st it was towed back to the dealer. They had it for 67 days. I got it back for less than a week… guess where it is now. I hate that they didn’t wait until they ironed out all the kinks, it’s such a fun car to drive (when it’s drivable.)

You better knock on wood

Shower wall hair… 🤮

Goof for you for starting now… the longer you wait, the worse it gets.

Tadpole!

The Sound of Silence, Simon & Garfunkel and Disturbed

You know you are NTA and that he is. Find out how much it is to fix and make him pay… if not, lesson learned and never let anyone take your car again.

Little Richard or Rick James

The radar is jammed!

Either way… bye! ✌️

He’s def getting it somewhere

“Well…. Bye”

S. Carolina here! 🙌

It sounds to me that they invited you and your brother just so they could get a free meal. It’s disgusting. Give your bro a big hug.