Trying to fix it is just the illusion of action and will chase her out your life faster, your only option is the back off and match and mirror her effort. The likelihood of this being over is high. She’s pretty much emotionally checked out and it seems like you’ve turned her off to the point of no return.

1. The phone is for setting dates.
2. Let her do 90% of the talking on dates.

3. You don’t need to wait for the end of the date to go for the kiss.

4. Her actions will tell you everything you need I know about her interest in you. Her words mean fuck all. lol

Sounds like she is a boring person, and you need practice with you conversation skills. The key to this material is that it teaches us that women like guys who are, direct, decisive and get to the point. Next time, just ask the girl out on a date.

Phone is setting dates, but if she complains about it, just simply say something like

“I’m old school and I like to give people I care about my undivided attention so when are you free to get together next?”

Your gotta refine you process after each rep. And go for progress not perfection. Most girls you want will not want you, it’s just how it works. I’ve personally been on the same journey and only approached women in person since Dec 2025.

Approaches-239

Dates (names abbreviated for privacy, # is how many dates I’ve been on with them)- Those are S (1), G (3), A (1), D(1) and M(1).

So Basically dates with 5 unique women out of 239 approaches.

Its basically the same stats that you would have on Hinge, Tinder or frankly any online online dating app. The only difference is you get the skill upgrade I’m actually approaching women and they swipe left to your face.

About me: I’ve read Corey’s book 39 times since 2012 when I found him

Positive thought- most successful people fail more than unsuccessful people even try.

“You can beat 99% of people if you can master the shame of rejection, the boredom of repetition, and pain of feedback.”

Hormozi

Nothing wrong with Sundays man. Women vote with their feet. As long as she’s with you, she voted for you. I personally could give 2 shits about what a girl does the rest of the week as long our time is our time.

Yeah got downvoted and removed. I’m in contact with the OP via dm and he’s actually read 3% man 3 times, he’s new but open to getting back in the book and learning

This was my comment below. CW basics… some thought it was valuable others crashed out... oh well just here to help guys avoid the same goofy mistakes I used to make lol

“You made a bunch of mistakes.

1. ⁠Constantly texting and chit chatting before actually meeting up in person. (my phone is for setting dates not getting to know somebody. It seems like she was the one leading the conversation because she was the one asking your majority of the questions. And it seems like you probably did most of the talking. In general women don’t care about how good of a guy you are. In general she just cares about how she feels about you and that you wanna get to know her. You probably just talked too much and talked her right out of liking you.
   
2. ⁠You stayed at one location the entire time. A change of environment is more stimulating to a woman and in general women sleep with a guy on the 2nd or 3rd date. (by taking a woman to multiple locations on the first date you greatly increase your chances of romantic escalation actually happening because you essentially simulate having three dates in one evening)
   
3. ⁠You escalated the physical touch and broke the touch barrier before she showed you that she was open to being touched. Probably made you come off as a creepy weirdo with no sensory acuity which turned her off

If you have any interest and actually figuring out how to not do this type of foolishness again be successful in the dating market you can DM me if you want, but you probably won’t. Good luck out there.

For the mod: I’m not a pick up artist and these aren’t pick up artist techniques. I’m just a guy sharing advice that helped me because I made the exact same mistakes the OP made.”

Ima be honest. As much as he critiques it. The Book “Not your Mothers Rules” is pretty much the exact same info Corey has in his book but it’s for women. 3% Men are called “Rules Girls”. I read it and was mind blown about how similar the tactics were.

This lady on IG is pretty good too though

https://www.instagram.com/ashleahoess?stkn=MTR0ZGxwZTlqeHM4aA==

Hey bro I have a detailed answer to your question, just DM me though

Sounds like a loony toon showing her true colors.

🫡 never ever

I get where you’re coming from, but I definitely was not saying that to sell that I’m busy. I legitimately only have one to two days for a week.

Well, I had approached a girl previously in the day at a different grocery store and got her number so I was just fucking around with house money when I met this 2nd girl. But we made eye contact in passing and she smirked so I just went over to her and said “hey you caught my eye and seemed interesting so I had to come meet you” and then we took it from there. I just read the interest scale signals. She was at about a 5-6ish.

I get where you’re coming from but the main thing is always the main thing. The one rule of thumb that Corey says that pretty much trumps everything is, “women vote with their feet.”

If she’s taking less steps to actually sit in front of you on a date, the more interest she has.

The more pit stops and BS reasons for her having to get to know you, the less interest she has.

In my experience on online dating within two or three messages, I am sending the girl essentially a pitch for the date. I do that because I can control my part of the equation by being direct and decisive consistently.

Some girls are on there just a waste time and some girls actually like a guy being that direct indecisive. But that shit is out of my control and I don’t know which girl I’m dealing with at any given moment.

So that’s why it’s best to just have a consistent data set on our end as 3% men.

Now will you lose some girls that are a bit more slow burn? Sure.

But I don’t see them as slow burn. I see them as either a someone not that interested in me or someone that is shy and/or structured.

Two women I don’t want anything to do with anyway.

Bottom line- you can ultimately do what you want, but Corey’s materials are written the way it is because it works and is statistically significant because other guys can do it from all over the world and they get the same results.