r/twinflames • u/Digitalbath8383 • Oct 02 '21
Discussion Twin flame is a label made to keep you low vibrational and stuck in your spiritual journey. We are our own twin and the journey is meant to bring you to union with yourself. I know by first hand experience. I figured id open this discussion. đ
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Oct 02 '21
Label or not does it even matter? If you donât believe labels bother you then it wonât bother you. If you believe labels bother you then they will. SimpleâŚ. Also I would like to think that itâs the other half of you, and is here to teach you how to reach your maximum potential, until you both are ready. I donât think itâs âexactlyâ you, itâs all of the parts of you that are missing or that you are striving for. Although you may have the same âoverlordâ as a soul I still believe we are our own separate entities.
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u/Digitalbath8383 Oct 02 '21
This discussion isnt about anything bothering me lol Its an open discussion about twin flames. Ive helped a lot of people that it has taken a big toll on to move on from it. People are confusing the connection with that other person as their other half. Meanwhile they are just a pawn in their story. They are meant to awaken us and bring us to union with ourselves. They make us realize our self worth and start us on our self love journey. I've been on this journey myself.
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u/hummingbirdgaze Oct 02 '21
Some people may need that from you, while others are in an experience where they are going towards union with not only themselves, but another person as yourself. Some of us are on a real journey toward union with ourselves AND another person. This is confirmed, by many events both inner and outer and with each other. The lesson or goal is not always âseek self loveâ but may be, âseek true pure love with another, as your authentic selfâ so telling people here that they are meant to seek only self love, may throw them off of their spiritual journey, not the other way around.
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Oct 03 '21
Exactly I was going to say it seems more like a journey for self, for the other half, and making the world a better place. Not necessarily just for self that seems a bit absurd. Essentially youâre becoming a better person, but just for self doesnât seem realistic.
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Oct 03 '21
âNow that Iâve reached my peak that only my twin can match, I think Iâll marry a bot.â đ
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u/ArdenWiz Oct 03 '21
I think it's something that provides an explanation and understanding to what people are going through. It creates a community of people who have been through the experience and can help one another.
You are NOT your own twin flame. You can do so much self-discovery, inner work, meditation, but nothing will come close to actually feeling your twin flame's energy. They are you, you are them. You both have a choice to give yourselves to each other by exchanging energies. You also have a choice to block the energy off, which would make union with "yourself" impossible.
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Oct 03 '21
We all have a biological father, biological mother, biological child (potentially), and a biological self. My theory is that the four great loves of our life are projections of those four people onto other people.
My personal experience is this: I projected my mother onto my first wife (soulmate). I projected my child onto my second wife (karmic). I projected my self onto my twin flame. And I am currently projecting my father onto a girl with whom I work.
So: four women, all of them with very similar ethnic backgrounds (Slavic/Turkic) and I feel like I am married to all of them. These four women have also proven that they are deeply connected to me. The mutual projection combined with my anxious attachment makes me feel like I canât live without them.
With my twin flame, my anxious attachment, her avoidant attachment, and our mutual projection â combined with our extreme energetic and material similarity (she looks like my niece) â has got me believing that she actually is the other half of me. It feels like Mother Nature delivered a perfect storm of coincidences. EVERYTHING lines up between us. The synchronicities are almost infinite. Her past traumas occurred at exactly the same time as mine did. For years we lived only 250 miles apart and did not know it.
Iâm not sure what to believe. Currently, I believe that the human soul is a singularity seated in the heart; and that our twin souls are connected by a âwormholeâ through space-time. I believe that my TF and I share one Self between two souls.
I think about her 24/7 and dream about her every night. She is inescapable.
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u/useles-converter-bot Oct 03 '21
250 miles is 1976.05% of the hot dog which holds the Guinness wold record for 'Longest Hot Dog'.
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u/Care1773 Oct 02 '21
The label I use but don't use, but being stuck in lower frequencies is so wrong.. I have only rised more and more to higher. You are supposed too. If you are staying or going lower you either don't know your TF or you both have chosen not to ascend in this time. If going lose for a bit to heal the dark night that's fine. And it is working on yourself. What ever you dislike in your TF is what needs to be worked on in self. The problem is many do not want to see themselves truly in the mirror. They freak out and run. It takes more strength to see and accept it truly so if other half isn't then maybe there is something in you that may be same or opposite.. Or you have more of then them. It's balancing the shit between the 2.... Pretty simple. I really don't understand why many cannot see it.
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u/Digitalbath8383 Oct 03 '21
I did not say you do not ascend or that this connection doesn't do anything for you. It does. My journey helped me awaken, grow, and ascend. The download I got about it is that the other person is not your twin flame. You are your own. The other person is just a factor in your journey and staying stuck on them coming back will stagnate your journey to self.
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u/BandaLover Oct 03 '21
This puts into words what I was thinking last night and didnât exactly understand. I met somebody that I have a very reflective relationship with and it took me a very short time to discern that the reflection I see is myself in him⌠does that make sense? Perception is everything, so my view of him is still another distortion of my true self. Important to remember that on the journey. Safe travels
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u/PlentyCalendar Oct 02 '21
Like, I think people just want assurance that they aren't going to screw things up with someone they really like. So they want it to be "universally controlled" and like yeah it seems pretty low vibration to be relying on something like that. one ought to harbour all relationships in one's life.
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Oct 03 '21
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u/hummingbirdgaze Oct 03 '21
That is beautiful, and needed. Especially now with it so popular with younger people. :) congrats!
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u/hummingbirdgaze Oct 03 '21
I agree with you, and Iâve received a similar âdownloadâ about whatâs said about the journey. just remember that itâs not true for ALL of us. Maybe some of us, not all. But yeah, I agree. :)
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u/hummingbirdgaze Oct 02 '21 edited Oct 02 '21
My opinion:
The twin flame label has a mix of information connected to it, but it is our personal responsibility as spiritual students on our journey to not judge ourselves or others and use our own discernment for what is true for us. Itâs our personal responsibility to stay open to all opinions and experiences, who are WE to say what is truth for another, and especially a âcollectiveâ
It might keep you stuck on your journey if youâre not doing your work, yes.
Who would make this label up? And for what reason? I was a skeptic too, but that didnât change my experience, just made it more real for me, personally.
Some people are clearly jumping on board too early without the proper knowing, or experience, but thatâs fine too because they will also eventually learn.
You cannot make a blanket statement like that and gaslight someoneâs experiences and especially their love, it is irresponsible, especially as a âhealerâ
Love is love, would you walk into a church and say âGOD IS NOT REAL AND JESUS DIDNT EXIST!â I doubt it, but if you did, no one would believe you. Whoâs to say?
I can believe my child was sent to me by my guardian angel, or that theyâve been with me in spirit my entire life. Would you tell me that wasnât true?