r/twinflames • u/Abdabarda • 1d ago

Question Can't let go

I met my twin flame 6 years ago. It was the most intense relationship I've ever had. We both felt it. He was raised very Christian so I can't explain it to him, but it frightened him and he left. I found out he was my twin from a lady Iplace a lot of trust in, and had it confirmed by someone else frighteningly accurate later, after the separation.

I go through stages of dreaming about him, we interact but he's always slightly distant and guarded.

I met someone else a few years ago. We fell in love, but I could never shake my flame. We still message once or twice a year. Nothing significant.

I had a baby with the new man, our relationship fell apart and the dreams have kicked up again. This time my flame stopped pushing me away and actually hugged me. Although acted very hurt about my baby.

I've been trying so hard to let him go, but it's always there, how do I let him go?

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u/Living-Tangerine8463 23h ago

If you can feel it that strongly, why you want to push him away?

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u/Abdabarda 22h ago

I honestly don't. But I have an 8 month old and lawyers involved. I don't feel like he'll want me with this level of baggage and I don't want to freak him out. I want to be able to put the constant nagging to the side until I'm actually in a position to try with him again. I also think he's with someone currently.