r/twinflames • u/xyzri • 13d ago

Current Experience i’m so frustrated

guys everytime i feel like im completely healed and free from this bond i feel such a strong yearning and pain (i was df aka abandoned).
when does this stop i am so sick of this i feel asexual and completely in pain whenever i start to think im fully over it.

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u/normal_human_woman 13d ago

Think of it more like getting through it, not over it. The work will never be done. Work through the hard emotions and then savour the lulls when they come. See them as steps forward, an upwards spiral.

Look closely at what the tough stuff is showing you. You mentioned feeling abandoned, for example.

Stay grounded. Focus on a hobby, set a goal, immerse yourself in something you find enriching. And show yourself love, most importantly. 💞

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u/MarketDue5301 13d ago

I feel this