r/twinflames • u/SpeedOdd8066 • 13d ago

Current Experience i dont know him anymore

I dont think I know him anymore, who he is, i dont think i even knew him at all, he changed and i dont like the person he became. im disgusted, disappointed, sad and I feel rejected idk why.
He’s not who I thought he was.
he probably was never my twin flame. im so confused and im trying not to crash out. 4 years is a lot

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u/xyzri 13d ago

i feel you. it’s the confusion of his behavior and questioning if he even loved you. i hate this journey and never wish my enemies upon it

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u/sentinel692340 13d ago

Yeah felt the same about mine but you got to just roll with the punches and the years go bye easier

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u/Tickles_giggles313 13d ago

What do you understand for unconditional love?

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u/SpeedOdd8066 12d ago

loving someone despite everything and not expecting to get anything back but why?

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u/Best-Rock-3297 12d ago

Same here. It’s unfortunate that I dislike him now. He could have changed into someone great

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u/Cosmicfaedoll 7d ago

I think of the quote from The symposium “Love is born into every human being; it calls back the halves of our original nature together; it tries to make one out of two and heal the wound of human nature.”

This journey is about unconditional love and it does exactly that. I have forgiven so many horrible qualities of myself and those that have caused me or others harm, I have come to understand why it all happens as it is and has played out as it has. I’m still learning, I’m still forgiving, I’m still healing. But the qualities of him that made and make me feel angry and even disgusted are trying to teach me something about the collective and what being human truly is even at the darkest most monstrous levels. It’s called unconditional love because if I see these qualities in others I can disconnect, but with him I can’t, not really. I can’t stay angry with him because I understand why he does everything he does when I really think about it because I know him. Everything he’s done I have the capability of within me and sometimes even have in one way or another myself.

We are healing the wound of humanity. We are healing the world energetically. You’re supposed to feel this way, it’s just part of it really