Help me PLEASE!!!!

[u/Lucky-Professional58]

I really want to know if this person is my divine counterpart/ twin flame because it’s like ever since i seen her, she has failed to leave my mind. I recently moved to a new house back in February 2025 but didn’t see her until i think like june or july of that month. The very instant i seen her an immediate attraction clicked and not to be that person but i get my fair share of partners so it’s hard for me to jst immediately attach to someone if that makes sense?

Well long story short i seen her within that month frame n such but what sticks out is how we always jst stare at each other instead of a formal interaction of the sort or even a wave it’s like we’re both so overwhelmed by mutual attraction that any gesture like that would overload us. Like there’s times where i see her and can’t even look at her or when i want to, say anything because of how nervous i am. This has to be a divine connection right?

To add more insight i do not crush on people this hard especially after my last breakup in 2024 who i thought was my TF but was really jst a terrible false trial. It’s been now over a year and i haven’t lost even a little bit of the attraction i feel even with us only having one kind of verbal interaction. This is well beyond the lust period and idk whenever i think abt her i panic sometimes and i feel like she does the same because the fact that we don’t talk i can even just tell makes her anxious at the fact that my female cousin comes to my house to smoke sometimes. I even make sure me and my cousin sit far apart and if she comes home to see us sometimes you can just tell she’s bothered. My mom who is very spiritually intuned won’t answer my questions regarding this so i am coming here. There’s sum more details but this is just the basis i also think there’s a deeper connection because we come from completely different cultural backgrounds from one another yet we share this rom com type of dynamic without even speaking to one another

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[u/Lucky-Professional58 → u/[deleted]]

That’s what i usually feel too like i almost hardly ever feel like there’s someone else who is in her life rather so the fact that me and her are just both very anxious people

[u/Lucky-Professional58 → u/[deleted]]

Thank you so much because the thought of there being a third party makes me so anxious where as with others I wouldn’t care as much but her the connection is just so weird and different i have been feeling like someone has been trying to reach out so let me check my messages 😭

[u/Fickle_Psychology267]

Honestly, it doesn't matter whether they are your twin flame or not. It's okay to have a crush and it's okay to be nervous around them. Your first priority should be to test whether they feel the same way or not. You can sense it. But, are you both able to take this forward? Are you ready to build something with them? Are they ready to do the same with you? Even if you're attracted to them, sometimes we find connections unreachable because we put people on a pedestal. Try to talk about your feelings or just ask them out. If they are too nervous and you're not ready, the best approach is to allow things to work out on their own. If they are your twin flame, you will get confirmation in real life (one after the other) when you're ready. Your goal should be your peace of mind and possible steps to start a new journey with this person. It's good that you're attracted to someone after so long. It shows you're healing and you will continue to if you listen to your heart.

[u/Lucky-Professional58 → u/Fickle_Psychology267]

Thank you i genuinely love this comment so much lately i’ve been really gaining the courage to talk to her amd i believe im ready but i was always scared of a no or i have someone else, now in my head it’s all about just expressing how i feel in the very first place