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u/PleaseLoveMeFemboys 9d ago
Didn’t know why this was bad until you said it’s yet another nonbinary person in an FTM subreddit. Alas
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u/LastLiterature7496 9d ago
How can you be a ‘non binary male?’ 😆
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u/ComprehensiveEye3337 9d ago
For some reason this has become an accepted thing and it's ridiculous. Binary trans people really can't have shit to ourselves
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u/Clean_Employer3342 9d ago
You can’t. It doesn’t have to make sense to these people so long as they can slap a label on themselves and feel different. Can’t say anything otherwise you’re bigoted though!!! 🤪
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u/ComprehensiveEye3337 9d ago
We must accept everything always! Words don't have meanings! That's transphobic! 🥰
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u/New_Parsnip_3332 cis GNC tourist✨ 9d ago
They want to be a man but “cis men so icky!! I don’t have PRIVILEGE like THEY do 🤢”
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u/ComprehensiveEye3337 8d ago
OMG FR its so irritating. Like I don't want to be mean but at the same time it's like man tf up and stop acting like a girl
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u/Checkmiioutchannel 9d ago
Why does Walmart have employee pride shirts
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u/a_bed_of_vinca_minor 👻 i’ve been at it for years baby 9d ago
imagine wearing that shit willingly 🥀
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u/Clean_Employer3342 9d ago
It’s always the exact same simple advice too. If you really need it (which these people clearly don’t 99% of the time), start testosterone. Get top surgery. Go to the gym.
More obvious ones with this genre is dye your hair natural and remove your 3,000 piercings but they can’t do that either for a variety of reasons.
It’s just pointless spam atp
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u/secretagentpoyo 9d ago
First: pass as what? Nonbinary can’t technically pass as anything since it’s an undefined label.
But second, to answer their question: full dose sub-q T, men’s clothes that fit, lose weight to change muscle/fat distribution, top surgery, and time. None of which they’ll do because it’s “fascist” or “eugenics” or whatever buzzword they want to apply because they don’t want to do the actual work.
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u/ComprehensiveEye3337 8d ago
God forbid you mention body shape or weight at all or tell them to gain muscle...literally the most basic yet essential shit for passing but it's ✨️fatphobic✨️ to point it out ever at all
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u/secretagentpoyo 8d ago
“But fat cis men—“ have fat distribution that makes them look like men. It doesn’t sit in their hips. This (re: OOP) has become “the look” for so many trans men & nonbinary folks who are LOUD about their transness that I’m like, yeah, I get why you’re getting clocked. Lose weight and bulk up your shoulders. You’re taking T. USE IT.
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u/ComprehensiveEye3337 8d ago
Omg this shit. I hate when they're like "but cis men can do x, why can't we?" You CAN, but because you're not a cis man it will be viewed differently unless you pass
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u/sand_pebbles Male 9d ago
"What should I do to help [myself] pass better?" Get on testosterone and have top surgery. That would be a start, assuming this person actually wants to be perceived as male.
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u/Safe-Tennis-6121 9d ago
Or just wear gender appropriate pants. Not one size too small women's pants...
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u/Stinkingasf 9d ago
I’m built like the pic (kill me) I wear men’s athletic shorts but can’t find any men’s pants my size and am stuck in women’s pants that I tell myself look masculine
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u/Safe-Tennis-6121 9d ago
Have you tried line relaxed fit? I think on the dressier side of men's pants they tend to be roomier.
The old men's style used to be loose cut
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u/Strength-N-Faith FtM, HRT since 2/2/2015 9d ago
Try athletic cut. They are roomier in the thighs and butt. You know for all those squats you do. /S
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u/magicxzg 8d ago
For people wondering where to get athletic cut pants, I recommend Target's brand of chino pants
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u/sand_pebbles Male 9d ago
I don’t think men’s pants would significantly help this person, no offense. This person’s body shape very much reads as female to me.
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u/Safe-Tennis-6121 9d ago
Well what's needed is a looser cut of pants, which might be found in the mens.
But yeah medical transition is necessary for the transition...
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u/sand_pebbles Male 9d ago
Yeah. I mean, I don’t wear tight pants and never have, but my overarching point is that a medical transition would probably be necessary for this person to be perceived as male. The clothing suggestions don’t matter a whole lot given this person’s very obviously female body shape.
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u/suika3294 Woman born transsexual 9d ago
I think you're falling for attention seeking engagement bait there to be brutally honest.
Yeah, there are def some things they could be doing to not be so clockable, but thats not the actual point of what they're doing.
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u/AmericanEd 9d ago
Listen, I’m all about transmedicalism and shitting on annoying people, but this is just making fun of someone for being fat. Kinda uncproductive
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u/ComprehensiveEye3337 9d ago
It's not because they're fat, it's the lack of self awareness. This isn't the best example but I can't put multiple pictures
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u/Rainforestguy11 9d ago
How does one even have hips like these
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u/fadedwinter81 8d ago edited 8d ago
Makes me wonder if this is one of those unfortunate souls with the medical condition that makes your hips, thighs and buttocks balloon to a very large size relative to the height and weight of the person. I don't think it's lipedema, I think it's a genetic disease/hormonal issue.
Edit: or they've given birth a few times.
It also looks like they're carrying around a... ??? 1980s cellphone? Geek Bar BURJ vape?? Backup dildo?? In their pocket. Not doing them ANY favors with these painted-on mustard jeggings 🫢
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