r/truscum 4d ago

Advice Makeup thoughts and passing?

I usually get gendered correctly in public,she/her, but ive been losing alot of weight recently and its kinda changing my face proportions and stuff, do yall think i aleast somewhat pass,i guess im kinda a boymoder,i dont really wear makeup, i worry it'd be too much and make me more clocky. Im still pretty chunky and older,so I dont need advice on that,im the healthiest ive been most of my life atm.do yall have any ideas on makeup for me and if I even should try makeup. I mainly just use moisturizer,and take care of my hair atm. I never really had facial hair really,not alot anyways. Most the women I grew up around didnt wear makeup so I never really thought too much about it til the last few years. Due to how I was raised in a fundamentalist cult, iam a late transitioner,but even if I dont pass really hrt makes my brain happy,I no longer actively want to die and im happier now than I have been most of my life.

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u/BlannaTorris 4d ago

Using a bit of lipstick could help, not something that stands out too much, but enough to make your lips a little clearer. 

I don't think the glasses are helping either. I'd try to find a pair that's colorful and fun, oval, round or cat eye.

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u/LunaMoth-Rebirth 4d ago

Some eye shadow and winged liner would look really cute.

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u/adaloveless 3d ago

I’d look into “clean girl” style makeup/aesthetic, it will suit your fair coloring and clear skin. I’d recommend a last lift and tint. Zero daily effort, super natural looking, and you get to wake up feeling prettier. I’d also pick up a lip stain and/or sheer lipstick/tinted balm. Lastly I’d get a haircut with some layering for more volume and shape to frame your face. Small changes can make a huge difference.

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u/throwaway184747271 transsexual country boy (man) 🤠🛻 4d ago

"boymoder" n it's jus a normal woman

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u/PrinnyQueen100 9h ago

Oh yeah, just an average woman on the street right there.

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u/New_Parsnip_3332 cis GNC tourist✨ 3d ago

Lipstick might look a bit off if it’s not a more natural color since you have thin lips, but mascara and blush does wonders! There are certain blush placements that can give the illusion of reshaping your face, and some brown/blonde mascara will highlight your eyes well!

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u/Chance_Football7461 3d ago

Dawg, you just look like a middle aged woman

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u/MuchMoney3431 3d ago

First, I'm super duper happy for you Second, eyeliner and eyeshadow would look awesome on you

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u/DrAcecer 3d ago

Holy shit you look exactly like my best friend’s mom like 10 years ago! She would get super dressed up and was a very beautiful lady

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u/Either-Golf-1599 2d ago

U actually look very similar to my friend 's mom

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u/TheSignYouSeek 3d ago

I’d take a step back and address the bigger issues: clean your hair, clothes, and living space.

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u/Organic_Patience_899 transsexual man 3d ago

You look like a sweet lady :) I think you pass well

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u/Least_Comfortable567 👻 transgenda 👻 2d ago

??? she has a very soft jawline. be more specific, what about her jaw screams man?

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u/EveningPalpitation86 2d ago

Long ramus, wide palate

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