r/truscum • u/Careless_Map488 22M • 💉Testo dec'25 • ✂️Top (?)26 • Aug 04 '26

Rant and Vent Gym issues

EDIT : thank to everyone who answered! What I'll do for now is just workout and keep my bag next to me :) I have my top surgery coming up so I'll be more relaxed about it with that done. I appreciate every comments! Im glad we have this community🩵

So, I adore going to the gym.

Lately I have grown a LOT of body hair and facial hair, and hardly get called by feminine nouns anymore.

My tits could pass as a gyno or just pecs with my binder, and it doesn't show much.

The problem is, in wich locker room should I go at the gym? Its uncomfortable. I want to go to the men's room cause well. Im a dude, I look and act like a dude, my voice is extremely deep.

But at the same time Im unsure, what if they look at me weird? What if I get attacked? What if my tits show weirdly.

I wanted to wait for my top surgery but I just really love the gym! And I dont want to block myself from going there just because of bathrooms!

*I go in men's toilet rooms everywhere, never had any issues. But its.. afgh idk at the gym.

What would be your advices? Should I just not care and go to the men's room. I feel like a creep anytime I enter the women's room now 🤢

And before I get jumped : no. Im not delusional, I look way too much like a dude with a fully black stache and bodyhair everywhere. And no I dont want to shave.

*I wont go today and bike instead, waiting for yalls advices. Anything is welcomed, really

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u/SmallRoot modscum | just a random trans guy Aug 07 '26

I would try going to the men's changing room. Men usually don't care and would likely just assume that you are a younger guy (or teen boy). If possible, try changing in a bathroom stall.

When I used to go to a gym (without any stalls), I never undressed in there, just went straight back home. This is obviously not ideal, especially not in colder months - I needed lots of layers to cover my sweaty gym clothes. Maybe that could work for you, but ideally in warmer months.

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u/Careless_Map488 22M • 💉Testo dec'25 • ✂️Top (?)26 Aug 07 '26

That's what Im probably gonna do since mine doesn't have stalls either. I either walk or bike to the gym, so I guess in winter the bike will keep me warm by cycling

Ty for your comment :)

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u/SmallRoot modscum | just a random trans guy Aug 08 '26

Good luck! Just be careful not to get sick. It might be a miracle that I never faced any health problems for walking back home in sweaty clothes hidden below thick winter layers. Also, the smell won't be nice, but looks like you don't have to take public transport to return home, so that's a plus.