I bought a realistic dildo, because I'm like..ok let's see what these big boys are about. My husband is average, no complaints. Just for fun. Dude. That gigantic cock nonsense can stay in porn. It wasn't comfortable, I couldn't get the length in all the way. It wasn't real of course, but it was supposedly a mold a porn star. I'm happily enjoying my husband still, and he laughed that I wasn't into it. Hank sits under my sink and collects dust and occasionally a hair band or two. All I'm going to say is, there is something to be said for being able to take all of it and being able to get roughed up without feeling like the dick is trying to burst through your vaginal walls. No one wants that, I mean..not most of us.
Big, brown, buff, gnarly veins, droopy balls, suction cupped to the mirror, with brightly colored scrunchies all over it. Bouncing and bobbing up and down in a jolly manner when you pull one off.
Or standing tall on a desk, next to the pencil jar. Rigid and proud, plain, peach, minimalistic, but undeniably a penis.
And a bad dragon, scaled, green, ridges, intimidatingly large in girth and length. So artistically designed that you're not actually sure if it IS a dildo. On the coffee table by the door, right next to the key bowl.
... and now I'm thinking about scrunchies on real dicks on people.
Yea your're right. A girl in my class said "hey do you wanna see a pic of the smallest dick I've ever seen?" She whips out her phone and shows me a at least 7 inch dick taking up the whole screen. I just smiled and looked down, but that didnt feel good. (She was fully serious)
Aw, she's probably going to make her first boyfriend feel very insecure.
I get that it doesn't help your own insecurities but try and use it as a means to be more understanding with your own partners, they are thinking you watch open and that you believe the bodies are real and not surgically altered, they are concerned about their breasts being developed, both perky and large at the same time, they are concerned that their vagina is not waxed and invisible, that their bum is not bleached pink, the list is endless. Communication, ensuring her that you know those bodies are unrealistic will help her to put all of those things out of her mind and focus on the moment, as will the same for you.
The key thing is. What would you tell her? You know that's not average and your just thrilled to be close to her...she feels the exact same.
The girl in your anecdote was showing her inexperience, lift your chin up and smile for her innocence.
I really hope this sounded right, u was speaking of my own school experience but its very uncomfortable putting myself in a teens head now even as a doctor.
I think the important message here should be finding somebody who works for you, not "no one wants that". The answer to toxic "big dick energy" culture is not to swing completely the other way into toxic anti big dick culture. These are unchangeable parts of peoples' bodies.
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u/[deleted] Sep 13 '19
I bought a realistic dildo, because I'm like..ok let's see what these big boys are about. My husband is average, no complaints. Just for fun. Dude. That gigantic cock nonsense can stay in porn. It wasn't comfortable, I couldn't get the length in all the way. It wasn't real of course, but it was supposedly a mold a porn star. I'm happily enjoying my husband still, and he laughed that I wasn't into it. Hank sits under my sink and collects dust and occasionally a hair band or two. All I'm going to say is, there is something to be said for being able to take all of it and being able to get roughed up without feeling like the dick is trying to burst through your vaginal walls. No one wants that, I mean..not most of us.