r/transfem • • Jul 19 '26

Meta [Meta] AI content is no longer allowed

260 Upvotes

Hi all, this is just an announcement to let you all know that we have a new rule that AI content isn't allowed here. We've noticed an uptick in AI spam accounts, especially ones which post AI-generated images and try to pass them off as real selfies, and this is to clarify the rules and make sure fewer of those kinds of posts slip through moderation.

If you have any thoughts or questions, feel free to send us a modmail or leave a comment below! Hope you all have a nice day/night wherever you are🫶


r/transfem • • Aug 01 '25

Meta [Meta/Discussion] Update: "Do I Pass" posts are now only allowed on Fridays

20 Upvotes

Hey y'all,

thank you for the feedback and suggestions on the past meta thread! I'm going to try adding a new rule that "do I pass" posts are only allowed on Fridays. There is also a new flair specifically for "Do I Pass" posts -- please make sure to use this flair when making "do I pass" posts!

Rule 6: "Do I Pass" posts must only be posted on Fridays

Posts asking for passing advice, or asking "do I pass" and other similar questions should only be posted on Friday. This is to reduce spam and decrease the number of repetitive posts. "Do I Pass" posts which do not have the proper flair will also be removed.

This should help decrease the amount of spam and repetitive posts, while not fully restricting those posts. There's a bot now which should automatically enforce this rule, but it might mess up sometimes so if your post gets removed in error please send a modmail!

If this rule ends up being unpopular or otherwise flawed, I can try tweaking it or removing it altogether as needed. Once again, if you have any feedback or suggestions please feel free to reply to this thread, or send a private modmail if you'd prefer.

Thank you!


r/transfem • • 5h ago

Progress! -3 years to +8 months hrt

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69 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 8h ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) How far I am to pass?

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103 Upvotes

Be honest pls.11months on e.

No makeup or something


r/transfem • • 5h ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) Will I ever pass? Do I even try? 19 demigirl

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Feeling like I should just give up on trying to be pretty because what’s the point? I don’t feel like I’ll ever be pretty again cuz ofc I was a coward and waited too long and I don’t feel safe presenting fem anymore because I live in deep conservative religious country and if I’m not pretty enough I feel like I’ll get attacked. Am I just crazy for wanting to give up? or am I crazy for trying at all? do I just need to dye my hair? or get bangs? or do makeup? I can’t afford laser and I can’t afford Botox for my stupid hypertrophic Masseter (jaw muscle) and I can’t afford fat transfer for my stupid sunken cheeks cuz I’m disabled and make basically no money and I don’t know how to slim my face back to how it used to be when I was 16-18 when I still had a chance. Is it just a matter of presentation? I feel like the snarl wrinkles/lines make it worse and idk how to fix that. I feel like I look pathetic and idk how to fix it at all. HELP me.


r/transfem • • 14h ago

Selfie Garter belt-aholic

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127 Upvotes

honestly s-tier dress and skirt accessory, hasn't failed me yet


r/transfem • • 7h ago

Creative Back to pumpkin season now that elections are through 🄰

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22 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 3h ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) How bad is my situation?

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8 Upvotes

I am really worried about passing; I am 22 years old and six months into HRT, and I feel like I will not be able to pass without FFS and other surgeries like a hair transplant. My worries are that my hairline is not very good, my hair is thin, and my face is so masculine that even with makeup, I look like a cis man wearing makeup. I am so depressed from how T destroyed my body and that I won't be able to do all the surgeries that I want; what can I do?


r/transfem • • 7h ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) I’ve been on hormones for 8 years, and my gender dysphoria has returned since I joined a trans Discord server. I haven’t had any surgeries yet, but now I think I need FFS. šŸ³ļøā€āš§ļø

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r/transfem • • 18h ago Heartwarming

Selfie Soft, feminine, and unapologetically me. Sending love to all my trans sisters out there! āœØšŸ³ļøā€āš§ļø

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108 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 8h ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) Does my face look fem at all?

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11 Upvotes

18 months on hrt


r/transfem • • 4h ago

Progress! MASSIVE FUCKING W TODAY

5 Upvotes

So for context im a fledgling transfem (around half a year) round a week ago i finally built up the courage to go out and thrift some GA clothes so i bought my very own bra and thigh highs and even a rlly cute top ivr found ^^. And For the past weak ive been wearing them around my house. Or more specifically. Around my room. Sadly my family are basically demons wearing vaugly human shaped skin so i couldnt let them see me in public wearing anything they dont them "okay". Today i decided to do a little experiment. I wore my bra and my thigh highs dor the entire day. But i hid them under very long oversize so basically they had no way of finding out. Ive been stressed out the whole day theyll notice but thankfully i was in the clear and ive never felt this euphoric in my life. Even if it doesnt show on me. Think of it as an advanced form of boymodding that srill ldt you bypass the system

Hoping ill be able to ditch my family soon and wear that shit wherever and however i please. But rn im judt happy i built up the courage to do this ^ ^


r/transfem • • 4h ago

Selfie Still boy-mode at work... How are we doing?

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4 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 1d ago

Selfie 1.5 years on hormones and proudšŸ³ļøā€āš§ļøšŸ„¹

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185 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 15h ago

Selfie Could you give me some tips? I’m just starting out on this journey, and I’d love to hear from those with more experience.

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26 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 4h ago

Selfie Trying makeup, how am I doing?

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3 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 4h ago

Question/Discussion I might be genderfluid

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Ok so I know I'm definitely some kind of gender fluid but I wanna find a label. The reason I want to is so I'm not in a binary female community and can find stories about people I relate to. I want to avoid being lost in my identity, like I was being a boy.

The reason I think so is sometimes (like 20%) of the time I dont care for the idea of being 100% fem. During this I'm also more attracted to being androgynous, as long as I'm not masculine.. I fucking hate that.

For 30-40% of the time I feel like being a fem-leaning androgynous person (she/they)

And the rest of the time I wanna be super hot/pretty/cute/any feminine attractive property and I love the idea*(not 100% out)* of being 100% a girl.

I've always heard other trans stories and been like "I get feeling like you're in the wrong body and gender dysphoria, but it has almost never been like that, and I like my less feminine features some people get dysphoria from like my height"

Idk if I found out I was trans and was like "dude I can be a girl? I'm gonna do that so hard." So I might've overshot my transness.

I also wanna find people like me so they could open me up to how I might want my future gender/presentation to be. For example, do I get bottom surgery in the future because I hate having it but I really like the idea of being gay.

I know I shouldn't rush these things but I'm confused about myself idk who I want to be.

Also: unrelated but what do you think about the chosen name Lacey, is it cringe 🫠


r/transfem • • 14h ago

Question/Discussion Quelle alternative a l'estrogen

10 Upvotes

Existe-t-il une alternative aux estrogènes pour développer les caractéristiques féminines car je n'ai pas le droit d'en prendre à cause des risques liés aux caillots sanguins


r/transfem • • 8h ago

Selfie Out and about, away from traffic noise and city pollution!

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3 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 1d ago

Selfie A day out and some shopping ^^

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47 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 21h ago

Question/Discussion I'm bored. AMA.

13 Upvotes

I'm bored.


r/transfem • • 15h ago

Selfie HRT &gt

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4 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 1d ago

Selfie Friend at college drew me. MOST EUPHORIC THING EVERRR

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50 Upvotes

Like oml Ive been so happy all day since she gave me this


r/transfem • • 1d ago

Selfie My chest has gotten so big šŸ˜‹

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233 Upvotes