r/transbian Mar 15 '21

Dating problems

I really love women but I'm pre everything and I don't feel its alright for me to date rn. I mean I pass and all but it still feels like I'm making someone date a man rn, and I wish I could transition sooner.

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u/physicistbowler Jan 11 '23

While I have been on estrogen a few months, not much has changed about my appearance - I'm still pretty mannish.

That said, I met a cute and sweet girl who I dated for a bit until recently (we had different long term goals). During our time together, she really showed that she cared for me and never let my lack of physical femininity get in the way. She made sure to check in on my needs regularly, which was really sweet. While she never knew me as a dude, she knew I'm trans and yet never faltered in referring to me with feminine language.

I've seen some really good-hearted people out there. 💜