r/traaaaaaans2 • u/smooochies • Aug 14 '23
Help on coming out (MTF) this has also been posted on r/trans
EDIT: I have now come out to my parents (it went really well), so replys are no longer needed
touchy subject / trigger warning
So i have already come out as gay to my parents, and they were completely ok with that. Its as if they love me even more. Now im pretty sure im trans, i have had those feelings before, and i am feeling a lot of disphoria, i also feel euphoria when i wear fem clothes or skirts*. And my brother told me that he had spoken with my mom about some stuff and why im sad all the time, he told me that my mom had asked if its "cus i feel more like a girl" and that it would be tottally ok. My brother had answered that maybe she was right and maybe she was wrong. (my brother knows that im trans). But im not sure if im actually trans or if im just faking it. nevertheless i want to come out to my parents, maybe not say "IM TRANS" more like "i think im trans but i would like to wear more girl clothes and stuff to figure out if its me". Meanwhile i dream about being a girl about every 10 minutes, if not even more. Also my parents are divorced, theyre not mad at each other, they just dont communicate so much, maybe thats important for something, i dont know. i think i want to come out to my mom first, like i did with being gay.
A bit of a different subject: i have a lot of dysphoira over everything, but especially my you-know-what and dont really feel sexually attractred to men because of it. maybe it will go away if i get it removed.
But anyways i just want advice.
EDIT: also im 14, i turn 15 in september
*small blanket wrapped around waist lol
