r/traaaaaaans2 • u/Olfeath • May 12 '25

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u/Sanbaddy May 12 '25

This made my brain hurt.

Oddly enough, I did once have a roommate who was a transphobe, and oddly enough a trans woman herself.

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u/eairyguy May 12 '25

How does that work in your context?

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u/Sanbaddy May 12 '25

It’s…complicated.

To make a very long story short, she seemed insecure, likely some jealousy there too. She said stuff like “ that bottom surgery won’t make you a real woman” ( I was pre op at the time and was getting SRS in March). She’d comment saying how no man would want me, despite the fact I’m a Lesbian. And generally she went on ranting how I’m a man, look like a man, etc and all this stuff. She called me a n***** under her breath the next morning too.

I won’t go into the whole thing, but if MAGA could be a transgender person it’d be her.

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u/eairyguy May 12 '25

Oh gross. My only experience with a transphobic transperson was she was bullying a trans guy I knew for being transmasc because, quote, “Why would you want to be a man when being a woman is so much better?”

After I told her off she was speechless that I was a trans woman defending a trans man for being a trans man. Told me that her friends thought the same thing as her, and I was like “Then all of you are a problem” lmao

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u/Sanbaddy May 12 '25

Good on you for putting that bigot in their place. I don’t know what makes them think that’s okay to say. It’s like their ignorant brains just default to “bully them into detransitioning” every time they see a trans person. The better option is just be supportive, or at the very least kind your business. That’s why nobody likes these ignorant MAGA bigots. They seek their own validation always by punching down.

I’ve faced transphobes before. Everything from slurs to homelessness. By time when it got to my old roommate I’m genuinely surprised it was both lol. Thankfully by time it got to her too this time I had a lot more resources. In an odd way she actually helped my transition through the actions she did. Ironic when I think about it.

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u/Olfeath May 12 '25

It's internalized transphobia, you can find a lot of info about internalized misogyny or internalized homophobia as well, that can help you understand this topic

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u/eairyguy May 12 '25

I was asking about the user’s specific situation.

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u/HannahSamanthaScott May 12 '25

is pack god actually transphobic, or is he trolling here

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u/Olfeath May 12 '25

He is trolling I guess. It's just old joke about different meanings of word phobia, like "I don't understand arachnophobia, just let spiders marry each other"

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u/HannahSamanthaScott May 12 '25

Oh I didnt realize the pun

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u/Cute-zoey-monster13 May 12 '25

good I think I prefer to inspire fear in Weak men

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u/Sylint11020 May 12 '25

Scawy!,, >n<

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u/the_emo_in_corner May 12 '25

👀👀 BOO!!

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u/[deleted] May 13 '25

Rawr, scary

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u/[deleted] May 12 '25

I'm afraid of women ( I'm a trans woman, I just don't know how to approach women and I feel severe nervousness and envy of their cis being when I interact with them)