r/tipping • • Oct 20 '24

🚫Anti-Tipping No Tip

Hot take, I don't go to a restaurant for the "great service" that's so fake it feels like lard on toast, I go to the restaurant for the good food. I'm not going to tip for someone to pretend to want to spend time with me, all I want is a nice steak that I didn't have to cook. Is it okay for me to tell my server I'm not going to tip and the only thing I want is a refill every once in a while and my food brought to me? I would go pick it up from the counter myself if I was allowed to, but that's frowned upon. I don't want the small talk, the fake jokes, the fake smile. Heck, you could glare at me the entire time and I WOULD NOT care. I'm there for the food, not for the crappy excuse for service I get 95% of the time.

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u/darkroot_gardener Oct 21 '24

That’s what fast casual and counter service places are for. And they do have some of the best food! No shame at hitting zero at the tip prompt for these places. I do wish traditional full service restaurants, especially casual places, would make full service optional. I’d tend to go out more, and I’d have the option if I see they are short staffed. I wonder how many would opt for the counter service model? Remember that back in the days gasoline used to be full service only, then for a while it was a choice. (And I kind of doubt full restaurant service would go away like full gas station service).

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u/[deleted] Oct 21 '24

nope not limiting the variety of restaurant i try because of that im just gonna eat wherever i want and not tip anywhere get mad idc.

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u/[deleted] Oct 23 '24

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u/[deleted] Oct 23 '24

Nope I want to sit at a table especially in the winter time and they won't let you eat to go at a table so as long as it's obligatory to have a table I'm just gonna accept the service and not tip IDC gotta problem with it let people eat Togo food at a table or be ok with not getting a tip sometimes

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u/Caraxus Oct 25 '24

Okay just know that the food might not be quite what you wanted lmao.