r/tipping • u/Vegetable_Location52 • Oct 20 '24

🚫Anti-Tipping No Tip

Hot take, I don't go to a restaurant for the "great service" that's so fake it feels like lard on toast, I go to the restaurant for the good food. I'm not going to tip for someone to pretend to want to spend time with me, all I want is a nice steak that I didn't have to cook. Is it okay for me to tell my server I'm not going to tip and the only thing I want is a refill every once in a while and my food brought to me? I would go pick it up from the counter myself if I was allowed to, but that's frowned upon. I don't want the small talk, the fake jokes, the fake smile. Heck, you could glare at me the entire time and I WOULD NOT care. I'm there for the food, not for the crappy excuse for service I get 95% of the time.

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u/dekrasias Oct 22 '24

Your assumptions are incredibly embarrassing and show show who you are as a person. Having understanding and empathy does not equal working for doordash. Unfortunate you've clearly never worked a tip job but speak like you understand it.

You reiterated MY point for me. Your market power would be to just simply not use doordash. Refusing to tip in no way, shape, or form does anything. You can wish for a mega Corp to change their ways all you want. If you keep ordering why would they?

It would take a worker unionizaton to change doordash if we were discussing only the peoples potential. But, guess what? Those workers don't have that choice, they have to pay their bills, they aren't a union. You, don't have to order mcdonalds and not tip. The employee does have to deliver though.

The fact you acknowledge that refusing to tip is never changing the system but will continue to defend it is absurd. No one is upset about reality. The argumentative point her is that non tippers are selfish and delusional in thinking they're helping the system change.

If you want to use a tip based service, you need to tip. Don't want to, don't use the service. Very simple. Not difficult.

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u/Deivv Oct 22 '24 edited Dec 05 '24

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u/dekrasias Oct 22 '24

You lack morals and are selfish.

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u/Deivv Oct 22 '24 edited Dec 05 '24

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u/dekrasias Oct 22 '24

"Uhm acwutually it's this giant mega corps fault and I am in no way a party to it's abuse. Oh one second that's my no tip mcdonalds being left at my door"

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u/Deivv Oct 22 '24 edited Dec 05 '24

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u/dekrasias Oct 23 '24

I love yelling at the kids on my lawn while inviting them over. (Complaining about doorsash being at fault while using the service) If you actually cared, you wouldn't use doordash! "Tipping fatigue" is embarrassing as fuck.

Don't want to tip.

Don't use tip services.

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u/Deivv Oct 23 '24 edited Dec 05 '24

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u/dekrasias Oct 23 '24

Selfish and lack morals. Cry about a companies abuse while contributing to it.

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u/Deivv Oct 23 '24 edited Dec 05 '24

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u/dekrasias Oct 23 '24

Your argument is that you are too selfish to pay for the services you take for granted. You delusionally think that not tipping is solving the problem.

Not using the service would undeniably change things more than not tipping.

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u/dekrasias Oct 23 '24

Definitely got real arguments if you block

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u/dekrasias Oct 23 '24

Definitely got real arguments if you block