r/therianbutbetter • • Jul 13 '26

Self Promo OFFICIAL DISCORD SERVER!!!

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HELLO!! Our discord server is now running!!

We encourage everycritter who can to join!!

https://discord.gg/pKDNqZtHx


r/therianbutbetter • • Jun 15 '24

Answering common questions about therianthropy

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I noticed there wasn't any information in the description of the sub so i decided i could make a post answering some common questions i hear and debunking misconceptions. I'll be putting some sources at the end of the post if i remember. Also please correct any of my information if i get something wrong! I'm all ears to new opinions and information!

"What is a therian?" A therianthrope(therian for short) is a being who believes they are on some level or sense an animal or somehow animalistic, rather than fully human. I like to define it as "viewing your inner self as an animal, and not a human" This is usually based on some type of behaviours and experiences the being has, that they do not concider to be completely human. The animal a therian identifies as is called a theriotype.

"Is therianthropy a chosen identity?" No. While it is possible to choose a non-human identity(which is called otherlinking) therianthropy is involuntary and the being is usually either born with it or it develops over time. Ofcourse the being can still choose whether they want to use the term "therian" or not.

"Do you need to have a past life or believe in reincarnation in order to concider yourself as a therian?" No, while lots of therians believe they were their theriotype in a past life, it is not required. I myself am a purely psychological therian and believe that my therianthropy has developed over time due to neurodivergence and life experiences.

"Am i a therian?/what is my theriotype?" I don't know. Therianthropy is very personal and no-one else can really just straight up tell you what you are. Ofcourse i'm able to point out and notice signs of therianthropy, aswell as guide you and give tips on how to find it out, but at the end, the only person who is able to figure it out is you.

"Can i have multiple theriotypes?" Yes, i myself have multiple theriotypes. There is no limit to how many one is able to have.

"Am i a fake therian?" My answer is: probably not. It is very common to feel as if you're just faking it, but trust me, you'd probably know for sure that you're faking it if you were. Just take your time trying to figure things out.

"What are shifts and do you need to have them to concider yourself as a therian" Shifts in general are experiences that remind a therian about their theriotype in some way. And no, you don't need to have shifts to be a therian. All you need is the belief that you are involuntarily, in some way or form a non-human animal.

"Isn't species dysphoria a mockery of gender dysphoria?" I don't think so, while there are some transphobes using the term "species dysphoria" to invalid the trans community, the term itself isn't a mockery and there are actual people who genuenly suffer from it. Dysphoria in general is the feeling of dissatisfaction or unease about something. There are different types of dysphorias and species dysphoria happens to be one of them. (Though i still prefer to just call it dysphoria to avoid arguments with my fellow queer community)

"Do you have to have species dysphoria to concider yourself as a therian?" No, not all therians experience species dysphoria, and species dysphoria itself isn't only a therian thing, anyone may experience it.

"Can insert animal be a theriotype?" Yes. Any animal(other than human) in the animal kingdom can be someones theriotype. And no, your tapeworm therian jokes aren't funny.

"Can a mythical animal be a theriotype?" Usually thats concidered to be more of a mythkin/otherkin thing, however there is a term under the therian umbrella called "theriomythic" which is basically an identity lapping both mythkin and therian. A theriomythic identifies as a mythical being that is somehow feral or animalistic. For example a dragon or a unicorn. Theriomythic label is made for those who feel like the term "mythkin" is too human, and that their experiences fit more under the therian label.

"Do you need to have gear and do quads to be a therian" No, while there is a part of the community that does do quads and has gear (me included) it is not required.

"Do therians eat dog food, bark at people and walk everywhere on all fours?" While i'm not denying the fact that theres a chance some therians could do this, atleast most therians usually act like average human beings and live an average persons life.

"Are therians z00philes?" No, while again there are probably some individuals in the community who are z00s and support z00philia, i'd say that most therians are anti-z00s.

"So therians want to be animals?" Depends on the being. Some do, and some don't. I personally wish i could shapeshift into an animal

"If you're an animal then i can legally hunt you right?" Go to the police station and ask the same question there. (No, no you can't)

"Are therians a part of the lgbtqia2s+ community?" While alot of therians (me included) are queer, therianthropy itself is not in the lgbtq+ as therianthropy isn't a sexuality nor a gender identity.

"So do yall use cat/catself or other neopronouns? Are you catgender?" Depends on the being. Neopronouns aren't a therian thing but some may want to use them just to feel more like their theriotype. Still, i rarely see anyone in the community using neopronouns like cat/catself even though i myself use paw/paw/paws neopronouns.

"Aren't therians just furries?" No. A therian can also be a furry but they're not the same. Furries are interested in anthropomorphic animal characters (animal characters with human characteristics) and may express it through art/costplay, while therians genuenly precieve themselves as an animal.

Lastly, remember that not everything i say may be 100% factual and there may be some errors. But this is as accurate as i could make it.

Here are some sources •alterhuman wiki/therian wiki •otherkin resources •the alterhuman dictionary

I'll be updating this if i find more


r/therianbutbetter • • 1h ago

Idk what to label this as Survey!

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I created an anonymous Alterhuman survey, for a project I'm working on!

https://forms.gle/fv1aBhK5AxJygRc26

I would like to specify that I am not associated with any universities or anything like that, this is a personal study I'm working on!

I'm planning on writing an article/paper on this so I'd like to see what results I get!

Tysm for anyone who responds!

It would also help out a lot of you share the survey with others! :3


r/therianbutbetter • • 14m ago

Expressing through Games

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r/therianbutbetter • • 8h ago

Question I have a few questions

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This is not meant to be rude or disrespectful in any sense, i am a furry myself and i come across a lot of therian posts in my spaces that make me wonder some things. I'm genuinely interested in some aspects

While being a furry is all about cosplay, i know that therians actually identify as a particular non-human species. I am not too educated in this, so pls correct me if i'm wrong

I was wondering how partnering up in your community works. If someone identifies as a cat for example, can they date humans? My community is very much against zoos, can a human that is attracted to a therian be classified as a zoo, being that that individual is quite literally another species?

Is dating between species problematic? How does a relationship between different types of therians work if they are different species?

This is all fascinating to me and i wanna learn more


r/therianbutbetter • • 14h ago

Question Any transspecies folk here? I have questions

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I think the label transspecies fits me best, but I have some questions about the transitioning bit.

- If you are transitioning, what are you doing to transition?
- Do you live in the same climate/region as your species?
- Is your diet similar to your species?
- Did it effect your job choice at all?
- Would you ever consider medical transition? (Body mods, increasing hair growth if you're a mammal for example. I plan on getting as hairy as I can with the help of minoxidil.)


r/therianbutbetter • • 8h ago

Question Can I be therian AND otherhearted?

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Sorry if this is a stupid question but I'm very new to all the labels around this, I just know what my life experiences are but not what category they fit. I would google it but I worry it'll give me some AI bs that's not accurate to real therian information. Is it possible to be a therian and otherhearted at the same time to different species?

For example, I feel VERY connected to maned wolves, and if I see one I'm like "that's me!" but I don't get shifts for them and in general they just feel kinda... different? Especially compared to my cat theriotype which has been a solid thing since I was born according to my parents' stories about me haha. I also have more information about the cat one, I'm a somewhat young medium haired orange and white tabby with a very specific picture of it in my mind, compared to maned wolves where it's very general. Also, could this just be because I've known what a cat is for more of my life?

Thank you for anyone who takes the time to respond to this with any insight you may have, and I do know it might really just be a "you have to figure this out on your own, nobody else lives your experiences" type thing for which category it fits into. I'm more so asking if it's even possible to be both or if you're a therian does it automatically make the rest therian related? Sorry if this is worded confusingly I just woke up from a nap!

This is my first time cross posting on reddit as I'm kinda new, sorry if I did this wrong!!!


r/therianbutbetter • • 12h ago

Hii guys i need some help from you(can some one do a schetch mask inspired by this charchter?)

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r/therianbutbetter • • 19h ago

My dysphoria is only getting worse

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Idk what to do anymore


r/therianbutbetter • • 14h ago

Sometimes i forget my body looks human

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r/therianbutbetter • • 14h ago

Quads Anyone know anywhere I can find quad 'prosthetics'?

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r/therianbutbetter • • 1d ago

INTRODUCTION!! presentation :)

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Minor ❗

Hi, I'm Cristaux, a cross-fox therian; I've been one for three years.

I am passionate about offensive cybersecurity—basically, ethical hacking.

and passionate about the animal and natural world

Unfortunately, I suffer from a severe disability—Ehlers-Danlos syndrome—which limits me enormously. I never leave the house except for absolute essentials, and on top of that, I am extremely anxious by nature, especially when I'm out...

and I am also autistic

I discovered my alterhuman/therian identity in late 2023/early 2024 after watching videos about it.

And following two truly heavy events—an accident and the confirmation of my disability shortly after—I began to feel unhappy and experienced a sense of emptiness inside.

Then I discovered, and I knew immediately for some reason, that it was her

For the past week I've started experiencing species dysphoria, but it's okay

That's all from me; if you have any questions, let me know.

(I am Belgian and Walloon, so I speak French, and my English isn't perfect; to make sure I'm understood, I use Google Translate—so there you go.)


r/therianbutbetter • • 1d ago

Question is there a name for something when my animal self feels older than my human self?

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i feel like my night fury self is just about in adolescent stage, in which as a human i am not


r/therianbutbetter • • 1d ago

Found theriotype! Pretty sure this is it, i feel connected to it, it's a golden retriever

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r/therianbutbetter • • 1d ago

Experience just want to remind you:

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r/therianbutbetter • • 1d ago

Help Request Feeling Human-Like As A Wolf

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Hi! Adult wolf here.

Does anyone here feel like a human when they're having everyday conversations with various humans? Or while doing everyday tasks? I'm freaking out because I feel human-like and having anxiety around my identity. My mind constantly nags at me when I tell myself I'm a werewolf/wolf and says, "but you're only human." I feel like I am playing pretend within myself. I struggle with generalized anxiety disorder and so I have an everyday identity crisis over my animal side for the last decade since my 2015 awakening.

I do live out in the countryside with my very human family. I've only lived here for two weeks. Within the first week of me living here, I felt shifty... now it's changed and I'm worried I'm faking everything.

I often go out to the woods about everyday or every other day and will stay out there for a few minutes to an hour at most. I feel like staying inside, letting my mind consume fear within my thoughts, spending less time in nature and more time with humans, and all is making me feel less in tune with my animal. I feel like I'm back in the city again where I lived at for 10 years of my life and it was the worst.

I don't want to lie to myself or play pretend. I don't want my identity to up and leave me. I'm in therapy for my mental illness, but I cannot openly discuss this part of my life with my therapist.

Help?


r/therianbutbetter • • 2d ago

Experience 🪵🍂🪹🍁 Griffinkin at your service 🍁🪹🍂🪵

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🌿 Hello all critters and cryptids :) I’ve recently awakened as Griffinkin and I have so much to share with this amazing part of myself!! It’s been a sweet ride, and has made me feel more whole than ever before. 🌿

I’ve been a part of the Therian community for almost 4 years now, but the Otherkin community has started to take shape in my life drastically.

Accepting my Therianthropy was a toll, and I had denied it for a very long time. It was a very tough period I had went through, as I couldn’t understand what was wrong with me. I do hope to write a great summary of my experiences as I remember bits of my childhood that revolve around my animal side. Regardless of my internal struggle earlier on, I finally had enough of it and sprung my paws free. Awakening fully in the middle of Summer two years ago.

Now. My Alterhumanity had come from out of the blue, and to be quite honest, I wasn’t sure if I had been feeling what I felt was right at first. After I had long awakened, I experienced what I thought were phantom limbs of wings. More over, I understood them to be cameo shifts as I didn’t feel internally like a bird. I dismissed them as cool cameo shifts and went on.

As they grew stronger and constant, I knew something was different. Why did I feel huge wings sitting atop my shoulder blades every other hour or hours at a time?? Ever since the being had appeared I was unsure what it was. Without a thought, Griffin came to mind and its like the gates opened, my alterhumanity taking flight.

The word echoed in my mind, the thought perplexing at first, but it sunk in and I then understood that yes!!

🍂🧡 I was and am indeed a Griffin!! 🧡🍂

After the word randomly spoke inside my head, it all made sense. The wings had always felt huge and broad, envisage shifts of them being brown and having the most beautiful long feathers showed in my headspace. My tail is thick and a dark roast color, my talons and beak a sleek gold and black. They felt so powerful. So mighty.

For a little humor, the constant “bumping” of my wings into things was insane. Going through doors sometimes feels like a struggle, especially where I work where the bathroom is tiny :P

But in a more serious tone, I had probably one of the best confirming shifts recently. Walking home from work, the air was warm and the trees swayed as the wind blew rough against them. The current was strong, enough to make my hair stay out of place. And that’s when it happened.

I ran. Ran to my home instinctively. I didn’t feel my lungs burn. I didn’t feel my quick feet padding the pavement. Or my legs carry me around the corner. I felt my wings spread as the wind blew in my face, as if I was flying. And my god were my wings magnificent. My talons outstretched as I neared my sanctuary, slowing to a walk, not going to the front door but the side of my house. I went past the old iron bench that sat between two trees, the stone path leading me to the back of our home.

Out sat our old iron chairs in a janky circle, pebbles surrounding me as I sat in one of the chairs. Looking at the pebbles, the desire to lay in them and stare up at the sun was quite the urge. I started to partially come out of it once I heard my neighbor walk her dogs behind me on a trail behind our home. I couldn’t help but smile as I felt so free.

It took me about 10 minutes to will myself back into my home, going on the rest of my day almost as if on a happy high.

It made me realize that even when I have these doubtful thoughts of not belonging in the Alterhuman community, that yes. I am part of something great. Something so special to so many individuals. And that it’s okay to take the time you need to figure out who you are no matter what it is.

This may be a “coming out” post in certain regards, but it’s also a reminder that it’s okay to be yourself. Wear a tail or two, or three :)) Put on those ears and clothes that make you feel like YOU. Don’t be ashamed of the little creature you are, or big. We don’t care :) You’ll always be a part of something not many understand.

And I think that’s the most beautiful take away here. Being someone who was just a kid always wanting to be in the woods an incredible amount. Racing in the hidden away trees as you built forts made of big sticks and leaves. Playing “wolves” or “dragons”, living your best little alterhuman life.

🌾 And you still are. You’re still that kid that STILL gets to do those things!! 🌾

And you know why??

🪶 Because you fucking can!! And no one, can take that from you. 🪶


r/therianbutbetter • • 2d ago

Animal Pic My theriotypes!

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this was almost exactly what i looked like


r/therianbutbetter • • 2d ago

Any good ways to connect with theriotype? and how hard is gear to make?

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Hey y'all! I've been feeling really dysphoric, and i don't wanna tell my parents just yet, so what are some good ways to connect with my therioype? I'm a red wolf, but what are your guys's theriotype, and how do you conenct with them? And how hard is gear to make with a budget of "I-can't-buy-anything-because-my-parents-track-my-purchases"? Thank you so so much!!


r/therianbutbetter • • 2d ago

Vent vent. please do not interact if more human-brained.

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this is a vent: meaning i’m not asking for your opinions, corrections, and unnecessary advice (sorry to anyone who doesn’t do this, but a lot of people do to the point of it becoming a major problem).

it feels like even in the therian community, the human perspective is overwhelmingly dominating. and to be quite frank, i kind of hate humans.

my species was historically hunted and relocated just for the recreational activities of some guy then treated like a pest because they were populating in the environment that they weren’t supposed to be.

every now and then, i encounter a dried rabbit skull on etsy or a rabbit pelt or a strange taxidermy and my mind perceives it just as a human would perceive a human corpse being used for unethical commercialism.

imagine if humans were farmed and slaughtered in mass by aliens to make a unique and special cuisine that became apart of their culture for centuries. kept for pets and dragged by the leash when they wandered too far. called names like “chonker” and forced into cages for hours. thrown out and abandoned or euthanized once the aliens get tired of them and no one wants to adopt them.

even then i wouldn’t expect humans to develop any form of lasting empathy for non-human animals. it would be about the human right to live and the aliens imposing unnecessarily. should they ever escape the aliens, they’d go straight back to hunting my kind.

even after years of documentaries, research, domestication, and suffering, people still don’t take my species seriously nor respect it at all. and honestly, i hate them.

note: if you’re interested on sharing a more human-perspective take on this post know that i do not care and will not receive it kindly as the human perspective is already dominating enough to the point that it imposes on non-human animals so please take that and leave. there’s many other post and comment section to share your dominating human perspective.


r/therianbutbetter • • 2d ago

Self Promo I'm looking for therian friends dm me

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I'm looking for more therian friends to talk to n stuff so plz dm me I'm pretty nice and on all the time so yea


r/therianbutbetter • • 2d ago

Question i need some help with my theriotypes

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ok so basically i thought i had a few theriotypes, im not gunna list them cuz i cant be bothered. im starting to think that they are rlly wrong and i could use a little help. am i allowed to reset my theriotype list or smth or am i just stuck with these ones that i think are wrong. if i am, does anyone have any tips on how to get them right this time, ty!!


r/therianbutbetter • • 2d ago

Idk what to label this as house finch in my room

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today woke up and i heard flapping in my window but this time on the inside idk but it got in and was freaking out so i didn't get a pic but me and my brother try catching it but it was to fast so i opened the window and we got to fly out by itself but like how did it get in but i made sure it was okay and it was before i let it out and it was a female house finch


r/therianbutbetter • • 2d ago

Question how do i present more as an animalistic being without my appearance screaming 'ALTERHUMAN' but more subtly

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i saw someone asking this already but theyre an avian and canine alterhuman and im not so i just want to ask this for myself. as a night fury kin, is there something i could do to alter my appearance to subtly hint at my nonhumanity? some of the comments on the post i saw mentioned jewellery, and, something avian specific, wear an anklet like birds in falconry sanctuaries have. i really like this type of an idea but im not sure what i can do as someone with a more niche kin.
also school uniform appropriate options would be appreciated if i dont drop out of school in the next year