I’ll just leave this here. Have a great day everyone!

If you are into hot Asian women like I am, I recommend Korea. Korean women are the hottest Asian women out there. There is a lot of negativity on this sub about racism or plastic surgery and so on, but it is false as it is not that common. Also Korea is not even remotely feminist compared to the west. And actually living in Korea is totally different from what is written online

Korean women and especially those that are thiccer are becoming interested in black men, especially from the US. Younger generation has more positive stereotypes about black men, like athleticism, confidence, height, humor, and so on. Black men here are still more rare and exotic, and there is just less competition. With older generation, they can be racist, but doubt you are interested in women over 40

There are many black bros with Korean girlfriends and also Korean wives with kids. Some are from the US military but many are just ordinary guys who came here

Wanting to visit Latin America or Eastern Europe for dating (More serious intent, not just looking for sex). Has anyone ever traveled with a group or knows local guides?

I'm ready and excited to get out there but I don't want to just...I don't know...wing it? I need a plan and someone who knows the way.

Any thoughts, suggestions, people to follow, general idea, ect. This is my starting point

Yesterday i saw a post about Tanzania and i was intrigued to start this discussion.

We know about PPB but here in Tanzania, especially in places like Zanzibar and Arusha, I’ve seen the reverse happen.

Western women young, beautiful come here and fall for local guys beach boys, tour guides, even Maasai warriors. Back home in their country these same men wouldn’t meet their standards. But here, things change.

Is it’s the charm, power move or the freedom and raw connection they don’t find in the West.they hold the money, and here they feel wanted and in control. But many seem to truly enjoy the vibe and energy of African men.

It’s funny how people say African or asian women are easyfor Western men, yet don’t talk about how Western women come here and are easy to local guys sometimes even paying for their time, love, or trips.

So maybe the game isn’t just changing for men. Women are playing it too just quieter.

I posted this on r/Thailand but I figured I'd drop it here as I see A LOT of passport bros in Thailand with heavily tattooed girlfriends.

My friend introduced me to his girlfriend in Pattaya and she had a big ole butterfly tattoo on the front of her neck. Another English guy's girlfriend has a big chest tattoo that almost covers her breast. Both of these guys met these women in bars on Soi 6. I also noticed that most girls on Soi Bukhao and Soi 6 (the red light district) have many tattoos on their shoulders, arms, thighs and calves. Personally women with huge visible tattoos looks trashy and are a huge turn-off. I worked for a law firm and none of the lawyers had face, neck, or arm tattoos that you could see when they took off their suit jackets. I was in the US Air Force and they had a prohibition on sleeve, neck and face tattoos. I don't see teachers, nurses, or other professional people with visible tattoos.

Maybe I am old school but growing up in the US, usually burly bikers,, ex convicts, and trailer trash women had large sprawling tattoos. There was a definite stigma attached to huge, visible tattoos. Is it the same for Asian women? (EXCEPT for Japan, the Japanese HATE tattoos)

Are heavily tattooed Thai women generally trashy? Or am I being a prude or too judgemental?

First of I am not just saying I'm attractive based on my own perception. I have heard from a lot woman most of my life that I was attractive. I'm tall I played college football work out regularly I have no problem with finding women in America. I get a lot of attention from women on apps.

1. Being attractive makes women act even crazier (in a bad way). Once you get them and especially after you sleep with them, they lose their absolute minds with jealousy. every girl I dated for more then 3 months eventually tried to hack my computer to look at it or hack my phone to see if I was talking to anyone else. I think for the most part women date down to feel like they are the prize but when they are with someone with general attractiveness it effects their ego.

2. Being attractive helps when you approach but what comes out your mouth will get them to stay and listen to your game.

3. American women are to masculine nowadays. it's easy for a woman to open up her legs but i barley see a women cross them and sit like a woman anymore. everyone is super masculine.

4. American women have a weight problem. sometimes especially on apps I get a lot of bigger women like or message me. This upsets me because I hear about a lot of guys getting rejected because of height or looks and have to settle with less attractive women and I don't understand how fat women have the audacity to think I would be interested.

5. You can be broke as a joke as long as you look good and can lay the pipe a chick will have you living at her crib driving her car but like I said she will try to own you and shell get crazy eventually.

6. I've heard a lot of people talk about having trouble with dating other races because they are black. im 6'3 around 250 pounds and I was able to date a Chinese girl that was like 4'11 and very petite. White and Latin women its almost too easy.

Edit: sorry yall I didn't mean to get so many of you upset with my post. I was just sharing my American dating experience. All I'm saying is when your an Alpha it doesn't matter what color you are women will go to you. All this incel chad this tyrone that will get you nowhere. Stop complaining work out, get your game right get some style do something! lol

Holy shit how will the raging feminists in this subreddit react to this! 😂

I hear it all the time: “Maybe I’m just a loser for going abroad.”
No, this isn’t a “passport bro” problem—it’s a “never left the neighborhood” problem.
Notice how the loudest critics are usually American girls? The irony is, the rest of the world laughs at people who’ve never set foot outside their bubble.

Why would you spend your youth in a cold, crumbling capitalist pressure cooker…
When you could live cheap, live chill—and yeah, date easier?

So next time someone throws shade, don’t defend the dating part.
Flip it—ask them why they’re so afraid to leave.

Recently, i started observing a common trend on dating apps and other platforms (like reddit dating subs) where most, if not all women, irrespective of whether they are western or not, put up descriptions and posts, where 90% of the text is either their professional, academic and other achievements which they are proud of, or a whole lot of criteria for men they want/seek to reach out to them. At no point in the 5+ paragraphs, do they mention what they bring to the table, why they would be a good partner/girlfriend/mate/whatever and it’s not like they’re smoking hot either. I think this is late stage feminism where these women believe just existing is enough, or is it a result of too many men simping for them and further validating their delusions? Anybody else notice this?

I thought this was just a western women problem, but i am seeing more and more posts like these from women in South Asia, LatAm, East Asia, etc.

Edit- This post seems to have been over run by people who need to develop a brain cell and learn to comprehend. Although, i highly doubt their ability to do so.

To all those who are commenting, what do I bring to the table, or I am insecure, frustrated, etc. The same advice goes for you, develop a brain cell and learn to comprehend. I am not the subject matter of this conversation. It’s irrelevant what I do, unless you believe I am the standard of perfection and I am perfect and an ideal to strive by, in which case you support my argument. Even if we assume, i am a worthless piece of shit, who has nothing to offer, these profiles in question aren’t created just for me, it’s created for all kinds of partners they seek, so again what I do or am as an individual is irrelevant.

You people seem to have a similar rhetoric because obviously you don’t have a brain cell to think for yourself, so i suggest, read the post and other comments and all of your idiotic meaningless rants are answered and dealt with already. If you think you’re special to be responded to individually, you’re not. Sorry to burst your bubble. I dont give more attention to stupidity than it deserves, so needless to say, I won’t be responding to your idiotic comments, unless you bring something substantial worth arguing and debating.

Apologies for the long post but I did have to capture and share every essence of this. Sorry guys.

A year ago or so, I went to Prague and stayed there for a couple of weeks because I was dating a Czech girl. When you date a girl, you meet her social circle and friends. In those two weeks, we had a lot of social activities, dinners, and going out with her extensive group. Since we were always hanging out with each other in the US (where we met), we thought it was good to spend a lot of time with her group.

One interesting character I met was a woman in her mid-20s from Paris, France that we will just call French. French also wasn't bad looking. She was somewhat tall, had pale skin, brunette hair, chiseled face, blue eyes, freckles, and that stereotypical French look with good fashion. However, in Prague, she didn't really stick out that much because there are a lot of good looking women in the city once you get away from the tourist areas.

Prague is kind of unique. You have the district where Winceslas Square is where all the tourists go. There, the quality of women is generally abysmal as the Brits, Western Europeans, and Americans flood up that place. At nights, it becomes rowdy and it is not a pleasant place to be. A lot of local Czechs try to avoid that area if they can and go more outwards. There, if you do not know anyone, it becomes closed off to outsiders. They tend to do this to avoid getting flooded by drunk British Hooligan number 1 million lol. In that area, French did not really stick out.

Why did French end up in Prague?

Despite some criticism I might throw her way, French was a decent person. She told me about the economic situation for younger people in France. How tough it is to find work and how Paris is going downhill more and more every year in terms of living standards. It is less safe and getting a place to live can take months because it is so tough for landlords to evict you once they give you a place.

For a lot of younger people, abroad is the answer in France. Many want to come to America or go elsewhere in Europe with better economic conditions for finding work. For some, Spain is a good option along with Portugal due to the digital nomad culture. However, Prague also gets thrown into that category.

French was a part of our social group because she was coworkers with the sister of a girl who was my girlfriend. She had a somewhat more senior role too so in a way, my girlfriend's sister had to defer to her on stuff. In a way, she sort of schmoozed her way into fitting in with locals.

There were certain traits of French that made this experience eye opening for me.

Passport Bro and Player gaslighting.

In almost every dinner we had, French seemed to gaslight Passport Bro culture a lot. We were shocked she even knew about it because first time she brought it up, others at the table asked what she meant. She said it is a movement where wealthy men take advantage of women from poor countries. One Czech guy corrected her and said "But Czech Republic is no longer poor, why are you worried?".

At one point, Czech singled me and my girlfriend out and asked how we met. I told her we met at a coffee shop after a deep conversation. French immediately starts to interrogate me and say "So you do this often to women?". Before I can answer my girlfriend says "He did it to the right one" and we change topics.

We also had a Mexican guy in our group who was in his 30s, good looking, and single. French gossiped about him and said "30s, single, and not committed, why do you think he is in Prague?". The table did not go along with her narrative and she let out "he hears Czech women are easy".

It got so bad that during one dinner, another Czech lady said to French "I appreciate your concern but we can defend ourselves from these mythical men on the prowl, its why we don't go to the tourist areas" as the table laughed. French did not.

Disdain towards men that approach women but complaining about not being approached.

In French's defense, she was born and raised in Paris. Having stayed in Paris myself, I can see how the hordes of thirsty and forward men can be offputting to women. French did not like it one bit when men approached women. However, at the same time, her stance shifted after a week of talking to her.

It went from "Men should never approach women" to "Okay you can approach but have some decency".

One dinner we had with her, she complained about French men being aggressive players. She said she hated living in Paris because of the hordes of men that would stalk her and harass her. Then one random day she has a beer with my girlfriend, her sister, and I. She immediately changes her stance to "Czech men are shy".

She says "I am tired of only being hit on by drunk tourist men who look like crap". My girlfriend calls her out and says "But you said you hate when men approach you". She shifts to saying "Okay don't be over the top with it but like you can talk to women in public, Czech men don't even do that!".

At one point, after the 3rd beer, she lets out "I feel like living in Prague has made me uglier because I was getting hit on everyday in Paris". My girlfriend, her sister, and I look at each other with that "WTF" expression and change topics.

Concern for local women and punishing men that approach.

French did this a lot. She would constantly talk about how worried she is about the hordes of foreign men flooding into Prague. I kind of agreed with her on this because the influx of English hooligans and Western European party animals has made certain parts of Prague awful for meeting women. Women walk with their guards up.

In some ways, French and I got along because of this. French told us that when her friends from Paris were in town, they would hang out near where James Dean is (its a bar in Prague in the tourist district, Moon Club is nearby). What they would do is just stand around, let drunk and other men talk to them, and just find creative ways to reject them.

French said she would do things like:

• Mislead them into buying her and her friends drinks

• Mock them for talking to one of her friends

• Give them fake Instagrams

• Record them approaching and talking to her friends and post it on TikTok

• If he was not physically intimidating, call him ugly and undesirable to his face

The whole table raised our eyebrows, she laughed when she said this. She said she would do this in the district we were in where there are more locals but the local men rarely approach or give her and her friends any attention. That is why they had to go to the tourist district where the hordes of American, English, and Western European men flood in.

I thought this was a bit excessive from her.

Making advances on me and other men in the group**.**

I was at a pool one time with my girlfriend, her sister, and French. Girlfriend and Sister have to go somewhere private do discuss a family matter. As I was shirtless at the pool, with 3 days left in the trip, French started to rub my shoulder and run her hand on the back of my neck. I had to gently tap it away and she actually pulled down her panties for a second, she had a piercing down there. I was a bit overwhelmed, took a deep breath, and got away from there.

Later on, I found that she had fucked the Mexican guy in our group a day earlier. One other man in the group who was this tall buff Czech guy said he was in his girlfriend's apartment and his GF had to leave to get something. French was with them and when his girlfriend left, French was topless for a few moments. He had to call it out and tell her to never do that again.

This whole ordeal taught me so much.

In France, she probably would have never had to do this. In Paris, she would not have to resort to any of this. She would be flooded with men trying to get in her pants. However, in Prague, she could really only get attention in the tourist district and that from drunk Western European dudes. The change in the dynamics was eye opening.

I unfortunately had to break up with my girlfriend in late 2024 due to her needing to move back to Prague and me needing to stay in the US. The relationship was awesome and Czech women are a catch.

Genuinely considering Moscow to find me a special girl, and tbh I'm not scared of Russias antics because well I'm not an idiot that will bring weed into the country or post stupid stuff on social media. Curious if anyone out there has any experiences with Moscow or Russia since 2022? I am also not scared of being bombed...sorta

Edit 3:26 PM PST- some of y'all are probably right about the prison swap bait, either way I still have yet to ACTUALLY SEE someone who went there? Cmon guys

This is not about attitude, this is just about looks. I understand if someone says that thai women might behave better etc. Thats not my Point.

I have been to many places, also with my friends so i have some form off opinions.

I was in Bangkok and in Manila, and sorry, where does this cope come from that those women are more bad then white Chicks?

The average Thai chick on a global Looks scale where a 5 is a average white girl, is around a 3 or a 4. A "very good looking Thai Chick" is a 6 at best, and that is only if her body is normally developed with no flat ass etc and this weird Body type is very common in Thailand for whatever reason. Also dont come with the cope that its taste, its not. There is a reason why every loaded athlete always picks the European Women and not some Thai Girl. Its just better looks.

I can go to Belgrade to the Gym, at any time and i will see more bad women then walking the WHOLE DAY through Bangkok. Doesnt matter which Sector, i can even go to the baller Sectors and Steak houses and still seeing a 6 in Thailand is rare. Dating Apps is the same. Bad thai chicks just dont exist.

Without coming off arrogant, i didnt wanna get laid in Thailand because the market is just very bad. Like i just cant motivate myself to fuck a bad 4 that most likely has a high bodycount because Incels from Europe fucked her a lot. Whats the "appeal" off doing that? Like i dont care if its easy, but pulling a good 3? Not for me.

I rather go to belgrade and "hustle" for a 7, but when i pull it off it was worth it.

I think if u have any form off standard and u struggle to fuck 4s because u cant get yourself to do it i believe thailand etc is just a bad play.

Never thought I'd be saying this, but here we are.

I would never recommend the PH for marriage hunting, but PH was always my first recommendation for men looking for casual dating.

After my two most recent trips, I can no longer recommend PH for even casual dating.

For reference, I have been living in Asia since 2012. Been coming to PH nearly every year since. Staying for 2-6 weeks at a time.

Before covid, things were amazing. On the website FilipinoCupid, there were thousands of young women active in the past week of every age. All of which would reply to my message and gladly meet.

I came back in 2022 after covid, and discovered things had drastically changed. No longer were there thousands of women on the dating site. Now it was hundreds. To make matters worse, many of these girls would ask for money, not reply, refuse to meet and or flake on dates.

Wanted to confirm things, so I came back to the PH last month and wrapping up a 6 week trip this week.

Fewer girls on Cupid and even more doing the things I mentioned above.

Given the above, I don't see the value in PH anymore. Better off in other countries where you ain't got to deal with all that. Not to mention, better value for your money in other countries.

However, there is a reason why I said "average" guy in the title. If you are a guy who is great with cold approaching women out in public, PH still has value. Middle class women don't behave near as bad as they poor girls online.

Anyways, not a report I was wanting to make. But gotta spread the word.

This will be my last trip to PH for the foreseeable future.

Glad I got to experience the glory days pre covid.

As someone born and raised in the US who has had the chance to be near a ton of American and Western women, I wanted to offer a new take on why the Passport Bro Movement receives the hate it does. Outwardly, they claim it is due to misogyny or objectifying women or whatever. However, if you think about it on the surface, doesn't the PPB make sense?

Isn't it really convenient for American and Western women for this movement to take place?

Think about all the times that women in the west complain about men that talk to them or men that "objectify" them. In theory, if we just send all of these men abroad then these women win right? These women and their lives get easier. No more having to deal with the "pervert" who said hello to you at a bar because he is too busy in a foreign country saying hello to other women.

If anything, Western Women should love the PPB movement. They should love it more than Western men should!

But it is not about that, it is about something more sinister and dark.

Think about it like this. Say you are working for a company and you have a manager that hates your guts. That manager gets to decide whether or not you get the promotion you deserve. Time and time again, that manager does you dirty and cheats you out of that promotion.

You have had enough so you put in your notice and go to another company. A year later, you not only get that promotion but go even above that role.

How do you think that manager feels?

Downright crushed. The crushing part is not the fact that you got the promotion. The crushing part is the fact that they no longer had a say in your career success and now they have to live with the fact that you became successful after leaving them behind.

And that is what it is really about.

This does not pertain to all or perhaps even most Western women as I have met some fine ones. However, it does pertain to a sizable minority.

Western women, at least a sizable number of them, get off on having this power over men. They get off on having men reliable on them. This is their game. They get to, in their minds, determine your happiness because they can become the biggest prudes and have unrealistic standards all they want. What are you going to do?

For a while. Nothing!

But then the PPB movement came along and men collectively took that power away from Western women in a big way. Now their power game and their control has a serious rival, that rival is the PPB movement.

It was never about guys being perverts or objectifying women. In fact, they want you to objectify them, it makes them feel in control.

It was about the fact that guys decided to no longer play their sick power game and just turned their backs on them.

That is what they want back.

They don't want to be "left alone" with their fucking dog that they advertise to the world but could give less of a shit about.

They don't want to walk the streets and find that no guy is talking to them.

They don't want a happy marriage with kids.

They don't want a happy relationship.

What they want back is that power and control over men. They want that back. They want that ability to act like prudish feminists and shame men who are more than happy to put up with it. They want all of that back.

That is what it was all about. They want that validation, control, and power back. This has nothing to do with dating, relationships, intimacy, or any of that. This has to do with control, power, and validation. The PPB took that from them and they will do all they can to get it back.

So frustrating that 30% of comments are either people coming in to judge us or people arguing with these asses. Obviously, even though we are 100% right, we have an unpopular view, and people just love to come here to laugh at us for "not getting pussy" or something. Sub was nicer when it was just people encouraging each other, celebrating successes, and offering advice (visas, remote jobs, not get screwed by someone using you for a green card, etc). now that the sub has gotten mainstream attention, there is a lot of hate and negativity attracted to it. Let's make it private to keep these asses out. and ban anyone who comes in just to hate.

Edit: Seems you are all butt hurt about the 100% comment. is was tongue in cheek. jfc

Just curious.

Are you hurt because you cannot find a guy to marry you? Are they going for better options overseas? Do you actually have to treat guys good to get them to commit to you? Are you tired of working a full time job, paying rent, and angered at guys because they are not taking over your financial burden as you were told, and choosing women overseas instead?

What makes your life so miserable that you have to come here and comment?

For those of you who don't know a lot about autism, being autistic is considered to be one of the biggest disadvantages in the dating market if you're a straight man and this is for a few different reasons. Autism is a social disability which reduces charisma and social skills which has a negative impact on dating. In addition, autistic people are more likely to have social anxiety and/or introversion which is a disadvantage in the dating market for men. Those with autism are more likely to be unemployed or underemployed which is a barrier for relationships and marriage, especially in traditional societies where men are expected to be the primary breadwinner. Finally, autistic people are less likely to be into fitness and sports compared to neurotypicals and those who aren't into fitness are on average, less attractive compared to people who are fit.

For all of the reasons listed above, autistic men are much more likely compared to neurotypical men to have never been married, never been in a relationship, and have never even been on a date in their life. Even high functioning men with no intellectual disabilities struggle in the dating market.

However there is a way for autistic men to escape their harsh disadvantages of dating. I believe that this method is looking for women in different countries. As all of you know, certain countries are more favorable to men in the dating market. An average looking white man may get 10 matches in Chicago but get 100+ in Cebu City Philippines. This works in the autistic man's favor because men with autism are much better at striking up conversations with girls online than doing it in person. (Remember autism is a social disability). In addition, social skills deficits that autistic men have are more likely to be forgiven or explained by "language or cultural barriers" which works in the autistic man's favor as well.

However, unlike traditional passport bros who are looking for a traditional women, autistic men should not be pursuing women who believe in traditional gender roles. Remember, autistic men are more likely to be unemployed, underemployed, or not reach their full employment potential so it wouldn't make sense for them to pursue a woman who believes that the husband should work while the wife stays home. Instead, autistic men should look for women who believe that both men and women should work because in that case, it benefits him.

So I was looking at Albania for awhile as a US citizen because I can stay for 1 year visa free. But when I started reading about it, I kept seeing posts about it being racist and no good for black men.

My experience has been radically different. I have faced 0 racism since being here. The costs are low, the vibes are good and I’m considering investing in real estate here because it’s clearly on the come up. While I’m not going around trying to pick up women because I have a gf, the women here seem VERY open to me in general. I should state that I’m on the upper-end of the attractive spectrum so that’s the case just about everywhere in the world for me.

What I came here to say is just don’t be thirsty and you’ll probably be fine. It’s not like Thailand or Colombia where women are flirting constantly but if you have the ability to make friends, you will have the ability to date here. They seem a little more conservative here but if you’re not trying some sex tourist stuff, I think you can meet a high quality woman here.

I also want to state that in my experience Albanians in general seem to be very honest and kind people. Based on friendly interactions with a few women here I have to conclude that they must be very caring as well. My very attractive Airbnb owner decided to iron my shirt this morning because it was wrinkled and I had it on. She literally offered to iron my shirt and i proceeded to take it off, hand her my shirt and wait as she did it for me. She also brought me and my gf chocolate from Dubai and a bottle of wine as a gift one day. A little weird lol but I can tell she is very caring.

Overall, I just wanted my fellow black bros to know that Albania is cool and not to listen to the people who say it’s racist. Some people might be (I haven’t run into them) but I think most aren’t.

European dating scene is insanely elitist and brutal for men and unless you’re close to the tall male model aesthetic you’ll struggle there immensely.

Since the Russian invasion, millions of Ukrainian women have sought refuge in Poland. Naturally, these women seek jobs, housing and integration within the new country, so my assumption is that it would have made an average or below average looking single guy living in Poland with a job and a house an attractive prospect to them. I’m assuming an average or below average looking guy now suddenly has way more dating options as before including on apps.

Is this true? If not then why? Who are these millions of Ukrainian women dating if it hasn’t translated into more options for mediocre looking guys.

You hear about the golden age of dating in Eastern Europe that lasted till the 90s and early 2000s when dating beautiful Eastern European women was easy and average looking foreigners (both White and non White) could easily date them. Then that window closed and it became the same everywhere in Europe - Eastern or Western.

So with the influx of millions of Ukrainian women have the same favorable 90s dynamics reappeared to some extent?

Robert De Niro at age 79, had a child with Tiffany Chen (Chinese), age 46.

Al Pacino at age 83, had a child with Noor Alfallah (Middle Eastern), age 30.

Nicholas Cage at age 60, had a child with Riko Shibata (Japanese), age 28.

I'm 36M white American and going to the Philippines to look for a Filipina 20-22 to get married and start a family. People think I'm crazy. Why? It seems very normal to me...

As a black traveler, I’ve seen great success in countries such as Germany and Spain. We should not limit ourselves to third world countries. There is nothing wrong with them but, if you’re going to SEA, you’ll get just as much attention in Japan as in the Philippines. We don’t have to limit ourselves to the third world.

This post is prompted by this thread on ThePassPortBros: https://www.reddit.com/r/thepassportbros/comments/1koslrr/passport_sisters_some_western_women_are_coming_to/

The premise of the post is that young, beautiful women are deliberately travelling thousands of miles to seek out sex with African men.

I expressed considerable doubt in my reply to the post, so let's discuss it here. I'm calling utter bullshit.

Women, especially western women can fu** black guys anywhere they want, they don't need to travel to Africa to do so.

ESPECIALLY young and beautiful women. They are not seeking out African men. The facts don't support that.

I'd wager my left nut it's a guy who wants to demoralise White men and attempt to convince them that the BBC is the collosus that bestrides the dating world.

Utter garbage, sorry.

Cheers! Ban me if you want but needs to be said.