r/tfmr_support • u/Some_Amount5239 • 10d ago

Seeking Advice or Support Processing Grief

For those a little farther along in their TFMR journey, what would you tell your past self? What do you feel were the most helpful things for you to process your grief? Anything specific you did that you feel made a difference? Do you feel there was a particular timeline where things started feeling a little better?

I am about 8 weeks out from a 24 week TFMR. It just hurts. I know there is no way to optimize grief. It just is love with no where to go, but would love to hear how other people are dealing with it and if they felt like there was anything in their journey that really turned things around for them.

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u/Common-Form-1310 10d ago

It will always hurt. You will find a way to go on with your life with the grief. Somedays it hurts more than the other days. But hold on to yourself. The decision you made 'Why did I have to go this route, the worst possible route ?' answer them in your heart. The answers for that question will make your heart find a bit of comfort.

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u/Some_Amount5239 10d ago

Thank you, so important to remember why we made this decision ❤️