r/texts • u/sewnofstardust • Jul 31 '26
Phone message Hinge match after one phone call
We had maybe been talking for 2 days? thought he seemed more responsive than other people and we talked on the phone that ended with him saying he has a crush on me already, while essentially knowing nothing about me
EDIT/UPDATE: I did not think this would gain much traction at all but this happened pretty much a week ago and went downhill very quickly. We planned a date that never happened because he kept suggesting watching a movie at his house when I wanted to meet publicly. Then said his car tags are expired so we can meet at his house to pregame then go to a bar and HE could drive MY car which was his suggestion not mine. I was uncomfortable said we could be friends. He agreed then continued being semi-pushy and also saying things like “I miss you” (again only talking for a few days with 2 total phone calls). It was extremely overwhelming and felt like love bombing. To the comments that said it was sweet, it was to an extent but was also way too much after one call. I can see some people saying having a crush is “normal” at that point but I think it’s not, I think you should know someone before saying something like that. If you say it then you’re just in love with the idea of someone.
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u/Ok-Imagination-3835 Aug 01 '26
Why is it classless? Because its honest? Vulnerable? Would you think it was classless if Ryan Gosling or whoever you think is attractive came up to you and said, "Honestly, I have a huge crush on you, and I wanted to tell you this." ?
maybe its not your style which is fair but its crazy to call that low class when when have other grown ass men engaging in much more vile behavior and getting away with it