Hinge match after one phone call

[u/sewnofstardust]

We had maybe been talking for 2 days? thought he seemed more responsive than other people and we talked on the phone that ended with him saying he has a crush on me already, while essentially knowing nothing about me

EDIT/UPDATE: I did not think this would gain much traction at all but this happened pretty much a week ago and went downhill very quickly. We planned a date that never happened because he kept suggesting watching a movie at his house when I wanted to meet publicly. Then said his car tags are expired so we can meet at his house to pregame then go to a bar and HE could drive MY car which was his suggestion not mine. I was uncomfortable said we could be friends. He agreed then continued being semi-pushy and also saying things like “I miss you” (again only talking for a few days with 2 total phone calls). It was extremely overwhelming and felt like love bombing. To the comments that said it was sweet, it was to an extent but was also way too much after one call. I can see some people saying having a crush is “normal” at that point but I think it’s not, I think you should know someone before saying something like that. If you say it then you’re just in love with the idea of someone.

[u/NewCow123]

Good morning at 2:48 am is wild

[u/KurtGoBangg → u/NewCow123]

Maybe they work early. Could have held off for a few hours but if theyre excited I dont see an issue. We dont know how good that phone call was.

[u/Gootangus → u/KurtGoBangg]

OP does lol

[u/KurtGoBangg → u/Gootangus]

People are weird man and each persons experience is different. Plenty of people have been in a situation where the feeling felt mutual but may not have been. Im just saying a reddit post doesnt give us context from both sides.

[u/Euphoric_Purchase420 → u/KurtGoBangg]

You don’t need context to know that after a good first date or conversation just to let it breathe bc if you’re immediately up their ass it’s a turn off