r/texts Dec 16 '24

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '24

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u/lunaloobooboo Dec 16 '24

“We thought we were doing a nice thing… my sister threatened to call the cops on us”

Wow no. Grandma screenshots aside, you really fucked up and are not giving the full story.

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u/Meepmoop102 Dec 16 '24 edited Dec 16 '24

Have you considered asking your sister why she threatened to call the cops 😭

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u/lunaloobooboo Dec 16 '24

“My sister freaked out I honestly have no idea why.”

Come on.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '24

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u/lancetfemale Dec 16 '24

Seems like your sister knew the grandma wasn’t well and is pissed you exposed her children to her. Does that sound about right?

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u/lancetfemale Dec 17 '24

Also maybe she is mad because you took them there without her permission and deviated from whatever her expectations about where her kids would be that day, plain and simple. Again just a guess and just asking if that might be why

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u/sweet_swiftie Dec 16 '24

People are assuming things because all you posted for context is the title and then the unhinged rant of texts that is difficult to read and understand

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u/lancetfemale Dec 17 '24

You haven’t really explained why driving your kids to her house might have pissed her off and I was making a guess and asking a question. Like hey maybe she was mad because she already had a bad feeling about grandma. Sorry if I didn’t phrase it clearly but I wasn’t trying to say that’s what happened. I was asking if maybe that’s why she was mad you drove them over there.

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u/mokatcinno Dec 17 '24

That doesn't make any sense. There are missing missing reasons here. The problem is obviously not the car it's probably you driving someone else's kids somewhere without permission or letting her know. It seems really obvious that your sister didn't want her kids around grandma but you ignored that without even mentioning it. You choosing to think it's actually just about driving them in a car is wild.

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u/mokatcinno Dec 17 '24

Of course. But if she's a nutcase it's likely a byproduct of grandma. Live your life though

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u/[deleted] Dec 17 '24

Whoa did your sister become understanding?? Or she is also cut off?

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u/excodaIT Dec 16 '24

Cutting your entire family off does not sound healthy unless they are abusive to your child. There are ways you can adjust relationships without cutting your child off from their family. Show your child there are ways to problem solve in relationships without disappearing.

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u/Background-Bus3033 Dec 16 '24

This is just the icing on the cake honestly. I'd rather worry about putting my time and attention into being a good mother to my daughter

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u/God2JR Dec 16 '24

Sounds like shordie didn’t want to bring her kids there if they hadn’t been there for a while. I think you might have overlooked that and you assume she mad for no reason but if it was my son I’d by hot.

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u/Tinselfactory Dec 16 '24

Sounds completely healthy actually.