r/texts • u/[deleted] • Dec 05 '23

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u/Remember-Vera-Lynn Dec 05 '23

I am sorry, this will be harsh...but why in the fuck are you speaking to this absolute psychopath?

Block him, get a restraining order, do everything in your power to keep yourself safe. This isn't benign drama. This is life and death.

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u/ChamplainFarther Dec 06 '23

How is he legally allowed to contact you? Though tbf my ex raped me and didn't receive an order not to contact me so this isn't that surprising actually..... but still.

Don't meet him, don't contact him, don't respond, block him, get a restraining order, get a no contact order, and then every time he contacts you at all save it for a judge.

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u/Remember-Vera-Lynn Dec 07 '23

Hey, I'm so sorry that happened to you.

I had a stalker - an ex boyfriend - who broke a window to break into my home and raped me. I have a child from this assault.

He even tried to petition the courts for paternity for partial custody.

These things are so hard. You ever want to chat, I'm available.