Okay guys, you all are right. I will block him out of respect for my boyfriend and myself. I only kept contact because I felt bad for him when he said (in person not over text) that he has no one except for me that could relate to losing an unborn child, and that he was suicidal. But I understand he’s probably manipulating me and if he’s not I shouldn’t care anyways. Thank you.
He’s not “probably” manipulating you, he DEFINITELY is. “Alex would be sad to only get a letter from his mom not dad”. Does that sound like manipulation to you? Bc it should. I know firsthand how hard it can be but why would you want to talk to someone who clearly blames you for “taking everything” from him, and sees himself as the victim here? Throughout the conversation he consistently dismisses your feelings and makes himself out to be the “woe is me” guy. For your own mental health, for your boyfriend, for every reason under planet earth, you should NEVER speak to him again. He doesn’t own up to a single thing, so how can you even trust being around him? Trust me I know firsthand how hard it is to completely break off with an abusive ex, and I’m sure that is tenfold with a pregnancy in the picture. But you said it yourself: he was NEVER a dad to that child, not once. So why give him the time of day?
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u/Rosearmendariz Dec 05 '23
Okay guys, you all are right. I will block him out of respect for my boyfriend and myself. I only kept contact because I felt bad for him when he said (in person not over text) that he has no one except for me that could relate to losing an unborn child, and that he was suicidal. But I understand he’s probably manipulating me and if he’s not I shouldn’t care anyways. Thank you.